| Which is best a Dirty women in bed or a submissive one? Posted: 6/7/2007 8:04:36 AM | Dirty women...sounds dirty! How about a clean lady with a dirty mind and thoughts? But then again a being submissive does not mean a dead lay...sometimes it's nice just nice to lay there and be pampered | |
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| Which is best a Dirty women in bed or a submissive one? Posted: 6/7/2007 8:05:35 AM | Marmite is horrible, vegemite is much better.
I can be both in the same session..split personalities! and I am enjoyed both ways in sure.
Getting a unanimous vote on which kind of sex is better is not going to happen. | |
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| Which is best a Dirty women in bed or a submissive one? Posted: 6/7/2007 8:08:14 AM | | What is wrong with both? Switching it up from time to time never hurt. It keeps things interesting. I am the type of girl who enjoys it slow, gentle and loving. Or i can get in the moods where i just want it hard, sweaty, thrust inside me while you pound me against the wall type of sex. | |
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| Which is best a Dirty women in bed or a submissive one? Posted: 6/7/2007 8:53:03 AM | Why do we have to label "sex" as dirty at all???????......
Creative sex between consenting adults doing varied and sundry acts, is all good in my mind......
I enjoy giving and getting depending on the mood, place, activity, and freedom to do so.... Life is to short not to enjoy each other and what we want from each other to please and be pleased......
I say go for whatever makes you happy, just as long as it makes your partner happy too!!!!!......
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| Which is best a Dirty women in bed or a submissive one? Posted: 6/7/2007 8:53:31 AM | babe, Nice 'blindfold' too for having no pic, but I digress. I've yet to meet a take-charge sort of woman, and I believe that I'd welcome the change ...including one w/ a bit of kink. Even if a woman's a devout submissive, I'd still like more 'direction for my erection'.
Speak up or moan significantly during the act, and I will not likely 'lose it' by guessing incorrectly. This man doesn't like working 'in the dark' ...and for naught on his partner's behalf, so why keep me there? | |
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| Which is best a Dirty women in bed or a submissive one? Posted: 6/7/2007 9:39:52 AM | | Thanx for all the answers guys,guess the only thinng i can do is try dif things to keep it spiced up and keep it alive. The other thing for me is to have fun and not so serious in bed cause its sposed to be fun right so ill keep on doing what im doing but might just do a whole lot of more finding out. | |
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| Which is best a Dirty women in bed or a submissive one? Posted: 6/7/2007 10:50:31 AM | Well Johnny Prophet I am a total submissive woman and anything goes. I never get enough of it. My problem is some men I have been with won t do the things I want done to me so they not last long with me
See. You proved my point. If the one who is 'dominant' won't "do the things" you "want done", then they won't "last long" with you. He has to do what YOU want, or you won't submit.
If you were *REALLY* submissive, you'd be happy with whatever you got. If he didn't want to do the things that you want done to you, you'd say, "Well, my master doesn't want me to have that pleasure, so I will abstain." Having demands is NOT submission.
[edit] I'm not saying there's anything wrong with NOT submitting, I just don't like being in a 'dominant/submissive' relationship because the dominant one is the one who has to do all the work. I prefer an equal, flexible, enthusiastic partner. | |
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| Which is best a Dirty women in bed or a submissive one? Posted: 6/7/2007 10:53:31 AM |
btw Johnny prophet do you ask your partner what she likes and the way she wants it..is it a mutual thing????.......having a partner is exploring, experieramenting and enjoying
Yes, I am quite astute at finding out exactly what my partner does and does not like (even though most women will NOT come out and admit what they like and you have to infer it or find it out via trial and error). I make it my goal to go above and beyond all expectations my partner may have. I'm all for exploring, experimenting and enjoying one another. | |
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| Which is best a Dirty women in bed or a submissive one? Posted: 6/7/2007 11:21:17 AM | Sometimes I like wild, and sometimes submissive. It just depends on what's going on at the moment. I like to tie up, and to be tied up.
The only things I don't like are women who cannot kiss, cannot use their hands properly, and cannot respond to my movements. For me, touch is like a conversation. I don't need a monologue. I can do that all by myself.
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| Which is best a Dirty women in bed or a submissive one? Posted: 6/7/2007 11:33:03 AM | | I like to think that being dirty and wild in bed are not incompatible with being submissive. Of course, being tied up does nothing for me, so I don't prefer that type of "dirty and wild." *chuckle* | |
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| Which is best a Dirty women in bed or a submissive one? Posted: 6/7/2007 11:38:14 AM |
I'd love to know what guys prefer in bed, do you like a women to be dirty and wild in bed or submissive. I know i like to get my guy tied up so i can get my way with him and just wondered if other guys like it romantic or wild?
