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Posted: 6/10/2007 8:34:16 PM | LOL ditto the above poster. Most people with ANY self respect dont sleep with total strangers on first meeting. Its common sense even If you dont have a lot of hope for anything bar a quick shag for yourself. Each to their own but really odds are highly against It .. and If you do him how many others have been done that week or month. It goes for both sexes.. few people want anything handed out for free Immed. And If they do get it they seldom appreciate It or keep It long.
But as for the psycho games well OP maybe you shouldnt be sleeping with these women who look nothing like their pics and arnt very nice? Or just be honest say Ill shag u but thats It, you sure arnt someone I will end up with   | |
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Posted: 6/10/2007 8:38:50 PM |
I said i wan't doing anything wrong...dating until i meet someone i want o goout with... For starters, maybe don't have sex with someone until you meet someone you want to go out with.
Kim probably thought it meant something and while I don't condone her way of going about it, she may have done it to find out if she'd made a mistake doin' the nasty.
Don't forget many women equate sex with a guy's interest in her, so if you aren't feeling like a current date is going to be special, don't sleep with her!
Yes. You did something wrong. | |
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Posted: 6/10/2007 8:43:47 PM |
OH Timmy get out of the stone age. Never had sex on a first date?
Of course I have, but the guy who started this thread seems shocked that something like this would happen after having sex on the first date. It's either that or you never hear from them again. | |
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Posted: 6/11/2007 5:05:32 AM | | @lynmaher I have heard of self respect and I am always amazed at the assumptions of someones character because they had sex on a first date. Much like you are doing right now lynmaher. | |
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Posted: 6/11/2007 8:21:15 AM | Maybe I am old fashioned but I believe that two people should talk before they have sex, just to make sure that they are on the same page. Personally, I wouldn't have sex on the first date and if a guy tried to rush into anything than I would be gone and not look back. You got lucky on the first date and then planned another, while still playing the field.
Creating a fake profile might not have been the best tactic for finding out where you stand, and is rather immature but if you would have talked about where you stand at some point during the date than you wouldn't have had to write this posting. | |
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Posted: 6/11/2007 8:41:12 AM | She has only created a fake profile to catch out guys!!!
Looks like you found what you were looking for "a hot girl!" and she was so hot you got burned.
and that is why internet dating is not the best. Most girls I have met off here have not been anything like the pics and only one or two have been anything like nice!!!
Now you have sour grapes for every woman... unbelievable.
Learn something... get over it... dust yourself off, clean up your act and move on. 
"Success is learning to deal with Plan B"--author unknown | |
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Posted: 6/11/2007 11:11:29 AM | Ok i don't agree with the game playing you either trust or you dont and she didn't trust you , so just be glad your out of there. As for sex on the first date wtf she also had sex with you . You are not in a relationship untill you have the talk about being exclusive so if you want to date othere women go ahead.
Men also feel that way if you fu*k once your comitted to them.
I dont beleive shes a psycho just a very insecure women . | |
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Posted: 6/11/2007 11:31:36 AM | Aligirl- so what DOES constitute self respect and good character??? "By their fruits you shall know them"! If all I know of your CHARACTER is that you screw on the first date, I'd say your character IS lacking in self respect!!! Is your body worth so little that you share it with someone the very first time you go out??? If your body isn't worth anything, which is ALL you ever have to physically share, then of course I can tell your character.! Shallow, irresponsible, de-valued!
Ever hear of AIDS dear??? Condoms break!
Grow up! You and the OP should stop behaving like wild animals spreading your legs (in your case) and sharing your intimate private body parts with whoever comes along!
THAT my dear does tell your character- or lack of it!  | |
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Posted: 6/11/2007 12:45:18 PM | hey Amber not too sure why you are getting all bent around the axles! My comment was based on someone jumping into the thread and essentially saying that because someone had sex on a first date this was an indication of their character, as well as the good old double standard, note that there was no comment made towards the male who also had sex on the first date by the poster who made the comment. There was no way any one could make any assumption based on what one party in a scenario that had more than one side of the story said happened. And how you made the gigantic leap from my comment to another poster as to what my sexual habits are is frankly a little presumptuous on your part. So perhaps you should take your own advice and grow up and stop making assumptions based on nothing more than a comment. Wow some people's kids and their self righteous behaviour...... You know nothing about my character. I however seem to be able to make a pretty good assesment on yours by your behaviour in this thread. | |
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Posted: 6/11/2007 12:58:15 PM | Wow...I apreciate the comments...really!. I won't change my settings to Intimate Encounter though, as i really am looking for someone special...just not met her yet. Believe me she said, "Even if I never see you again, I don't care I am going to have you tonight"!
what would you do? | |
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Posted: 6/11/2007 1:01:21 PM | Lol, glad you agree with me hun, I had after all made a second date with her!
