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Posted: 6/18/2007 4:41:27 PM |
Everybody's got their quirks I suppose...
Suppose? If you only suppose you must not have read much of this forum yet.
But seriously, I'd stay away from humping people's feet on the first date, it can be a bit creepy.
So it's wait for the second date?  | |
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| footfetish
Posted: 6/18/2007 4:54:08 PM | I love a foot massage, but for someone to be turned on by feet?
That is just nasty. OMG think about it, they spank they monkies to feet porn
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| footfetish
Posted: 6/18/2007 6:05:18 PM | oh honey.. send all of em 2 my place..  .. after being on my feet for 8 hrs at the hosp. i`m working at.. it would be heaven 2 have someone rub em.. ..
oh ummmm sean?.. tell em 2 bring along bibs.. i think i`ll need em.. .. | |
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Posted: 6/18/2007 9:36:06 PM | It seems it's about half and half when it comes to women who either love or dont mind guys with foot fetishes and those women that just cant stand it. Funny thing about that is, contrary to popular belief, research says that a foot fetish is the most common fetish among males out there.
So you know what this means ladies..... you are gonna have to get comfortable with ALL of your bodies... not just your face, titz, and @ss  | |
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| footfetish
Posted: 6/19/2007 10:06:29 AM | | Sorry to hear about your feet rockchick247. | |
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| footfetish
Posted: 6/19/2007 4:45:23 PM | Question for you Just Curious, do you find feet attractive if the girl is pretty or it doesn't matter if the feet are kept in good shape?
I only like feet from attractive females ..Guys feet are gross...even my husbands.... | |
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| footfetish
Posted: 6/19/2007 8:56:46 PM |
Question for you Just Curious, do you find feet attractive if the girl is pretty or it doesn't matter if the feet are kept in good shape?
I only like feet from attractive females ..Guys feet are gross...even my husbands....
I feel bout the same way this female does. As long as a woman is attractive to me, I'd like to rub and kiss on her foots. If it's a female I'm not attracted to, more than likely, I'm not feelin it. And my sentiments on guys feet.... yep, the same. Gross as hell. Too bad they dont have a puke face or anything. | |
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| footfetish
Posted: 6/19/2007 10:57:26 PM | | Well whatever turns you on but I can think of many other more attractive parts | |
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| footfetish
Posted: 6/20/2007 2:11:46 AM | To the OP:
Dude, you're young. When I was your age (22), I was married to a woman to whom I never revealed my foot fetish. She certainly enjoyed my massages, but I'm sure she thought it odd why I always wanted to do her pedicures. At that time I felt that there was something wrong with me for liking women's feet.  At 30 I finally found myself with a woman with whom I felt I could be completely open with about my particular fetish. She became my second wife, and we enjoyed 12 years of massages, pedicures, and foot worship.
Today I am no longer ashamed of my foot fetish, but like many things, it's all in the approach. I reveal my love of pretty feet in that first "Sex Talk" with a prospective partner. But just dismiss it by saying, "I'm not a 'leg man', 'breast man', or 'a$$ man'. I am a 'foot man'. It as the female body part that *I* find most attractive." Sure, there will be some who look at us as weird, and run for the hills, but no big loss there. If you did get involved with a woman who wouldn't indulge your passion you'd both be miserable.
Somewhere out there is a lady who will love and accept ALL of you. Your fetishes too. 
Slaughter | |
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| footfetish
Posted: 6/22/2007 6:01:05 AM | I have to put my hand up and admit to having a fondness for the female foot. It doesn't define me, but it is an important aspect of what I find attractive about a woman.
Recently I had the great good fortune to meet a wonderful lady from POF. Fortunately for me, the delightful lady in question enjoys the fact that I find all of her attractive - from head to toes and all points in between, the physical body and the person wearing it. She "gets" me - thinks I'm amusing, tolerates my occasional lapse of language because apparently I curse "creatively" and indulges my weakness.
Exploits it would be a more accurate assessment :) on our first lunch date, she asked my opinion of the shoes she was wearing, slipped one of them off to show it to me, knowing full well that I was struggling to keep my eyes above the knee. It must have taken all of about a millisecond to take in the pedicure, pretty toes, shapely foot... and then I had to look away or I'd have been asked to leave the restaurant.
Ah, we men make it too easy when we admit to stuff like this, the darling lady is all too aware of the fact that when she sits with her legs crossed in such a way that her foot ot shoe just brush against my leg, she might as well be wearing lingerie, or less.
One of the things we spoke about before we even met in person was each other's likes and dislikes, secret fantasies and fetishes. This is obviously important - hard to imagine something worse than clicking in person and then if/when things progress to the next level, you find your partner grossed out by the fact that you'd love to nibble on her toes, spend time gazing into her underarm or whatever floats your boat!
Guys, if you think it's hard to disguise your eyes slipping down to cleavage level for a peek, consider how much more difficult it is to glance another 4 or so feet (ha) down, ah such is the hell that's the life of a footman ;)
Anyway, a toast to those glorious ladies who dress their shapely high arches and pedicured pretty toes into strappy sandals, secure in the knowledge that they possess one of the greatest assets in the arsenal of feminine seductiveness. | |
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Posted: 7/1/2007 11:00:37 AM | I have made love to two women in my life and I kissed and sucked on both of their feet.
The first girl thought it was odd. But the second had many men suck and kiss her feet. She was more adventerous in bed.
Women take so much care of their feet. Men should rightfully show their appreciation by kissing and sucking on them. | |
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| footfetish
Posted: 7/1/2007 2:53:36 PM | Phhhhhheeeeeeewwwwww:) Wash em first | |
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| footfetish
Posted: 7/1/2007 9:42:00 PM | I worked with a nice young fellow many years ago, that was from Innuvik, in the Canadian Arctic. He was a good student, good athlete and regarded as a model in this isolated community.
