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 TopazGoddess

Joined: 9/9/2006
Msg: 26
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Posted: 6/13/2007 1:32:33 PM
The 'daddy' thing would creep me out a little but other than that role-reversal is pretty common (as far as fetishes go) with people who are comfortable with each other

The thing with fetishes is that both parties have to be game
 j5rush

Joined: 4/13/2006
Msg: 27
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Posted: 6/13/2007 2:29:34 PM

...first thing that comes to mind is to wonder if he was abused by his father....


That would be my guess as well.
 Evangelique

Joined: 6/5/2007
Msg: 28
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Posted: 6/13/2007 2:55:23 PM
Agreed..the "Daddy" request is a little out of context, but what the hell, if it turns him on, I'd do it.

As for strap on's in general, I'm a big fan. I love using them on men and women both, even better is a double sided dildo so we can both enjoy at the same time. You rock my way.. I'll rock yours, and we'll rock each others worlds while we're at it.
 stillanicechick

Joined: 5/5/2007
Msg: 29
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Posted: 6/13/2007 3:15:33 PM
wow thats a little too much! My ex used to like it when i fingered his ass, played with his balls, and suck him all at once. After a while he got used to the fingering and wanted it each time. i guess its not a bad thing but what you are describing is way weird. Have you known this guy for a while? Maybe hes just that comfortable with you to ask.
 D.Fox

Joined: 9/1/2006
Msg: 30
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Posted: 6/13/2007 3:37:11 PM
Like others have said I think the daddy part is a little over the top , but whatever floats his boat if your up to it .


On a side note , Soxred , why is it in todays society where bisexual women seems to be trendy you dont think a man can be bisexual ? Are you saying people in general cant be Bisexual or is it just guys who cant be ?
 PardonMeMiss

Joined: 2/4/2006
Msg: 31
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Posted: 6/13/2007 4:50:22 PM
Heh, "daddy" is pretty far out there, and I would say that the guy definitely has some psychological issues from a long time ago. I probably wouldn't be comfortable with it if I were in your shoes, but if you can get past the incestuous undertones, you guys could have a ball-slappin good time!
 chocolaterose

Joined: 2/27/2007
Msg: 32
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Posted: 6/13/2007 7:39:16 PM
That would weird me out. I am all for sexual liberation and a persons right to do whatever kinky thing takes their fancy but the fact is there are some things that would make me uncomfortable so i wouldnt do it I am sure someone our there would love doing that to him nmaybe its just not you.
 milwaukeeT

Joined: 4/25/2007
Msg: 33
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Posted: 6/14/2007 12:20:49 AM
sounds kinda guy if you ask me you better be looking out
 Jokster_79

Joined: 3/24/2007
Msg: 34
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Posted: 6/14/2007 3:54:19 AM

Ok peeps, quick question! What do you think of a guy that has a strap-on and wants you to use it on him...not just do him with it, but he wants to suck on it, and call you daddy while you do him? Im a little weirded out right now, is it just me?

So he's a fan of the Bush administration then? All of us are getting the strap on in the arse from the president but i guess he's one of the few people who enjoy it.

on a serious note.. how the hell does a guy even get to the point where he discovers that taking it from a strap on is pleasurable. i'm really confused about that one. did he get off after accidently falling on a dildo and now he's hooked? maybe you can ask him and clear that up for me and whoever else is curious lol.
 Nos800

Joined: 7/12/2006
Msg: 35
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Posted: 6/14/2007 3:59:56 AM
Well I gotta tell you I enjoy a little anal play here and there but not full on like what you descrided that would be a little much...

