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 Whothehellknows

Joined: 7/23/2006
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Does one's financial debt influence your choice in a potential mate?
Posted: 6/9/2007 7:15:28 PM

Sure, in theory you can get credit, but who is going to lease a car to someone with an R9 rating? Who is going to give a credit card to someone with that rating? Bankruptcy is death for your credit. It stays on your history for 7 years. But what is worse, is that after those 7 years, your credit history is blank. And there is only one reason why someone would have a blank credit history at such a point in life - a previous bankruptcy.


Tigger, you need to read up on this subject before you start posting messages as fact. Bankruptcy is a really bad move for most, but for some it is actually in their best interest.

You still have credit, just bad credit. There are plenty of places that thrive on people with bad credit. And while it will stay on your report for 7 years, if a person pays their debts and turns over a new leaf, it really is not the deal killer you think it is after a few years.
 This is Now

Joined: 12/4/2006
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Does one's financial debt influence your choice in a potential mate?
Posted: 6/9/2007 7:21:43 PM
I'm owed money but it's all tangled up in a bureaucratic mess that makes me avoid action. Made three half-hearted efforts but just wind up more stressed out than anything else.

Apart from up $100 loans from time to time from friends or family I owe nothing so I like to live on whatever cash I have and then that's it...make do without it.

I think my situation is a little too austere for most guys and whatever problems they have with their finances aren't any of my business.
 tiggertiger

Joined: 3/5/2007
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Does one's financial debt influence your choice in a potential mate?
Posted: 6/9/2007 8:22:47 PM

Tigger, you need to read up on this subject before you start posting messages as fact.


I think you need to read up on bankruptcy laws in Ontario. Then you will know the facts as they pertain to me. Which trustee in bankruptcy, practicing in Ontario, did you consult? In Ontario, if you declare bankruptcy you are essentially locked out of the credit system for a very long time - 7 years of bad credit, R9, then you start from scratch with no credit, no cards, no loans, nothing.

Big price to pay, so big that the only justification is if the servicing of the debt makes paying for living expenses impossible.
 FredHH

Joined: 1/24/2007
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Does one's financial debt influence your choice in a potential mate?
Posted: 6/9/2007 8:58:47 PM
actually sounds more appropriate than US bankruptcy laws... which while recently changed to make it more difficult to file.... are still tooo easy on dead beats.

The ease with which people in the US can clear thier credit via bankruptcy is part of why credit card companies in the US have to charge 20%+ interest and draconian fees.
 juice4041

Joined: 6/2/2007
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Does one's financial debt influence your choice in a potential mate?
Posted: 6/9/2007 9:01:34 PM
I don’t have a problem with debt as long as the person has control over the situation.
If she's looking for me to pay debt created prior to us
getting together then it's not going to work.
There are a million ways to create and get rid of debt.
A good match for me could have lots of debt.

The real question is..
Does the person understand how money works?
Is she willing to communicate with me about finances?
Do they have a financial plan?
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