Women in the comminity began to have their footware dissapear.........
They were found in this young fellows closet and sent to a lab in Yellowknife NWT for testing. Results showed some semen stains or some such thing. Then.....he was sent to a treatment centre in Calgary. The end.
A strange but true story from the Canadian north. Enjoy your Canada Day.
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| footfetish
Posted: 7/1/2007 9:56:11 PM | that guy you mentioned didn't have a foot fetsih....sounds like he has a SHOE fetish.
For those who have a real foot fetish.....count me in!! Nothing like having my feet attended to. A big turn on!! | |
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| footfetish
Posted: 7/2/2007 7:39:12 AM |
Has anyone seen the scene in "Dusk to Dawn" where Salma Hayak is a dancer & puts her toes in Quentin Tarantino's mouth & pours a bottle of booze down her leg, & it flows over her foot & toes & into his mouth?
Tarantino has a well known foot fetish. All his films except Reservoir Dogs include some kind of foot related scene.
As for the the topic of feet generally, I agree with the posters who make the point about them being just another erogenous zone. Why is it considered freaky to include someone's feet in sex play? How is it any more freaky than any other part of the body? Most of the women I've dated love having their feet included and don't understand what all the fuss is about. I reckon that someone with a strong distaste for feet is probably more "abnormal" than someone who likes them. | |
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Posted: 7/2/2007 11:46:39 AM |
I'm afraid that you'd end up bruised and battered if you were anywhere close to my feet. I'm that ticklish
I would submit that you are not ticklish as it does noe exist ,...it is in your head ... i know you are going to say no way but I too use to think i was but try something tickle your self dont work does it so i came to the conclussion that i wasent ticllish and wala im cured go figure | |
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Posted: 7/2/2007 12:46:27 PM | I've never been able to understand the fascination myself although I enjoy regular pedicures and foot massages.
About a month ago, just out of the blue, someone from this site emailed me to let me know what he wanted to do to my feet. I cannot fathom why someone would say this to a stranger, but hey, this is the internet and there's lots of anonymity. Perhaps if he sent out 100 emails, he may find one willing to take them up on his offer. You just never know.
I remember the Sex and the City episode where Charlotte met the high end shoe salesman who ended up giving her a discount if she would model the shoes and he could touch her feet. She ended up feeling cheap and gave the shoes back.
Several years ago, I was out shopping and was approached by a young man who liked my shoes and said that he wanted a pair like them for his sister. He asked me if he could see them. Next thing I know, I was showing him my shoe and he reached down, caressed the arch of my foot and then walked away. I was flabbergasted, speechless, and felt a bit violated. I should have seen it coming, especially since the shoes I was wearing were not particularly sexy.  | |
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Posted: 7/2/2007 3:38:51 PM | Ohhh Sean.
Don't lesten tot tose bad people...feet are just another part of agirls body to love.. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2007 12:38:52 AM | | I dont understand the whole foot fetish either..if that part of you doesnt define you then why even mention until you know that person alot better? If a person threw that out to me Id run to the hills too,ecspecially if I iddnt know them too well or even came close to having sex with them...as partners grow closer n want to learn about the other is the time to share about the foot thingy..dont go n make women think it defines who you are. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2007 3:12:58 AM |  Im a size 3 i dont think that there is a prob with that its lovely.probly in a long relationship to be used but hey | |
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Posted: 7/3/2007 3:33:33 AM | I have a fetish to do with legs more than feet. A nice pair of legs on a woman drives me wild lol. So any sexy legged females are more than welcome to inbox me  | |
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| footfetish
Posted: 7/3/2007 10:27:50 AM | Well what ever floats your twinkies! I have a cute little stool with bead work and nice 10 inch pleaser heels for such an naughty boy, he can suck my feet till i shove my heel in his mouth!  | |
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Posted: 7/3/2007 11:51:51 AM | | a 10 inch heel would end up choking a guy, but what the heck, thats the price he has to pay to kiss your feet. Id take the chance | |
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Posted: 7/4/2007 9:09:47 AM | As I am not a foot person...we all have our own fetishes and I agree with Slaughter, it is a matter of complete and total acceptance of the person you are with. I am a former assistant lymphedema therapist and the major part of my job was dealing with the feet and let me tell you....there are some very disgusting feet out there...lol...but they need love and attention too.
Slaughter, you can massage my feet any time..
Paula
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| footfetish
Posted: 7/4/2007 11:26:47 AM |
is it really that bad that guys have foot fetishes? but do the really have to go that far to not respect them for what they like?
It is not so bad--amongst the different kinks, I think this one is relatively benign ;-)
I think there are approaches to express this interest which are more effective than others, and the approach also depends on the other person involved. An approach with someone who is already somehow non-mainstream would be different than that with someone very conservative.
I don't think you have to wait until you are in a deep relationship to mention this interest. Again, there is no one right answer. For some people, it is ok to mention it in the first conversation, for most it is not. In general, if your interest comes across as an attempt to simply feed a sexual fantasy, it would be a turn-off. And how it is expressed is also relevant. A casual comment about finding feet sexy is better than a comment that may invade one's space (saying you want to do this or that to their feet).
As for response, a disrespectful response is unfortunate. However, it is one's choice to not engage in whatever activity. To see their side, imagine if someone with an interest that turns you off approached you about it. So if someone stops talking to you, it is not necessarily an offensive step and more likely a defensive step to move away from something that makes her uncomfortable. I would shrug it off and see if there is anything to be learned about how you approached the matter.
Incidentally, I find feet sexy and have found plenty of women--vanilla and those into kink--who enjoy attention to their feet.
Cheers,
Sea | |
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