| | Strap-onPage 8 of 9 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9) | ok let me just clear a few thing up scientificaly speaking. Men have prostrates and women do not. A prostrate is just a big ball of nerves that is very sensitive and works to lubracte the urethra to help men cum, even if your not sticking something up his ass. I am not gay and could never be. however I dont mind a little anal action once and a while. Most guys that knock it havnt tried it and just arnt comfortable enough in there own sexuality to experiment with ideas outside the box. This is def not the sign of a psychological problem. What I never understood is why women liked it seeing as how there nothing much there to stimulate. All am getting at is if you think its logical for a female but not for a male you have a big double standard seeing as how males have a sci on there side. to each there own. | |
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Posted: 2/2/2009 2:03:08 AM |
ummm no its not you - its him. That's pretty gay.
***Pretty quick to judge, I know a lot of guys that really love this, and it's actually a huge turn on, try everything once and if you l ike it keep doing it. | |
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Posted: 2/2/2009 2:05:55 AM | | Just be gentle to start... | |
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Posted: 2/2/2009 5:49:10 AM | "Men have prostrates and women do not."
Uhhh... not exactly Dr. Gupta.
Either may be prostrate, but neither has a prostrate.
Perhaps you're thinking of the prostate? | |
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Posted: 2/2/2009 11:30:33 PM | | yea yea who do voodoo so my spillign saw ffo you got the point men got the better end of the deal on this one. pun intended | |
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Posted: 3/1/2009 9:09:47 AM | Personally, I know several men who have only a submissive desire. a woman wearing the power tool/toy... it is only an act of dominanace.
a guy.. can get a guy... if he wants that action...the same way a girl can get a guy if she wants action... there are simply enough avenues to acomplish that with little difficutly.
so if its not that he is bi.. or gay... what else could it be.
Furthermore in reguards of the female, it is a trust issue as well... if a guy is willing to tell his mate that he would like to play like that... and if it is so, then one must recognize the trust he has for her. he respects the relationship or he wouldnt trust trust her to share this with her. so many of you on here wanted to bash his desires.. possibly just a fantasy... no one said it was a life style change. Could be just a curious idea of why there are so many gay males out there... they must be e njoying something about it.
therefore, I have ejoyed reading alot of what everyone had to say, but i am disapointed in the bashing that I have witnessed. | |
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Posted: 3/1/2009 9:31:57 AM | | I have now officially seen every imaginable thread possible in this category. | |
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Posted: 3/1/2009 9:47:09 AM | If a guy keep's a strap on.
That to me is a good sign that hes gay.
WHY WOULD A MAN WANT A STRAP ON FOR. ?
I use them with other women. | |
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Posted: 10/10/2009 7:47:07 PM | | I don’t think I would like sucking on a strap on lol but being tied up and getting slammed by one sounds like fun. | |
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Posted: 10/10/2009 7:55:26 PM | You should talk to him about your feelings. Sucking a dildo? That is kinda crazy. Some men like to have it as a fantasy that they would not ever do. Talk to him about what you are feeling before it gets so big there is no hope for you & him. | |
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Posted: 10/10/2009 8:02:46 PM | | When I used a strap-on on my xbf I felt powerful. It was cool. | |
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Posted: 1/8/2012 10:18:35 PM | veryyy hot but why would any guy want to do this i never heard of a guy doing it but sounds very hot and interesting  | |
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Posted: 1/8/2012 10:26:37 PM | | That is weird and I wouldn't go along with it. I don't get people who expect you to fulfill their fantasies when you have no inclination of your own to join them there. Surely the ideal is for both people to share the same fantasy, fetish, or whatever. Otherwise it is just peculiar. | |
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Posted: 3/17/2012 3:48:25 PM | | Had a really tough time of it lately. A guy I worked with told me that he had a girl use a strapon on him and it was really good. Im not that great in the bedroom department and don't exactly last that long hence why I mainly like to give oral and don't mind using a toy on a girl. When my friend told me I thought it sounded hot a girl changing the roles over and thought it may last longer. Plus thought it would be a laugh to see what the girl goes through and if she could do any better. Unfortunately for me I wasn't with anyone at the time so search for someone online and just as lucky as I am my friends found my messages and told everyone. So I get the Mick taken out of me for it. I wouldn't mind but I never did find anyone to try it with. Now everyone knows and thinks I'm a wierdo to the point where no girl will go near me. I've been single for more than a few years now and I am pretty good-looking clean shaven in both areas and a nice person. It's just getting me down I guess and don't know what to do. Not sure if the whole daddy thing is right. A girl doing you doggy style saying take that you little b€$¥% slapping your bum and pulling your hair making you scream is about it for me I'm afraid. | |
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Posted: 3/17/2012 4:43:48 PM | | He is basically quite gay and may have been abused as a child. I dont mind kinky but he is seriously weird. I would be gone. Not for me. I like a man to be a real man. You are getting nothing from the experience and are just an instrument. Playing the male role for him. He may kid himself that as he is with a woman that he is straight.... If you are not comfortable, do not do it. It has to be mutual. | |
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Posted: 5/6/2012 8:11:42 PM | Sex with women is heterosexual. Sex with men is homosexual. It really is that simple.
