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 mich_mix02

Joined: 5/28/2007
Msg: 26
What would our kids think
Posted: 6/11/2007 10:51:41 AM
Details? I fear I might put ideasin my kids heads that I would rather they find out about when they are a bit older!! LOL!!
 Gotmail?

Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 27
What would our kids think
Posted: 6/11/2007 2:25:54 PM
When I first started to date, my oldest son was going to be in town for Thanksgiving and I knew he would meet the guy, so I told him I was dating someone. He said, "That's cool mom, I wondered which one of you would meet someone first". Totally floored me. I think he KNEW it would NOT be his father.(He was 21 at that time). My daughter who is now 17 lives with her father overseas. A bit ago, I asked her casually if her father had a gf. Not meaning anything really, but just casually asked. She said....."What would he want a gf for?" LOLOLOL
 januaryrain

Joined: 4/8/2007
Msg: 28
What would our kids think
Posted: 6/11/2007 3:14:03 PM
My 32 year old son is the one that suggest I go on this site.
If he stumbles across some of my posts, I'm sure he would not be surprized.
Well maybe tying the tatas, he would expect more of a response, I'm having a off day.
 ksue44

Joined: 6/20/2005
Msg: 29
What would our kids think
Posted: 6/11/2007 4:17:43 PM
I figure my parents had sex 4 times. They produced 4 of us kids. There are stranger things than old people having sex.
What would our kids think
Posted: 6/11/2007 4:32:37 PM
My daughter is happy for me but we don't discuss intimate details. Don't need to really since she is 43 and should be able to figure it out.
 Twisted Sister

Joined: 6/5/2007
Msg: 31
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What would our kids think
Posted: 6/11/2007 7:15:35 PM
My daughter is 36 with three kids, so I don't think there are any details which would cause her to fall down in shock.
 dannyebreeze

Joined: 5/20/2007
Msg: 32
What would our kids think
Posted: 6/11/2007 8:06:57 PM
yea the kids would say, how did you spell it eeeeeuuuuwww, and more if they knew, parents are supposed to not even know about that, ha,ha, better hide in the car for that.
 Beaming

Joined: 3/28/2007
Msg: 33
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What would our kids think
Posted: 6/12/2007 8:48:53 AM
Lemme tell you, my kids don't even want to know that I'm interested in men at all. Mind you, these are the same kids who tell me about their own problems in the bedroom and expect me to listen carefully and offer suggestions. But if I should mention meeting a new man..... Both say they want me to be happy--they just don't want any details.

If they knew the thoughts I have sometimes or ever saw some things I've written......Well, I'll be they'd be willing to adopt me out.
 LAXLady

Joined: 2/14/2007
Msg: 34
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What would our kids think
Posted: 6/12/2007 2:46:05 PM
I have a 25 year old daughter who knows and understands relationships and sexual activity. I also have a 16 year old who understands, but I know he thinks...eeeeeewwwww,,,yuck. Not my Mom...she's old!
I have learned not to talk about MY SEXUALITY in front of them! Although both think nothing of joking about their own sexuality!
 MeloFelo

Joined: 6/9/2007
Msg: 35
What would our kids think
Posted: 6/12/2007 3:03:48 PM
I've tried my best to share with my daughters (ages 24, 19), the "wisdom" that has come from living an imperfect life. I've told them, in non-specific terms, the mistakes I've made, and learned from, in the hopes that they'll avoid having to learn things the hard way.

That's relevant to this, in that, what I've portrayed to them about my life, after the divorce from their mother, is that I can "relate" to the confusion, uncertainty, delights, and disappointments of "dating", and can also, first hand, share with them how easy it can be to get all caught up with a "whacko". LOL

So, yeah, they "know", without "knowing", that I sometimes have a "sex life". I don't get specific, or draw pictures for them, but I don't feel a need to hide it from them either.
 ankkka

Joined: 5/5/2007
Msg: 36
What would our kids think
Posted: 6/12/2007 3:53:26 PM
My kids would say...Mom ..are you crazy???hahaha...probably...little...
 Krekker50

Joined: 4/14/2004
Msg: 37
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What would our kids think
Posted: 6/12/2007 7:40:29 PM
My kids would say, its about time you got layed
 MapleSweet

