yna6
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Joined: 5/2/2004
Msg: 76 | |
| Re: WHO PUTS OUT ON THE FIRST DATE?
Posted: 6/6/2004 7:06:43 AM | I don't want a chase, and respecting someone who does "put out" on the first date is a matter of personal taste. I can respect someone who does....personally, I prefer it! Ain't getting any younger! And it shows a bit of seriousness in your mutual desire to know one another....but that is an age thing, I guess.
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xchuck
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Joined: 6/11/2004
Msg: 77 | |
| Re: WHO PUTS OUT ON THE FIRST DATE?
Posted: 6/6/2004 3:45:34 PM | | cw...my previous statement was meant to be humorous but after looking it over i thought you might view it as cynical....i agree some men enjoy the hunt but they like the capture even better....and whether you put out on the first date or not is irrevelent to whether we respect you or not. there are guys out there who are out just for a one night stand and they are persistant....even if you make them wait 6 months and finally give in you'll never see them again. | |
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xchuck
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Joined: 6/11/2004
Msg: 79 | |
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| Re: WHO PUTS OUT ON THE FIRST DATE?
Posted: 6/6/2004 6:20:42 PM | | YUP, I DONT THINK ANY GIRL CAN EVER SAY THAT IT IS COMPLETLY WRONG. WELL UNLESS SHE IS A VIRGIN... CAUSE ALMOST EVERY GIRL AT ONE POINT HAS SLEPT WITH A MAN ON A FIRST DATE OR NOT EVEN SO MUCH A DATE... JUST HAD A ONE NITE STAND. THATS JUST PART OF OUR NATURE ANYMORE....IF YOU CANT FIND SOMEONE PERMINENT...TAKE WHAT YOU CAN GET AT THE TIME. SO YEAH I COULDNT NEVER SAY THAT I WOULDNT NEVER DO IT.... BUT AS FOR RITE NOW I AM DOING GOOD NOT DOING IT LOL. THATS CALLED....BEING STUCK AT HOME..HAS NO LIFE..CANT FIND ANYONE FOR A ONE NITE STAND LOL. | |
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yna6
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Joined: 5/2/2004
Msg: 81 | |
| Re: WHO PUTS OUT ON THE FIRST DATE?
Posted: 6/6/2004 6:28:31 PM | Jeeze...I am at the point where a one night stand would be sooooo good...
ah well...won't ahppen here...so...back to the "sisters" I guess! LOL!
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| Re: WHO PUTS OUT ON THE FIRST DATE?
Posted: 7/1/2004 4:25:00 PM | I couldn't resist telling a little story.
Since becoming divorced ten short years ago I have been looking for a partner.
I have met many women screwed most of them.....intereting thing is those I told almost all of them NOT to have sex with me on the first date.
Probably ninety percent were willing to or did.
Now that is very confusing too me.
Anfd it's not like I won't respect the woman it really is all about the respect i have for myself....I feel terrible after having sex with a stranger, and for a woman it has to be a more personal issue.
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ronfin
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Joined: 6/28/2004
Msg: 83 | |
| Re: WHO PUTS OUT ON THE FIRST DATE?
Posted: 7/1/2004 9:56:00 PM | | Hmmm, my ex went down on me while driving on the PA turnpike the first night. We were together almost 4 years. Guess it's based on individual situations. Oh yeah, I put out on the first date, and ya don't have to get me all beer'd up either. | |
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| Re: WHO PUTS OUT ON THE FIRST DATE?
Posted: 7/2/2004 1:23:42 PM | my ex would of put out the first date but i was so damn scared of diseases that i said she'd have to get a blood test.....LOL.
She did...wasn't offended, said she admired my morals...anymore i think i'll accept any offers on the first date because i'm not getting any younger. | |
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| Re: WHO PUTS OUT ON THE FIRST DATE?