Why not mix the two? I never kiss and tell, but the reality is: sometimes people can be both, it just depends upon the situation and the wants/needs/desires of the parties involved.  | |
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| Which is best a Dirty women in bed or a submissive one? Posted: 7/26/2007 8:17:14 AM | Wild and uninhibited can be thrilling and fun, but submissive, if it's the real thing, is a total oneness, a symbiotic meeting of the ying and the yang.
I'm not talking about "scening", which gets old in a hurry, but if there is that meeting of dominant and submissive in an intimate relationship, it's the ultimate in intimacy, to the point that "orgasm" is almost secondary, because the connection is so intense.
If it were about just having a sexual relationship with someone, with no vision to it becoming a LTR, the "dirty" girl type would be more pleasurable for the first few times. I value and respect that kind of woman, who brings joy to a man, and accepts in return. For the long run, though, I crave a submissive. | |
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| Which is best a Dirty women in bed or a submissive one? Posted: 7/26/2007 8:29:36 AM | I used to get caught saying, "If Sex ain't Dirty, then you're doing it Wrong!"
That was mostly as a joke, but the reality is like what most people are saying, "Variety is the spice of life....err, in this case..... Love Making!"
Mix it up, turn it over, kiss it, stroke it.....make her purrrrr!
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| Which is best a Dirty women in bed or a submissive one? Posted: 7/26/2007 10:30:14 AM | I'd love to know what guys prefer in bed, do you like a women to be dirty and wild in bed or submissive. I know i like to get my guy tied up so i can get my way with him and just wondered if other guys like it romantic or wild?
Hmm, dont laugh please, but what am I missing? Don't most people just get naked, snuggle up and kiss and cuddle and the guy gets a hardon and the lady gets lubricated, and to extend foreplay the guy teases and cuddles and kisses for another minute and then you link anthroprogenic sexual modules for the astral coupling and return to the realm of Earth?
if it's the real thing, is a total oneness, a symbiotic meeting of the ying and the yang. THATS WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT, except without the dominant submissive role playing attire. I save money on whips and chains. Really, honestly as a self-professed juggernaut, I really beleive my Extraterrestrial Anthroprogenic Coupling will replace bd/sm within a couple years as THE SEXUAL SPIRITUAL APEX. If you guys haven't tried, start out as wannabees, and just imagine how you will end up like this
an intimate relationship, it's the ultimate in intimacy, to the point that "orgasm" is almost secondary, because the connection is so intense . Of course, this does take a benovealent man to take control of the space ship erection scaffold, and an obedient submissive woman who knows her place in the sperm incubator. You heard it here first, look for 'AEC' on the DVD covers.
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| Which is best a Dirty women in bed or a submissive one? Posted: 7/26/2007 5:06:31 PM |
Don't most people just get naked, snuggle up and kiss and cuddle and the guy gets a hardon and the lady gets lubricated, and to extend foreplay the guy teases and cuddles and kisses for another minute and then you link anthroprogenic sexual modules for the astral coupling and return to the realm of Earth?
Obviously, you said that to be facetious, but there really are women and men, who think like that. WOMEN who view it that way, are the ones I wouldn't want any part of. I love a night with a "dirty" girl, the "dirtier" the better, and of course, my ideal would be a true d/s relationship, where the nature of each of us is the complementary opposite that makes a seamless whole. God spare me from the "lay there and let me" kind of women, though.
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| Which is best a Dirty women in bed or a submissive one? Posted: 7/26/2007 7:36:01 PM | I think... I'm just really lazy in bed, honestly I have no idea why the exes want to cum back. I am soooo lazy and I have a bad knee, I'm totally not an acrobat or double jointed, I don't get it... I'm not wild, maybe a lil submissive, clean and a lil dirty ... Well I'm a good kisser tho, maybe that's it.?...
Hey what's a purd? oh did you mean prude? Ha, I wrote prune first, then fixed it, but you don't want to be a prune in bed either, do ya? Omg i guess as we get older we could all be prunes in bed, well as long as we don't eat prunes in bed, cuz that would be bad. I get so off topic. | |
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| Which is best a Dirty women in bed or a submissive one? Posted: 7/26/2007 7:42:54 PM | One guy I was with loved talking dirty and me being somewhat rough with him, we'd kind of growl back and forth..it sounds horribly stupid but it was the best sex i've ever had.
but romantic and being so close and just kissing while you're cuddled together is amazing too.
I find it always seems to start with one and lead to the other anyways. | |
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| Which is best a Dirty women in bed or a submissive one? Posted: 7/27/2007 5:04:30 AM | right i have not read all the replies so someone may of already said this but from my experiece a dirty woman can be ether dom or sub. and a clean woman (i.e. does not shout out curse words and the like) can only really be sub.
so title and question is may be a bit pointless.
as for what i like. got to be a sub who likes to tell me what i am doing to her or where i am putting things. moaners are all well and good but after a bit of time there is only so much oooo and ahhh you can little to. as for the quiet ones whats the point. you are suppose to be liking what you are doing so show it.
just my opinion an i have my own tastes and are not every ones idea of good sex | |
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