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Posted: 11/23/2007 10:14:10 AM |
That is precisely why one should NEVER give out personal information to anyone on the net, including personal phone numbers. In this age of identity theft and stalkers, the last thing you want is some psycho tracking where you live and obtain all your personal information. Just because someone give s you a cell phone # doesn't make them a player. It could mean he's just smart enough to know not to give out a home number.
I have to agree with this post. Why stop at county records? Why not hire Peter Gunn to track follow and photograph the person??? Holy S**t, it would totally freak me out to find that before I had met someone I was just interested in dating, had run complete background checks with cross references before our first coffee... And it would be a shame if I had liked her, because that would have been the end of any association I would have had with said person. 
Most of the time they will fall short somewhere ... ummm, between the legs perhaps????
You must be blessed, obviously you are perfect in every way, good luck finding someone who "measures up" to your standards.  | |
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Posted: 11/23/2007 10:55:19 AM | I agree with oddsrhuge. There is alot of truth to "paranoia will destroy ya".
I've been on these sites for over 4 years now and have met my share of scary women. I am careful because of it, but not to the point of living in a cave where I can never hope to be found.
I have met far more nice people than wierdos and have had a couple of rewarding relationships through the internet.  | |
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Posted: 11/23/2007 1:17:17 PM | I once heard that female instinct is God's gift to women to help us avoid the predetors that are men.
IMO-Every guy is capable, just give them the opportunity. Use your instincts and remember there are plenty of fish in the sea.
Happy Fishing!
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Posted: 11/23/2007 8:27:48 PM | Dear Heartbreaking12,
If every guy were capable, given the opportunity, I would be in jail for some predatory crime I'm sure. I have known lots of ladies, mostly kept at the friendship stage and have never once entertained the thought of stalking anyone. If they don't want me, I don't want them. I have been hurt and done the hurting (I try very hard to avoid hurting) I can't be the only guy out here that cares about people enough to leave them alone if they so desire. | |
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Posted: 11/23/2007 9:05:51 PM | ^^^^ PP I meant every guy is capable...of leaving a woman, playing a woman, being a complete and total****ead. Men are predators, and like I said before women just have to know how much they are willing to put up with the predatory attitude.
I am quite sure that when you did the hurting, the woman you hurt thought you were a****ead.
JMHO-though
Happy Fishing!
Heart
Edit: Odds....it is quite difficult being perfect in everyway, almost chore-like. ;) | |
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Posted: 11/25/2007 6:08:50 AM | Hey r u the 1, sorry to hear about you being played. I am sure you deserve much much better than that. I can't imagine what satisfaction the player gets out of this game. And still from my perspective it's soo hard to get women to just talk, eventhough I'm as sincere as white on rice. Nonetheless, I'm patient, and I hope you don't change because of this ass (the player) and his cowardness to accept who he is and show that to the world.
Keep smiling
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Posted: 1/21/2008 8:42:54 PM | This is my first time responding to one of these' I was curious. I disagree with the meet for a coffee as being classified under Driveby Date" Why would someone want to spend time with another such as a dinner' when you most likely have realized within the first 5 minutes that what are are hoping for is not there. Some people say things or show pictures that are not who they look like nor act. Example....I met some one at a place who said she didn't smoke or drink' I had been coversing with this person aprox 2 wks. We met' she didn't look at all like her picture she was smoking and ordered a drink the moment we were seated. I felt deceieved yet was obligated to stay for dinner. I'm not directing towards women I'm sure some men are the same' however to meet for a drink,...coffee, beer,****ail whatever is enough time to at least feel (for both) if there may be somethere there' if so then move on to the next step. And when you meet the next time you know your going to want to be there' without reservations of looking for a way out or feeling any pressue nor obligations. Just my opinion' guess we all have them.
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Posted: 1/22/2008 8:39:05 AM | | I agree that the meet and greet should be kept simple such as coffee and perhaps in a restaurant that would allow you to extend the meeting to something a bit more substantial if you both chose to. You can always find coffee shops within the vicinity of a restaurant. | |
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Posted: 1/22/2008 3:52:40 PM | | Right on Ruamoremio! Keep it simple. Any smart guy SHOULD BE what is considered a" PLAYER". You dont want to be stuck with the first girl to bat her eyes at you. That can spell disaster. Date around, have fun, find the BEST one that bats her eyes. After you find the one THEN settle down. Thats all Im sayin... | |
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Posted: 1/23/2008 4:52:42 AM | Online that's a good one! I have to say yea if they take a while IM you then they are on line chatting to other girls but are you too?
It's harder on computer than real life, Real life they won't take you to yheir home, make plans and have no follow thru, have their phone swithed off or unreachable for hours or a day til they get back to you, sweet talk the hell outa you! But all in all I agree you are smitten and in too deep before you realise you gotta get outa there! | |
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Posted: 1/23/2008 9:00:49 PM | | Here are some translations that might help you in your search for a real person: "just want to keep it light" means that he's not likely to demonstrate depth of character; "not ready for a serious relationship" means that he's playing the field; selection of the pull-down categories "Dating," "Hang Out," or "Friends" (a word that many people throw around) means that you're likely to be nothing more than an entry on the flavor-of-the-month/week/day roster; "I'm not into email" means that he's not patient, thoughtful, or expressive (although it can also mean that he can't type); "let's just meet and go from there" means that he's likely to make snap judgments and/or focus on appearances and how they relate to his ego structure; "here's my email - can I have yours" (right away after a first contact) means that you might be dealing with a controlling, presumptuous person (or a dangerous one); and last but not least, "let's keep it open" means that you're not interesting enough, or that he's too restless for a real relationship. THIS GUIDE SHOULD BE APPLIED TO BOTH SEXES. | |
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Posted: 1/23/2008 9:17:57 PM | Player Cues...
Hey blonde_fun_cute:
Hmmm...What makes you think 'players' are gender specific? What are YOU playing at?
Just curious.....lol. | |
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