The Daddy thing is a little different also but I'm sure there is alot of stranger stuff out there. With the help of google though I found a entire porn line called "FemDom" which address this type of thing. If you can thing it up a porno has already been made doing it.
 mich_mix02

Joined: 5/28/2007
Msg: 36
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Posted: 6/14/2007 7:24:58 AM
The daddy and oral part would freak me out. Using it on him I can see but it sounds like this is more than a one time curiousity thing...
 Peterm2475

Joined: 10/23/2005
Msg: 37
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Posted: 6/21/2007 10:44:45 AM
I'll say,,, this man don't do anal stimulation !!!!!! I do know many women like it a lot, but that's thier prefference. The man needs help.. and you need to RUN RUN RUN ;) or Have fun with that. ;)
 phine_likker

Joined: 10/25/2006
Msg: 38
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Posted: 6/21/2007 10:45:33 AM
it's exit-only
 Harry Harmony

Joined: 1/26/2007
Msg: 39
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Posted: 6/21/2007 11:17:05 AM
To weird for me, sounds painful.
 loversnapper

Joined: 11/18/2006
Msg: 40
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Posted: 6/21/2007 11:37:44 AM
I tend to think this fellow is gay or bi. Anal stimulation is one thing but wanting to suck a dong to simulate giving a guy head and calling him daddy. Hmmmm, yep, gay in my opinion.
 sfagirl84

Joined: 4/22/2007
Msg: 41
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Posted: 6/21/2007 11:45:08 AM
I don't mind, giving a man oral pleasure. I mean using a dildo on his ass is hot to me.....but, all the other crap, is just weird to me.

I know alot of men, that love anal stimulation, and I get off just giving it........
 BizzeeBee25

Joined: 6/10/2007
Msg: 42
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Posted: 6/21/2007 11:55:53 AM
I had thought about doing that with a former boyfriend but he wasn't okay with it. Now I don't think I would suggest that with future boyfriends.
 Summer-rain

Joined: 6/18/2007
Msg: 43
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Posted: 6/21/2007 11:57:53 AM
I think I would just suggest he find a real-live guy instead.... gotta be more fun than doing it with hard plastic! (just my opinion though)
 bds1976

Joined: 1/20/2007
Msg: 44
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Posted: 6/21/2007 12:02:00 PM
I'd go for it but, if I were you, I'd refuse to use lube and demand to film it for the internet so you can make some cash on it as well.

Other than that, yeah, that is totally weird. Very, very, very strange.
 sfagirl84

Joined: 4/22/2007
Msg: 45
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Posted: 6/21/2007 12:06:03 PM
Ouch no lube!!! YIKES!!!

Its weird, I find it hot to do it, but would never ever want to see two guys go at it?


whats the difference with two guys, verses two girls???
 bds1976

Joined: 1/20/2007
Msg: 46
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Posted: 6/21/2007 12:28:34 PM
Men are much more likely to visually objectify women (and it's natural for them to do so).
So seeing two girls going at it is a turn on. It appeals to our primal instincts.

Women are not nearly as visual, nor do they objectify men and again, it's their natural instincts that determine this.
So seeing two guys go at it isn't a turn on for a majority of women.

However, sharing something between themselves and their lover would, because it appeals to their emotional side. If a guy would let them do that to them, that guy obviously shares something special between them and that is probably what turns you on.
 dazedlady

Joined: 3/9/2007
Msg: 47
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Posted: 6/21/2007 1:29:50 PM
If your guy is Bi, it would better him to satisfy it that way then going out and picking up strange guys. Cheating and risky sex is cheating and risky sex no matter what the gender. Besides....it puts the woman in a position of dominance. Let's face it ladies...how often do we truly get that?
 jerico65

Joined: 6/7/2007
Msg: 48
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Posted: 6/21/2007 2:03:56 PM
"Ouch!" is what comes to mind to me.
 4realRU

Joined: 4/7/2007
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Posted: 6/21/2007 2:21:03 PM
Strap-on,,,,, strap-off.......... Strap-on,,,,, strap-off. His way of auditioning for "The Karate Kid goes Bareback Mountain Riding."


Im a little weirded out right now, is it just me?


Nope, looks like most here think there are some 'serious' issues that need dealt with. You admit that yourself, being 'weirded' out by the person you're with does not bode well for any future. Not to mention the fact that you said he has a strap-on! Strap-off young lady and get the flock out of Dodge..........
 purplerobin

Joined: 5/22/2007
Msg: 50
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Posted: 6/21/2007 2:53:22 PM
closeted bisexual. YUCK!
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