Joined: 10/6/2006
Msg: 38
What would our kids think
Posted: 6/12/2007 8:01:36 PM
My daughters (28 & 30) are both glad that I'm participating on a dating site. Neither one of them has anything negative to say about it, and are hopeful that someday I will find somebody that treats me as nice as I treat them (as they so eloquently put it.) The times I did actually have a date, they'd razz the heck out of me, and I heard it about being home by midnight, and all that kind of stuff. I almost choked on my tea when the youngest started on 'being careful' and reciting the same dating and sex talk I apparently gave them somewhere down the line, lol. They're ok with it all, and their good natured teasing is ok with me too. We've always been able to talk about anything, nothing is verboten. It's nice to realize they don't think I'm too old for anything that life might bring me. Their wishes (and jokes) are warmly appreciated!
 SimplySweet45

Joined: 4/19/2007
Msg: 39
What would our kids think
Posted: 6/23/2007 12:07:20 PM
I am head admin of a league online and interact with people of all ages daily. Whenever adults talk *sex* in lobby chat we get the same response "ewwwwwwww"
 MeloFelo

Joined: 6/9/2007
Msg: 40
What would our kids think
Posted: 6/23/2007 12:56:09 PM

Whenever adults talk *sex* in lobby chat we get the same response "ewwwwwwww"


They have sex in Canada too? Wow, our countries are more alike than some people realize. :)
 SimplySweet45

Joined: 4/19/2007
Msg: 41
What would our kids think
Posted: 6/23/2007 1:01:09 PM

They have sex in Canada too? Wow, our countries are more alike than some people realize. :)


Ohhhhh yes!! business is booming...but we are still quit different...we don't have Hillary lol
 MeloFelo

Joined: 6/9/2007
Msg: 42
What would our kids think
Posted: 6/23/2007 1:06:50 PM

we are still quit different...we don't have Hillary lol


Back in the day, you had that prime minister's wife. Was it Margaret Trudeau? Anyway, there was an upskirt pic of her, with her not wearing panties, and, speaking of oral sex, it sure looked good enough to eat.
 SimplySweet45

Joined: 4/19/2007
Msg: 43
What would our kids think
Posted: 6/23/2007 1:09:47 PM

Back in the day, you had that prime minister's wife. Was it Margaret Trudeau? Anyway, there was an upskirt pic of her, with her not wearing panties, and, speaking of oral sex, it sure looked good enough to eat.


Lmao, You crack me up...but your on the wrong thread
 MeloFelo

Joined: 6/9/2007
Msg: 44
What would our kids think
Posted: 6/23/2007 1:14:22 PM

Lmao, You crack me up...but your on the wrong thread


You're right. I could reword it, to make it about what my kids would think, but I'm kind of stuck on thinking about Canadian women I have "known" (biblically). Catch me later on the revisions. LOL
 Tigger59

Joined: 7/30/2005
Msg: 45
What would our kids think
Posted: 6/24/2007 8:13:34 AM
My oldest son is at the age now where we can talk about most everything, including our sex lives or lack of one. My other two don't want to hear details even tho they are aware that I may be old but I'm not dead yet.
 lucidmoments

Joined: 2/7/2007
Msg: 46
What would our kids think
Posted: 6/24/2007 8:21:40 AM
LOL Maggie1947! That's the luxury of having daughters! Us women want details don't we? But sons of mothers usually don't want to think anything sexual is going on with their Mom....with Dad or anyone else either!
 cdn_guy

Joined: 3/6/2007
Msg: 47
What would our kids think
Posted: 6/24/2007 12:42:47 PM
I usually don't give kids a chance to say anything. Just a few weeks back, as a friend's grown son entered the room, I said to my friend: "Aaaahh geez, the kids are home. C'mon. Let's go find somewhere to neck." I was meeting that boy for the first time, I might add. I think it's important to set the precedent early.

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 bucsgirl

Joined: 5/13/2006
Msg: 48
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What would our kids think
Posted: 6/24/2007 12:46:35 PM
My kids (all adults) are interested and at least a bit protective. Don't want the details, but seem to be fine as long as I'm not being mistreated and I'm happy.
 MeloFelo

Joined: 6/9/2007
Msg: 49
What would our kids think
Posted: 6/24/2007 7:14:26 PM
My kids would think it's cool that Al Gore invented sex, to go along with his internet invention thingy. They would probably be astonished to hear that they have sex in Canada too. It was nice for Al Gore to fly in his Lear Jet and ride in his limousine, all the way to Canada, as a break from telling us all that we have to ride bicycles, or we will threaten the atmosphere that he invented for us.
 SimplySweet45

Joined: 4/19/2007
Msg: 50
What would our kids think
Posted: 6/25/2007 9:51:09 AM
If I *woulda* had a a dollar for everytime I *shoulda* I *coulda* bought Al Gore a bicycle. The the environmentalist would be happy. Then I would try to figure out why MeloFelo's kids are oblivious to the fact Canadians have Sex.
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