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Posted: 1/17/2008 8:42:32 PM | OMG girl that is to much!!!!
Runnnnnnn as fast as you can. I am sorry, I am into alot of things but Damn , I dont think so. That def. is some homosexual tendancies there!!!! YIKES!!! Hugzzzzz Talula | |
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Posted: 1/18/2008 12:07:46 AM | One of the first calls I ever got as a 1st year plumber was an very obtuse elderly lady. Her complaint was the toilet would not flush properly. After a brief grilling session of what might be in the toilet we began our search for the problem with the great white! we have had this type of call and we usually found a tampon or a large clump of dental floss jammed in the toilet. my partner using a large pair of offset needlenose pliers pulled out a 16-18" strap on that the lady said was her daughters, pfth fn liar! we figure she was using it as an ice breaker.blah! | |
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Posted: 1/18/2008 4:27:46 AM | | Another resurrected thread. Oh well, here's my take, even though the OP is probably long gone. First, sexual preference isn't chosen, nor is it convertible. The OP's guy may be bisexual, but with his request for female participants, it seems more like he's dealing with left over triggers from being sexually abused as a kid rather than latent homosexuality. I know; I went through this when I was a teen. Long term conditioning when you are in your developmental stages can have lasting effects on how you respond to things when you are older, and are often impossible to change. If the OP's guy is willing, and hasn't already, he can always get into therapy; but only to learn why he desires the things he does. Those desires won't necessarily go away, but at least he'll know why he has them. As far as all the comments by everyone else, especially those who are turned off by the idea of him wanting a strap on used on him, you all just reinforce every man's knowldege that when a woman asks him to share his fantasies, she really doesn't want him to do that; what she wants is for him to tell her that his fantasies are the same as hers (and the safest way is to just read some romance books, and spout that type of scenario, like candle lit rooms, lots of roses, prince on a white horse sweeping her off her feet romantically, etc. etc.). Anything else will always be a mistake, because so many people have already decided what is appropriate sexually, and what isn't. And guys, be prepared to be condemned if you dare to say anything she isn't ready for. And how will you know what she considers appropriate? Simple. You can't. So, we keep our mouths shut. | |
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Posted: 1/19/2008 3:09:05 PM | | hell no its not you this guy is gay get rid | |
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Posted: 1/28/2008 10:47:43 AM | | I have had a strap on used on me and loved it so did she. It had the vibe for her clit and it was real fun. I cant wait for more | |
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Posted: 1/28/2008 11:36:23 AM | | My ex wanted me to f*ck him with the strap on I bought for doing the other girl I brought home. Turns out if I didn't use it on him, he would use it on himself. He even wanted to suck it while I wore it. The only thing was that he didn't call me daddy. I still wonder if he is bi-sexual. I never had to worry about him cheating with another girl, maybe because I was missing the fact that he did his cheating with men instead. | |
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Posted: 1/28/2008 11:42:04 AM | | It's called pegging and it's more common than one might think! But for most of the times I've heard about it it's the woman's fantasy and SHE has the strap-on. If I was with someone I really cared about and it was her fantasy to drill me with a strap-on I'd be a little weirded out by it but I'd probably go through with it provided it was a small one and it didn't have to be all the time! LOL It better be a once in a while sort of thing! But if he's the one providing the tools and begging for it, or asking you to watch and give pointers as he gives another guy head (as someone else mentioned) I'd say he's as straight as a three dollar bill and just can't find the doorknob to exit the closet. Somebody give this dude a flashlight. If he likes to have sex with men that's fine. It's just a little weird the way he's going about it. Maybe he thinks it's extremely wrong but he's comfortable with you to still be able to fulfill the fantasy. Perhaps he was molested as a child and this is his minds way of rationalizing the feelings. Different strokes for different folks. | |
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Posted: 1/28/2008 11:43:29 AM | RE: First post.
Nope, not just you. I just dry heaved. | |
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Posted: 1/28/2008 11:45:37 AM | | Ignoble, as long as you didn't heave into your gf's box only to lap it up and shit it out in her mouth, I think dry heaving at the thought of this might be normal! I can only sit and wait for the next viral video to be conjured up. Damn it. | |
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Posted: 1/28/2008 11:47:06 AM | | Deuce.... if it was a DRY heave... what exactly do I have to lap up except her woman juices? Dude... that was just gross. Seek help. | |
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Posted: 1/28/2008 11:52:25 AM | | Figured we were on the subject of the gross, bizarre, and wildly kinky that it was fitting! LOL I was trying to point out that it's normal to want to dry heave thinking about this. Most probably do. IF you'd actually blown chunks, and carried on as I said. Yea....THAT'D be gross! But to each their own I guess. | |
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Posted: 2/19/2008 12:28:50 PM | I can't believe this forum is still going.
