| Strap-on Posted: 8/1/2007 12:23:18 PM | | sounds like a great time to me... hey if you cant explore with a partner in private, when can you? | |
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| Strap-on Posted: 8/2/2007 1:42:57 PM | Well, first of all, there's absolutely nothing wrong with a guy who wants to receive a strapon, and it doesn't mean he's gay or bi. Case in point - me!
But, having said that, the rest of his requests are obviously getting into more of a roleplaying mode than it seem's you're comfortable with. And, it's quite possible it's leading down a road to more kink that I don't get the impression you're likely interested in. | |
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| Strap-on Posted: 8/4/2007 12:56:51 PM | | i am totally ok with it. and a female dominating a man can be an extreme turn on...for me anyway............as for calling you daddy???....thats just wrong ...sorry | |
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| Strap-on Posted: 8/4/2007 2:42:14 PM | | the daddy bit is weired i agree with the abuse bit i wonder | |
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| Strap-on Posted: 8/4/2007 2:47:57 PM | | I had a boyfriend who asked me to use a dildo on him but there was none of this sucking it or calling me daddy. It just added some intensity to his orgasm I think because it was a vibrator. lol It was ok, whatever floats your boat right but it did make me feel a little weirded out. Sucking it and calling me daddy would freak me right out but as long as your comfortable is all that matters. your comfort. don't do anything that you don't want to do but try and not make him feel bad for it because "to each their own in the bedoir" | |
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| Strap-on Posted: 8/4/2007 4:44:18 PM | There is nothing wrong with the idea of using a strap on. Its not common, dont let people tell you that, but it doesn't make him gay or a freak.
What makes him a FREAK is the daddy comment. Yes, there is being dominated (huzzah) but please, thats just creepy. You can tell people to dominate you, but somethigns (LIKE THAT) need to be eased into.
Personally, I think someone who would be so careless, and just tell you the insanity like that, isnt too considerate. Its good to let a fetish out early, but not to the point you seem like acrazy horn dog. Might be time to leave him. | |
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| Strap-on Posted: 8/4/2007 5:07:00 PM | I don't think it sounds half bad except the "daddy" part.. that's a bit.. odd, to say the least. But hey, have fun with it! lmao | |
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| Strap-on Posted: 8/4/2007 5:48:49 PM | Wow, I honestly cannot believe the types of homophobic and judgemental comments that have been put up here.
Everyone has their kinks. Honestly, what's so wrong about that? To say that he has mental issues because of them sounds pretty closed-minded.
This has to do with your own personal limits and what you are or are not comfortable with doing. Communication is slightly key in this kind of situation. | |
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| Strap-on Posted: 8/4/2007 9:34:07 PM | I think POF is desensitizing me, to the new breed of three eyed fish, soon I'm gonna see this as the norm, and randomly choose a pet to call my own...
My god, he might wear diapers? Not a chance, I'm outta baby jail...
Rubbing, licking and covering my feet, in poprocks? well some sacrifices could be made... ewwwwee | |
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| Strap-on Posted: 8/4/2007 9:38:07 PM | | SShhhhhhh Here's a little secret maybe he might be looking for a different type of woMANNNNNNNNNNN | |
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| Strap-on Posted: 8/4/2007 9:48:38 PM | | Oh jesus, you people. It is NOT gay. Have you ever heard of the prostate gland? Liking anal pleasure is not an indication of being gay. There are gay men who DON'T have anal sex - shocking huh? You all need to open your minds. | |
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| Strap-on Posted: 8/5/2007 3:05:22 AM | | wouldnt be a big deal for me, but i'd have to care about him to respect him after that. i have nothing against strap-ons, i vote for it anyday, and have used a dildo on a man before, but him calling me daddy is a lil too much role reversal. i would do it and most likely never see him again, and w the whole daddy thing. most likely i'd be rough on him. if he wanted me to be that much of a man, i'd show off by ripping his cutsie buttcheeks apart in the throws of daddy-in | |
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| Strap-on Posted: 8/5/2007 3:58:13 AM | Hmmm... Maybe he meant it in a "who's ur daddy" kinda way, or maybe she just added in the offensive "calls you daddy" part, because the post needed to be longer? Well I'd feel better thinking she made it up, so [fingers in the ears] La La La I'm not listening anymore...
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| Strap-on Posted: 8/5/2007 8:30:12 AM | | ok that's just WEIRD. goodbye. | |
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| Strap-on Posted: 8/5/2007 9:10:18 AM | | id say he was pretty wierd and tell him where to go!! hes obviously got bi sexual tendancies | |
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| Strap-on Posted: 8/6/2007 1:00:22 AM | | that's the man of my dreams.......hey sex is sex is sex....that's all it is....i could do without the callin him daddy but other than that it's awesome...... | |
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| Strap-on Posted: 8/6/2007 7:10:02 AM | | Yeah the more I thought about it, he is the man of my dreams too. | |
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| Strap-on Posted: 8/6/2007 11:36:27 AM | | Is his name Daniel? | |
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| Strap-on Posted: 8/6/2007 12:30:55 PM | Sounds like he just hopped off a Space Shuttle whose origin was Uranus!  | |
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| Strap-on Posted: 8/7/2007 8:56:54 AM | | Daniel? Nope! Ill never-ever tell. | |
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| Strap-on Posted: 8/7/2007 10:54:27 AM | | I would do it to a man. I have no problem with people who are willing to open their minds and try new things. | |
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| Strap-on Posted: 8/7/2007 11:43:46 AM | Yeah, I have to say I was very close-minded before about the whole situation. But the more I got to thinking about it the more I want to do it. It turns me on just thinking about taking control of him, and him being at my mercy. I also think its hot as hell for a man to want it, and like.....YUMMY~!
Well, as for the other stuff...... Im totally up for it. I feel now, that if you can't do it in the privacy of your bedroom with your partner, who can you do it with. | |
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| Strap-on Posted: 10/30/2007 1:50:54 PM | | i let my girl friend once do that to me. She did it four times with a vibrating dildo. It was good. She was all dressed in sexy clothes. She talked dirty. It was a total turn on. | |
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| Strap-on Posted: 11/12/2007 2:14:44 PM | Hmmm... if I WERE to do this, he'd be calling me MISTRESS, not Daddy.  | |
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| Strap-on Posted: 1/17/2008 6:24:58 PM | | Count me in that's for sure! | |
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