Is a woman that likes a man to give her oral sex gay or is a woman who likes a woman to give her oral sex straight?
Having your ass played with is neither gay, straight or bi. It is having your ass played with.
I do not see anything confusing in this. Why are people so confused? When this occurs it is usually fear based. | |
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Posted: 12/10/2012 5:07:42 AM |
Sex with women is heterosexual. Sex with men is homosexual. It really is that simple.
Is a woman that likes a man to give her oral sex gay or is a woman who likes a woman to give her oral sex straight?
Having your ass played with is neither gay, straight or bi. It is having your ass played with.
I do not see anything confusing in this. Why are people so confused? When this occurs it is usually fear based.
Welcome to POF. *grins* | |
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Posted: 1/21/2013 1:28:44 PM | | that daddy part is freaky, but strap on part is sexy , its hot i think, like if i had a gf | |
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Posted: 1/21/2013 1:31:45 PM | | i can't imagine a normal guy asking a woman to perform such an act. i love women the way nature has programed the human species to enjoy each other. how ever i do think most guys would like to have a session that involves their lady telling them exactly how to please them. | |
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Posted: 1/21/2013 2:20:49 PM | | id let a chick use a strap on on me | |
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Posted: 1/22/2013 4:59:05 AM |
not just do him with it, but he wants to suck on it, and call you daddy while you do him? Im a little weirded out right now, is it just me?
It is NOT just you..... Very Creepy...... | |
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Posted: 1/22/2013 7:36:48 AM | | I can't relate to the "daddy" part, but I have tried and thoroughly enjoyed the rest. For me, it's just another expression of my sexual nature and gives me an opportunity to experience my submissive side. | |
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Posted: 1/22/2013 8:45:58 AM | people may think I'm close minded..and i really am not but this is one area i must say is a definite and not negotiable NO..
I had a woman i was talking to a few years ago and this was one of the things that after many phone conversations came up (I don't even know how we got there )..she wanted to know my feelings about letting her do this to me. It was a confident no way from me and unfortunately it was a no way to any further chance of things going further between us from her because of my stand on it. | |
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Posted: 1/22/2013 2:26:00 PM |
people may think I'm close minded..and i really am not but this is one area i must say is a definite and not negotiable NO..
There's nothing close minded about personal boundaries and preferences. The close minded here are those who pass judgment on others for THEIR personal boundaries and preferences. I'm always amazed by the number of people who can't tell the difference.
It's absolutely FINE to find this or that act personally unacceptable. It is NOT fine to condemn others for enjoying things you wouldn't personally want to do. I have zero interest in being sexually intimate with someone of my own gender. I have zero problem with two consenting adults of the same gender (or different genders) enjoying whatever sex practices work for them. If they're happy, I'm happy for them.
As for the topic at hand...
Been there, done that, enjoyed that, would enjoy it again in the right circumstances, but it's not essential to my fullfilment. More of a fun variation if we're both in the right frame of mind. | |
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Posted: 1/22/2013 6:34:12 PM | | Bizare behavior. Sounds very insecure to me. Twisted sex. | |
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