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| Why doesn't he change?
Posted: 6/13/2007 10:09:30 AM | OP: You are obsessed with this guy.
In your other threads you admitted you're the one he was was bangin' those 9 times he cheated on his GF.
Last time you posted about him it was all about how you got drunk & hooked up with him & he hit you because you told his GF.
Next it was how she was writing nasty things about you on My Space.
You're a psycho.
The worst part of this stupid mini drama b.s. is that you want him back in your life, even though you're just a booty call 'ho to the guy.
Y'know, I read that from crittersitter, and then went and looked at the OP's history of posts... and I have to agree with that, *you* OP need to move on, past, and get *over* this guy and on with your life. What he is doing, not doing, sometimes doing, thinking of doing, changing, not changing, abusing, drinking, or anything else should *NOT* mean a rats arse bit of difference to you!!!
You quite obviously are hung up on this guy for some reason, even after all his abuse.
Whatever/however you think you've "changed" yourself, you still need work.
You know what I found out about my EX from a former friend? Nothing, 'cause I didn't ask.
Thats what she needs JDMetro! | |
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| Why doesn't he change?
Posted: 6/13/2007 10:12:38 AM | with woman beating down his door, he obviously does not think he needs to change, girls love him, he must be doing something right.....................
ok, i dont think so..... but i am not all women obviously | |
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| Why doesn't he change?
Posted: 6/13/2007 10:14:00 AM | to the OP.
With all dues respect...why on earth did you even waste the time it took you to type all that on such a low life piece of crap!!!
There's so much more real injustice going on in the world to devote your time to...stuff that DIRECTLY affects you...unlike the love life of some mouth breathing sissy who likely deserves some time in jail where his new friends can pull his hair and otherwise abuse him... | |
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| Why doesn't he change?
Posted: 6/14/2007 5:46:03 PM | Bob – Tell the lady what she’s won …
Congraaatulations!! For your persistent denial and self-deception, you have won a lifelong immersion in the fascinating world of psycho-drama. The winning scores – Slept with abusive “ex” 6 times as of January, 7 times by March and the latest count, NINE, yes NINE times. 1) He is not your “ex,” you are just sharing him with another woman. 2) You have not “changed,” you are just projecting your crap onto his new girlfriend so that you do not have to look at your own behavior. 3) If you can not stay away from someone who physically and verbally abuses you, perhaps he (your “ex”) is not the one with the problem – things seem to be working for him. You need to move on. | |
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| Why doesn't he change?
Posted: 6/14/2007 5:50:11 PM | should we really want to change our partners in the first place?
thanks
john | |
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| Why doesn't he change?
Posted: 6/14/2007 5:55:58 PM | | IT;'s all a thrill ride to him....the begging, the pleading, the yanking her world out from under her. You should BE GLAD to be done with this ***hole...he is a control freak of the worst sort! | |
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| Why doesn't he change?
Posted: 6/14/2007 8:37:36 PM |
Necessity is the mother of invention Until he hits a "wall", such as a bereavement in the family, loss of career, dangerous accident, etc. He has no reason to question his way of life. But once he does hit that "wall", he will want to have a real relationship. It is never that simple. His ingrained habits will be too hard to quit. So then he'll need therapy. He'll regret his former actions and become a self-made "nice guy". Then, you and all the other "bad boy"-loving women out there, will kick him to the kerb and wonder what you ever saw in him. Then, he will go through the biggest dry spell in his life, and add troll posts, like "Why don't women ever want to date me?". Then, he'll get a spine, get on with his life, and meet someone who shares his interests, and not just an interest in sex.
Enough of the vindication. Now for the good stuff...
You need to get a grip. You are NOT a little girl, and daddy does not get you dolls to play with anymore. Little girls need looking after but women don't need looking after. Both are physically capable of having sex, but one is being used and is being accepted. If you still want the "bad boy" image, that says "I'm strong and I will protect you", then so be it.
But your boyfriend pulls your hair. I haven't done that to a girl since I was 8, and I'm smaller and less muscular than your boyfriend. I wouldn't do it because I am just so much physically stronger than that, it is a joke to even do it. He is a bully, and all bullies are good at making themselves look strong, but are really very weak. I would not trust him to protect anyone, more like run, leaving you to pick up the pieces.
Start dating real men. Real men don't start fights. They end them.
If they can end them w/out them being violent, that's the best.
If they end them with them being violent, that's second best.
A real man is like Patrick Swayze in Road House:
I want you to be nice until it's time to not be nice.
Your guy is hard on the outside and soft on the inside.
Real men are not afraid to show their weaknesses, because they are soft on the outside, but hard on the inside.
STOP DATING LEX LUTHOR!
START DATING CLARK KENT!
INSIDE EVERY CLARK KENT IS A SUPERMAN! | |
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| Why doesn't he change?
Posted: 6/14/2007 9:39:12 PM | He'll always seek a woman who feels she needs to have someone at any cost. It's more important to have someone with you than to treat you well...I've known loads of girls, and a few guys, who are like that.
Most of us would rather be alone than allow ourselves to be in a relationship like that. | |
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| Why doesn't he change?
Posted: 6/14/2007 10:25:08 PM | | It's probably been said before, but people shouldn't really try to change other people anyway. As for expecting him to change on his own, well.... people grow in their own time. People are different, they are who they are, yet hopefully somewhere along the line they will learn from their past mistakes. But you can't rush it. Ya dig? | |
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| Why doesn't he change?
Posted: 6/14/2007 11:40:04 PM | He does change, Women! As often as neccessary. 
Back to the end of the line, sister! | |
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