| Re: WHO PUTS OUT ON THE FIRST DATE?
Posted: 12/2/2004 1:13:18 AM | "I slept with my husband of 12 years on our first date."
well i am confused...
sites purpose "Online Dating & Personals"
your married and on this site??
if you said " my ex-husband" then i would fully understand...
not trying to hack on yas or anything just confused..
i do like the *safety* comments in your post ...
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| Re: WHO PUTS OUT ON THE FIRST DATE?
Posted: 12/2/2004 2:37:49 AM |  This is so true...so if I am not looking for a serious relationship, sleep with the guy on the first date...hmmm...think I can handle this...we all need to get laid...naturally we are all human beings who need intimacy in our lives...without it, I would go mad...Sex on the first date does come out and it could be the best time of our lives especially if we have been single for a long period of time or had bad sex with a past relationship...LOL...yeah! Who wouldn't put our than?   | |
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| Re: WHO PUTS OUT ON THE FIRST DATE?
Posted: 12/2/2004 4:30:29 AM | one comment i would like to make...
anyone to blame there partner for the bad sex in a relationship is in essence a *lame* lover...
obviously you have to talk with your partner and tell them what your needs are....
further more i find nearly all the folks who make this comment tend to not even understand there own bodies let alone the other sex...
an example...
this girl told me her boyfriend didnt know what he was doing.....she then began to fill me in as to there sexual activities....for the most part it was vanilla which is what i like myself but i noticed she was suggesting her "job" was to basically move move arround/act/make a few noises......asking this girl if she understood her own mechanics....she didnt.....she had a fairly good idea the location of her g spot...but she didnt realize the dynamics of it.....as in she said something like..."that g spot on me doesnt work...it is too uncomfortable to me when he applies pressure there" obviously she didnt realize that her body needs time to *warm up* and create some blood flow to this area.....later after telling her a few pre *warm up* activites to try out with her boyfriend she was able to acheive deep sexual stimulation/orgasms with him....and this was 4 years back and they seem very happy with each other...
but why on earth would this girl talk to a friend...and truely i wasnt much of a friend, over simply beeing intimate with her partner??
myself, i think one of the greatest things to do when i am with somone i care about is to share my fantasies and to maybe plan them out just a bit .....tell them what i want to try on them....give them feedback as to how they are doing....that myself is more intimate then any physical act....
ah...also i would like to be clear on one thing
there is only one g spot on a girl....not sure why but i seen in other threads where women *think* they have more then one g spot...
it is located in the tissue above the vaginal wall surrounding the urethra (the tummy side)...its soft but rigid tissue which unstimulated is about the size of a dime but with propper stimulation will swell to the size of a quarter...
the other *spots* are part of the "erogenous zones"...which includes the g-spot...
also included are ...breast/nipple, clitoral, vaginal, mouth, anal, urethral...and i tend to add my own.....skin and the ole brain:)
so what is the point of this post i make??
so far i see none of you making any real progress with this thread...in essence we have one nighters because some of us are unable to achieve stimulation in log term relations ....maybe we need to look at ourselves to satisfy this urge...
and before some keyboard jockey makes some attempt at correcting me.....if you are in a succesful long term realtionship why in hell are you wasting yer time reading my dribble???
teehee
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| WHO PUTS OUT ON THE FIRST DATE?
Posted: 12/2/2004 11:42:39 AM | | it is all based on the moment. if everything feels right, and nothing else exsists in the universe except the person in front of you......and the feelings are mutual......let the animal instincts take over. | |
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| WHO PUTS OUT ON THE FIRST DATE?
Posted: 12/2/2004 4:07:49 PM | no names mentioned of course....
but from a few responds/posts in this thread i think we can all safely say that having sexual relations on the first date is more about physcial attraction then mental.....and by some i would also come to the conclusion without alchohol none of this would even happen....
teehee
and thank you *club'rs* (dragging back to cave...) for your detailed insight....you allow others to see more clearly the reasons why *one nighters* tend to loose there value once the hang over starts.....
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| Re: WHO PUTS OUT ON THE FIRST DATE?
Posted: 7/10/2006 2:27:47 PM | I reallly don't think the word slut comes to mind . I think people just have to stick to their convictions despite the hour, despite your condition, in spite of the way you want to just want to do it..... The correct way to conduct oneself is to not do it on the first date. anyway, that is all I gotta say.  | |
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| Re: WHO PUTS OUT ON THE FIRST DATE?
Posted: 7/21/2006 11:54:05 PM | well women should know that men need to feel respected for these urges to surrender or retreat. It s all about choices. And yes I was with a man like that, for several years. HOt . cold. hot. cold.
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| Re: WHO PUTS OUT ON THE FIRST DATE?
Posted: 7/22/2006 12:39:27 AM | I've "put out" on the first date a grand total of two times.
The first time I did it, everything from that point on became about sex... Which isn't necesarily a bad thing, but it just wasn't really enough for me.
The second time it happened everything turned out fine and dandy.
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