Anyway...the Comb over seems to be more popular in the US then here! you should come over and see, the guys here just shave it alloff when it starts going... | |
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Posted: 6/11/2007 1:06:29 PM | Na, I understand what she did and maybe if I liked someone more than i did I might be curious to do the same...but i wouldn't.
I did get busted but, like i mentioned previously she was alittle promiscuous that night too. Not trying to justify what I did, just never did a forum before and just was so shocked i had to share what just happend! lol worst thing...the profile of the girl who she used the next day was so so HOT! I was gutted lol | |
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Posted: 6/11/2007 1:12:49 PM | LOL,
You lot don't know...she wanted it more than me!
P.S I didn't even get dinner, she invited me straight round to hers for the first date...hello? what does that ell you...and all it cost for the date was a nice wine...but i honestly didn't have that inmy mind...i was interested, as with all the dates i go on. If i wasn't i ouldn't go. Havent you all seen the movie about the girl that castrates a guy she meets on the net??? HARD CANDY is the name! THIS MOVIE WILL MAKE YOU GUYS OUT THERE think twice before a blind date...you don't have to be into kids or otherbad things to make you think twice! | |
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Posted: 6/11/2007 1:38:37 PM |
and that is why internet dating is not the best. Most girls I have met off here have not been anything like the pics and only one or two have been anything like nice!!!
So go elsewhere if you don't like what's on offer here. In a bar, club, pub, singles dance,whatever! you can at least see first what they look like. As time goes on you may( or may not!) find that the gal has "issues"( like other boyfriends, up to her ass in debt, dishonest, or just plain "psycho") but by golly you will know what she looks like.
And I don't guess human nature is much different in London as it is in North America...
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Posted: 6/12/2007 5:47:38 AM | She isn't a psycho - just a lot more clever than you - LOL!
Men do this thing also - one guy I was emailing insisted on a picture - As he had made first contact and it was obviously more important that he sees who he is talking to, I insisted that he show his photo first - at first he refused and as his emails weren't exactly very interesting I couldn't have cared less at this point whether he show his photo or not... so curiousity got the better of him and he told me "look under "profile name" and you will see my picture - admitted that he had two profiles... One being entirely different than the other except the age and location...
So there you have it... Stop feeling hard done by | |
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Posted: 6/12/2007 6:29:58 AM | wow a whole lot of mud slinging and name calling going on on here!
OP you got caught out playing the evil dating game,as stated above even your name could now be seen as playing them as old romantics dont have sex before marriage,everyone and i mean everyone is a player to some degree,people who say they dont are lying to themselves as you do it even if its subconsciously....main problem now OP is you look like you doing it in a very sly way
at the very least some women who say message me and then read and delete are playing it because if they spent 20 seconds reading then whats wrong with 5 more seconds to say no thanks.....men play it by trying their damnedest to impress when its not the real self coming through!
you got caught out and should make a plan of action to change your profile and views because 'the one' for you will do her homework and see what you have been getting up to and walk away,your loss!!
everyone else who says shouldnt have sex on the first date,have more respect for yourself and blah'd blah blah should grow up and make their points without slagging down other people...condoms break,wow buses brakes fail so does that mean you not going to ever get on a bus?knives murder people so you never going to go out with a cook just in case,you may of had a good point but you suck at putting it across
sex is sex,nothing more or less,without it you wouldnt be here,sex on first date...yeah i have done it and lasted a loooong time so no closed minded person going to tell me its wrong as we all make our own decisions,you make yours and i will make mine,keep your nastiness to yourself because if you dont then you may think you have more morals than i but you all got a lot of bad manners!
make your point,not enemies as life is to short!! | |
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Posted: 6/12/2007 6:52:14 AM |
God! there was/is no testimonial is there? It is because I reported her for having fake accounts...
There was but it looks like her account got deleted, it went with it.
Lucky you, haha, that was one of the best testimonials I've seen here. :) | |
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