Posted: 10/30/2004 12:00:20 AM | I guess you wont be describing yourself as spontaneous Chim....yeah VD is a very fkn skary thing.....but even if you get her to give blood technically she needs to wait six months.....can you imagine how fkn blue your ballz would be?
And Rubberz suck.....man what a cruel world we live in......I wonder if a person can be immune to std's prolly not huh....
I just stick too woman who keep themselves clean...do the sneaky sniff test and hope they didnt have sex with anyone dirty.....if they smell bad RUN! | |
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| Re: WHO PUTS OUT ON THE FIRST DATE?
Posted: 10/30/2004 8:25:46 AM | | I have never put out on a first date and it will be a rainy day in heck before I do. Respect me. Show me some class. Show me you want to know me and that you're not thinking with your little head. Men who are willing to date first, take time to know me, me to know them, score bigger points in the long run because they have patience and respect for both themselves and me. | |
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yna6
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Joined: 5/2/2004
Msg: 88 | |
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| Re: WHO PUTS OUT ON THE FIRST DATE?
Posted: 10/30/2004 2:51:24 PM | It's Commitment or One Night Stands?
Black or White? ... lol
Let the Magic sweep you away must be somewhere in the Grey Zone.
I'll pass on Black & White altogether! | |
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xchuck
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Joined: 6/11/2004
Msg: 90 | |
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| Re: WHO PUTS OUT ON THE FIRST DATE?
Posted: 10/30/2004 7:53:04 PM | | I put out, yes, sure but next time we go ducth..... opps you mean PUT OUT! (covers his mouth with his hand!!!) no i dont put out i am not some hussy. | |
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| Re: WHO PUTS OUT ON THE FIRST DATE?
Posted: 10/31/2004 6:40:09 PM | | i always think long term on that i dont want it only one night ,want it for a life time ! its hard to say no but being true to myself and my heart ,....but everyone is diffrent | |
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LKB
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Joined: 10/31/2004
Msg: 96 | |
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| Re: WHO PUTS OUT ON THE FIRST DATE?
Posted: 11/15/2004 9:57:17 AM | IF I LIKE THE GUY I WONT PUT OUT ON THE FIRST DATE, A HEAVY MAKE OUT SESSION IS IT.....
YOU HAVE TO HAVE THAT ANTICIPATION AND NEED AND WANT FOR THE NEXT DATES TO COME...
BUT BY ALL MEANS IF YOU HAVE NO INTENTIONS OF BEING ANYTHING SUBSTANTIAL WITH A PERSON AND YOU THINK THEY WILL GIVE YOU AND ORGASM ILL PUT OUT...... IM GREEDY.....
OF COURSE NOW THAT I HAVE FOUND THAT MAN THAT FULLFILLS ALL OF MY NEEDS AND WANTS, I WONT BE TOUCHING ANOTHER MAN EVER AGAIN....... | |
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| Re: WHO PUTS OUT ON THE FIRST DATE?
Posted: 11/15/2004 3:07:33 PM | | I am glad you found such a person Limo. I have also been as fortunate. wink wink. I promise, the anticipation, need and want I have for you is enough for a lifetime. Love ya baby! | |
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| Re: WHO PUTS OUT ON THE FIRST DATE?
Posted: 11/15/2004 3:23:26 PM | | Well alot more guys put out on the first date then girls do but personally I agree with limo and thank god it has only been once for me ................ And I have to say is there are two people in this forum that are AWESOME Friends .... LOVE YA'LL you know who you are and I am happy for the both of ya'll ... I aint wearin a dress to ya'lls wedding now | |
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w8in4u
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Joined: 10/11/2004
Msg: 100 | |
| Re: WHO PUTS OUT ON THE FIRST DATE?
Posted: 11/16/2004 4:13:14 PM | [Well alot more guys put out on the first date then girls do]
I just love that statement. I'm assuming you are including gay men in deduction, excluding gay women, otherwise wouldn't the same number of men as women be putting out on their first date?
Just curious. | |
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