| Sex gets better?
Posted: 6/17/2007 6:57:17 AM | Totally. OP, you know it. The way I see it, it's like a professional pool or snooker player. They'll spend a fortune on buying their own cue, because they play SO much better with their own cue, than just any cue. But most men don't see now good you can get with pool, so they don't bother. A cue is just a cue, to them.
Sex is the same. Most guys (and women) have NO IDEA how pleasurable sex can become there are about 50 levels in sex, and most men don't get beyond level 1. Most women barely get beyond level 2. Even Tantric Sex doesn't get to level 8.
GET A CLUE, EVERYONE! SEX GETS BETTER AND BETTER IF YOU WORK AT IT! | |
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| Sex gets better?
Posted: 6/17/2007 9:04:09 AM | | Definitely, you grow together and get to know each others needs. Sex with a long term partner is comfortable like on old pair of shoes.. Vinnie | |
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| Sex gets better?
Posted: 7/30/2007 9:08:11 PM | ABSOLUTELY!
I've experienced it. In the past two or so years me and my now ex fiance realized intense connections both physical ,psychological and emotional levels with terrific degrees of orgasm as well.Unfortunately in the long run we just couldn't "get" each other, great sex just wasn't enough to sustain the relationship .It wasn't tantric but certainly rivaled it.I believe it was a matter of the comfort of familiarity ,a fair degree of love and essentially a good physical fit. | |
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| Sex gets better?
Posted: 7/30/2007 9:37:45 PM | Trekker you rock!  thanks for saving me the typing.
Yes upallnitetoo, I find LTR relationship much better because you already know what each other likes and how they like it. Much less akward to be honest, and you can get right down and dirty sometimes... like when she's cooking in a skirt and you sneak up behind her and.... hmmm wait thats for another forum...
Simple answer is yes LTR is better but just a little, casual FWB situations also have their benefits with no obligations to be mushy about... hurry up lets get to it type situations. | |
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| Sex gets better?
Posted: 7/30/2007 10:37:08 PM | | Only if both parties work at it.............Like any "sport" you only get good if you practice practice Practise | |
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| Sex gets better?
Posted: 10/15/2007 8:10:31 AM | I totally agree with you... If you have chemistry with someone the sex can be really good. But after you are with them longer, it gets better and better. Both of you get totally comfortable with each other. And you both get more and more in tune with your parter. And you both get let inhibited. If you want to try that long term relationship, so we can see if the sex gets better, let me know!  | |
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| Sex gets better?
Posted: 10/15/2007 8:15:53 AM | ive experienved both
some relationships it got better some it got worse
soo umm in conclusion
nothing | |
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| Sex gets better?
Posted: 10/15/2007 8:32:48 AM | Every woman I have ever intimately known has explained to me that for her... sex is better if she is deeply in love with the man.
For guys however, there is no emotional link like that. Sex with a complete stranger could be just as good as sex with a spouse. In fact it could almost be said that just as there is a direct correlation between a woman's emotional attatchement to a man, and the quality of sex she has with him.... there is an inverse ratio relating to the emotional attatchement and quality of sex for a man. Men often desire new, fresh things when it comes to the bedroom.
I know I know... that makes absolutely no sense to a woman, and that's not what you want to hear.... But the truth isn't always pretty. | |
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| Sex gets better?
Posted: 10/15/2007 8:34:33 AM | | The better you know your partners likes and dislikes sexually the better you can please them. One can get lucky and have a mindblowing one night stand but in general the worst sex you have with a partner is the first time. | |
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| Sex gets better?
Posted: 10/15/2007 8:51:14 AM | Sex either gets better or gets worse.. think of it as basically a reflection of the rest of the relationship..
If we talk, we can discuss it.. If we compliment each other, we can compliment about sex..
If we joke, we can joke about (and during) sex.. If we trust each other, we can expose needs and desires..
If we love, we'll make love.. If not, we'll just go thur the motions.. | |
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| Sex gets better?
Posted: 10/15/2007 9:02:39 AM | The longer my wife and I are together, the better we get to know each others' likes and dislikes, and the greater our trust in each other gets. The sex has only gotten better and better over time!!  | |
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| Sex gets better?
Posted: 10/15/2007 1:45:42 PM | | There is absolutely no doubt that you are right, OP. What another person is sexually takes a lifetime to learn. | |
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| Sex gets better?
Posted: 10/15/2007 1:51:11 PM | | sex can be excellent or bad regardless of how long you've known someone or how long the relationship is. The reality in most cases though, is that after the initial period of not being able to keep your hands off each other, it mostly cools down alot. Nothing to do with hope - just an anthropological fact down to the biology of human beings. | |
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| Sex gets better?
Posted: 11/28/2007 3:52:37 PM | Are we not all striving for perfection in all things we do in life? Why should sex be any different, after all gratified satisfaction is normally the goal of consenting sexual partners. So practise, practise, practise, & practise some more!  | |
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| Sex gets better?
Posted: 11/28/2007 4:06:57 PM | | It gets better when 2 people know each other very well... an both make the effort to keep it fresh... | |
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| Sex gets better?
Posted: 11/28/2007 4:44:03 PM | | Sex gets boring with the same woman hence so many cheating men and divorces ! | |
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Posted: 11/28/2007 6:09:19 PM | | If sex better the long you are together. HELL YEAH!!! The more I care for a woman, the more enjoyable sex is. We only get close by time..... so yeah | |
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Posted: 11/28/2007 9:39:37 PM | Let E=Enjoyment of sex
S=Skill of partner to get you off
T=Time since last sexual encounter
D=Duration of sex
L=Level of distraction caused by inebriation, exhaustion, other women, or football game on TV
Then =>
E=(S*D*T^3)/(L^2)
Therefore, assuming that skill (S) goes up as relationship length increases, enjoyment (E) also increases. However, beware of L... | |
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| Sex gets better?
Posted: 11/28/2007 9:45:57 PM | Well.OP I have only been in one relationship where it didn't..
The norm is Yes and Yes.
If you are also willing to play and keep exploring it will never get boring.. | |
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| Sex gets better?
Posted: 11/29/2007 4:38:42 AM | | Well, that's an interesting question. If you compare sex to a sport, then it can get better if a person is willing to practice and examine his or her technique. That's my take based on experience, and, yes, it can get better based on how you connect with someone, because you can feel more comfortable doing certain things and know their body better. So, yes, I generally believe that... | |
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| Sex gets better?
Posted: 11/29/2007 5:57:43 AM | if sex was better in long term relationships there would be no POF and there would be no divorce.
anybody in here have great sex that just got better and better as time went on but still left partner? | |
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| Sex gets better?
Posted: 11/29/2007 8:08:07 AM | absolutely!
cause you get to know each other better... you get to experiment more and you love em ... so all reasons why it can be better!!! | |
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| Sex gets better?
Posted: 11/29/2007 2:41:38 PM | oscarz05
Sometimes it is great, but there are other issues.
It's the "other issues" that led to my divorce. | |
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| Sex gets better?
Posted: 11/29/2007 3:55:51 PM | | Yes, it does get better. I'm not sure if it really gets better the longer ur with them..but I'd say the first year or so u learn a lot about your partner, and what they like/need to get them to the big O. | |
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