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| Holy Robot Chicken
Posted: 6/30/2007 4:18:00 PM | Aahhhhh, this is the sweetest testimonial , I have read...I am assuming that Delicia's posting under yours... means she is the one you speak of....hope everything works out for you two....an learn from your mistake with that hot check writing so that you never have to spend anthor day away from each other....Stay safe and Happy! P.S. just ignore all these's doubting nellies...why should you care what they think about still having your profiles up or not....its your life ...not theirs...and you dont have to answer to, nor defend yourself to anyone but each other. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2007 11:44:20 AM | Winter Sparkle:
Ok I am so sick of shit from people like YOU. I know that I don't HAVE to dignify ANYONE with ANY response, but ya know, I can't take it anymore. He fell on some hard-ass times and you know what? I was right f u c k ing there to catch him... Do you know why? I suppose you don't so here goes, b i t c h... WE WERE FRIENDS FIRST. Believe it or not. We didn't just jump in thinking I have to have someone... I talked to him because he was just easy to talk to. He talked to me because I made him laugh. And, of course, I never mentioned this because it's none of anyone's business, but I just got out of a long, hard, and dramatic relationship. He accepted the fact that I was still healing from it, he accepted my stupid, weird quirks, and he accepted me for who I am instead of what my ex did -try to shove me into a mold of a woman I could never be.- So to all of you shitheads out there, Mark would tell you, I don't get pissed often. In fact I am very laid back and I HATE drama and so does he, but tell me what you know about us except for what is on this website... NOTHING. So take what you know -WE LOVE EACH OTHER AND ARE HAPPY TOGETHER- and live with it.
Thank you guys with well wishes and forgive my vulgarity... I know its unbecoming of me. I enjoy knowing that there are people out there who believe in making your own mistakes and being happy for others happiness instead of putting them down. Thank You
Quit thinking with your box and find yourself a real man that has his head screwed on right!!!
F U C K you for that, really. <No, that isn't a joke. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2007 9:12:47 PM |
Really you sound like a real winner. And for the gal that is all over him. Be prepared to live a life full of drama. Quit thinking with your box and find yourself a real man that has his head screwed on right!!!
Should I tell Delicia to let you borrow a tampon? | |
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Posted: 7/3/2007 11:32:03 PM | hey, good replies ops..
tell it like it is ... I agree..
Good Luck! and all the best.
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Posted: 7/4/2007 2:02:56 AM | | Well I say congrats to you guys, I have been at low points in my life at times as well and it definitely doesnt mean you dont deserve to find the love of your life cause you are having a rough time. | |
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Posted: 7/5/2007 12:10:59 AM | a beautiful farewell and hope you guys have the luck we had on this site. Remember... No relationship is simple. All good things come in time. -delicia and mark | |
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Posted: 4/5/2008 6:17:21 AM |  We're married
yes, a bit less than a year later and here we are. you will look at this profile and say, "if they're so happy why are they looking for a third?" its a sex thing and it really isn't important to us. I love PoF! and I love Mark so much more . We never expected the response we got from our testimonial would be quite like that. I worry much less about what people think of our relationship, because i have realized at the end oof the day my loyalty lies with the person next to me (Mark). not these cynics who believe only what they know (and it isn't much). I really would like people to keep reading this and for those cynics out there with a little bit of an open mind still, don't give up. If you're like me you were born with lots of love to give and one day someone will reciprocate the same amount of love. | |
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| Holy Robot Chicken
Posted: 4/5/2008 7:02:32 AM |
Why is it a bad thing that they stuck together threw bad times?
I could be wrong, but based on reading the testimonial, it sounds like the relationship was *founded* on bad times. That's a little something to be concerned about, IMHO.
I'm not "old" or "bitter" as a lot of the cynic respondents here are accused of being. I've never dated a guy who landed in jail or passed bad checks, so I can't really be said to have been burned in that way, either. Sure, I've been hurt before (who hasn't?), but there's one thing that screams "DANGER, Will Robinson!" to me about this whole situation:
Common sense.
I've always been a dreamer and let my foolish heart tug me around in more ways than one, and I don't always make the most sensible decisions, but meeting a guy who was facing these circumstances at this time probably would have made me run screaming for the hills, if out of nothing more than self-preservation. Perhaps if it'd been someone I'd known for years, even months, I could judge the situation better. But it is a little frightening that this girl would trust this guy so blindly when she'd only known him for a short time. A poster a ways back said that no one could judge your situation unless they knew 110% of the circumstances. Thing is though, going into this, even *you* didn't know 110% of the circumstances. You judged the situation based on whatever information you were given. This is exactly what your detractors are doing.
OP's, it looks like you got lucky. Most people in your situation would have had far more disastrous results. This is why some folks are a bit cynical about your relationship. It's one thing for someone to blindly hurl insults at you when they don't know you, but even the folks who tried to offer you a wise piece of advise were shot down and snapped at. Believe it or not, people who are twenty or thirty years older than us (yes, I'm a mere "pup" in my 20's) do have a lot of good advice to give. You've just got to know what to dismiss and what to take to heart. It sounds like you're calling any would-be advisers "close-minded" and dismissing any opinion that has even the slightest bit of realism to it. Even people who have tried to politely tell you that you were facing a potentially dangerous situation were rudely rebuffed. Really, what could be more close-minded than immediately invalidating any view that isn't the same as yours?
So, it's a year later, and you're still together, and married to boot. But you're still here. I suppose it's entirely possible that you simply want to share your happiness with other "fishers" and let them know that finding that perfect person for them is still possible. Then, of course, there's the whole "extracurricular interest" that you're following. Honestly, if that's what makes you happy, and you're both 100% okay with it, go with it. But I've never heard of an arrangement like this working out well. Marriage is supposed to be about two people, no more, no less. A marriage can't survive with just one person in it, or with three.
Bottom line -- love is a great thing. And both of you feel you've found it, which is, when it boils down to, all that really matters. But now that you have it, it's up to you to nurture and protect it. Don't let any of the little details destroy it. That's why folks are skeptical. They're not stomping on you because you've found love. They're trying to ensure that you don't let something so rare and special go to waste.
Best of luck to you two... or three... | |
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Posted: 4/5/2008 7:51:11 AM | woo, that's a bunch to read. there is no three... for sure. even if i found a girl i liked enough to think about inviting home she would know it wasn't much more than fun, but we're really not all that serious about it (discussing the details we know our relationship needs a bit more maturity to handle this).
anywho, the advice how ever we recieved it at the time was very "i know more because of my longer life and numorus experiences" my parents have only experienced each other in the last thirty years and however different form the people giving advice I'd follow theirs more closely because they have had a LASTING relationship. so why take advice from people that have had relationships that didn't work out? that's a good way to get divorced. Things weren't rosey in the beginning, but those hot checks were from two years ago at the time. It said nothing about who he was then or who he is now. So i can only speak for myself when i say i felt like they were calling him a bad person. I don't mind advice, i can't say I know better but neither can anyone else, no matter how old they are. | |
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Posted: 4/5/2008 11:51:18 AM | ...it was a $40 hot check to a grocery store...omg, I'm such a horrible man! Lock me in a cell and throw away the key! lol... | |
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