Im the former SFAGIRL84. The guy and I are still talking, and working on a relationship....
He actually turned out to be great...
But I still worry.... | |
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Posted: 2/19/2008 2:38:16 PM | check where the sun doesn't shine for him.... and if the circumference is greater than that of your vagina------>>>GAY/bi or on the DL
Did you REALLY need help to realize that? Maybe ya shouldn't be dating yet..... | |
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Posted: 2/19/2008 2:44:03 PM | Sorry to let you out of the closet dear, but the ONLY MEN that would let a woman screw them with a strap-on are either gay or bisexual or still in the closet as you might be.
For no HETEROSEXUAL MEN would let their azzes get penetrated for the sole love of entertaining a woman. Most men would be totally disgusted by the idea alone. | |
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Posted: 2/19/2008 2:52:26 PM | | either he was abused or hes gay | |
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Posted: 2/19/2008 4:41:02 PM | Cutenurse...
Ummm....I know of alot of guys, that love arse play....maybe you need to check what world your'e living in. Its pretty common for straight guys to enjoy. Have you ever heard of the prostate gland? Being a nurse...I would think you knew that! | |
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Posted: 2/19/2008 5:50:48 PM |
but the ONLY MEN that would let a woman screw them with a strap-on are either gay or bisexual or still in the closet as you might be.
Ahhhhh, dear,,,that would be horse pucky. We do have internet nowadays. Do some searching and reading,,,quick, like.
Really
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Posted: 2/19/2008 6:50:07 PM | Cutenurse,
That's pretty narrow-minded of you to say. I think if you asked him if he wanted to go have sex and he quickly giggled and ran like a 6 year old to retrieve the strap-on you might question his sexuality, but if he doesn't mind a little ass play or if he even enjoys it there is nothing homosexual about him. Some guys are really homophobic and cannot consider the idea of having the back door opened. But a lot of guys do actually enjoy it somewhat. And if it makes my girl happy you are damn skippy I'm going to oblige to a degree! Because when she's satisfied I'm satisfied! | |
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Posted: 2/19/2008 7:30:00 PM | | at least half the straight men i've been with have enjoyed or experimented with some form of ass play...a few even expressed having a strap-on fantasy. personally i'm intrigued by the power-exchange of using a strap-on...never tried it, but i'm willing to explore. the use of toys in this way doesn't in any way reflect on my sexual orientation or his. a man sucking a dildo, having his ass f*cked, even roleplaying in the act is nothing more than kinky indulgence...where's the harm in that? all the homophobes who are either nauseated or judgemental about it should cultivate a more tolerant and open mind. give it a try, you might actually like it ; ) | |
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Posted: 10/19/2008 3:25:33 AM | | 100% bender..you should dump him and finder a straight man | |
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Posted: 10/19/2008 4:14:58 AM | | The "Daddy" bit is odd... But I love a strap-on and I'm not gay... (Some women like it some don't - Go with the flow I say... | |
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Posted: 10/19/2008 3:21:47 PM | that he liked anal wouldn't freak me out , that he wanted me to wear a strap on wouldn't freak me out (though I'd have to decline, past experience has taught me that it's just NOT a good look for me  ).. the "Daddy" thing, though? That would be an absolute dealbreaker and get someone thrown out of my bed faster than you can say "whoseyourdaddy"?
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Posted: 10/21/2008 8:39:50 AM |
Sorry to let you out of the closet dear, but the ONLY MEN that would let a woman screw them with a strap-on are either gay or bisexual or still in the closet as you might be.
For no HETEROSEXUAL MEN would let their azzes get penetrated for the sole love of entertaining a woman. Most men would be totally disgusted by the idea alone.
This is completely untrue. I've had strap-on sex with a partner, and he is NOT a closeted homosexual by any stretch. He's a heterosexual man who enjoys having his prostate stimulated, and so much the better if it's by a hot girl.
Who you want to have sex with has everything to do with sexual orientation; what you want to do with them does not. | |
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Posted: 10/21/2008 8:47:24 AM | I was asked to do this for a man......(and no......he is in no way gay)
and I have to admit to being a little timid about it.
I think I am more concerned w/ hurting him than any "ick" factor. | |
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Posted: 10/21/2008 6:11:10 PM | Shut up Micki......don't comment......it's not worth it....
slowly back out of this thread before you get yourself in trouble
K......I'm leaving....but where the hell is a brick throwing emoticon? | |
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