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| At what age does a man finally wake up and stop trying to score?
Posted: 9/5/2007 2:15:03 AM | LOL I'm such a hypocrate...but you know what? the honest answer to the question is two-sided...having had this discussion with women before I've come to the realization that there is no satisfactory answer.
When a guy stops looking to score depends on the/his individual life/sex life/social life experience(s). A 40 yr old virgin, like someone said, is looking to score as much as an 18-22 yr college guy.
I'm 30...and I can honestly say I am no longer "looking to score".... Been there, over it, now want more...been here for 3 yrs...
However, that does not mean I'm not down, should the opportunity arise, to screw my brains out w/ a one nighter...
Paradox...I'm not looking, cruising for ladies...but I'm not stupid.... | |
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| At what age does a man finally wake up and stop trying to score?
Posted: 9/5/2007 6:52:38 AM | | Waking up to what? You know, all this time I thought I liked sex, now that I'm a wake I realize that that I never really did...and besides I'm a crusty old geezer now. I don't think so. Thats why there are crusty old geezerettes who like sex too. | |
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| At what age does a man finally wake up and stop trying to score?
Posted: 9/5/2007 4:40:20 PM | 
Well OP. My grandparents would have to argue with you on that one, They had an active sex life till about 9months before my grandmother died. She was 90, He was 100.
All I can say is please oh please don't stop wanting it. I am getting older too. | |
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| At what age does a man finally wake up and stop trying to score?
Posted: 9/5/2007 7:00:08 PM | The bigger question is, "When are people going to realize the difference between a guy that is 'just trying to score' and a man who is in love with his partner who wants to remain 'active' with that partner?"
The title of this thread seems to imply that more men should stop looking exclusively for sex... which I would agree with, at least to an extent.
The OP then goes on to express their opinion that old people should not have sex.... which, frankly, I think is ridiculous.
The older I get, the older "old" gets. At 18, 40 seemed old. Now I'm 26, and when people die I can't help but think, "Holy shit!! Bob is dead!? He was only 72!"
The point here is that I hope to be able to live what I consider a happy, healthy life for as long as I possibly can. Being a "player" is not something that I consider healthy, but mostly because I do not think it would make me, emotionally, happy. (While I don't generally wear my heart on my sleeve, I don't believe in sex without some kind of emotional attachment... and I don't believe in being active with more than one person within the same time frame.) That doesn't mean, however, that if I'm still romantically involved when (and if) I make it to 90 that I don't hope (if we are both physically capable of it) to still be able to express my love physically.
In our society it is normal to be disgusted by the idea of our grandparents being physical (which is kind of strange, as that's how our parents came into being) ... the one day we become grandparents ourselves, and hopefully the feeling dies off.
Anyway... I was just writing to comment that I think the first post in the thread was misguided... possibly even at odds with a rather good point made by the thread title. Sorry for going on there... if anyone bothered to read all that. | |
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| At what age does a man finally wake up and stop trying to score?
Posted: 9/30/2007 9:00:33 PM | DebInTx, you sound like you've been hurt by an old man before. Maybe if you would stop and think about the things you said, you could get some understanding about people. For one, it is a blessing for a man to still be sexually active at an old age. I feel sorry for the couples that don't. And second, if the man is not capable of pleasing the woman because of his "Thing," as you call it, there are a whole lot of other things that the man and woman can do besides natural penetration--there's more to sex than just a man's peter; i.e., communication, touching, rubbing, caressing, sensitive spots, teasing, and romance, and if you do these right, his "Thing" will stand up strong.
And the reason women don't want to do the things in the magazine or on the videos is because they are not skilled enough, and neither do they have the flexibility to stretch or bend due to a bad back. I personally like to pull a girl's hair while I'm hittin' it from the back, but a girl with short hair can't give me that excitement.
And finally, on the subject of "Old women." They dry up, shrivel up, and even lose their sexual drive at age 40. EW!! | |
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| At what age does a man finally wake up and stop trying to score?
Posted: 10/9/2007 6:34:32 PM |
Do any of them finally realize it's time to give up? I mean who wants some lame d---ed, crusty old geezer on top of them anyhow? It's disgusting, and if they want a lady's companionship,they should stop with the sex talk. Otherwise they'll keep driving us awway!
Well. . . . You might try getting on top of them. . . . Might make you feel better?
As for me, and my house, I hope they never do.
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| At what age does a man finally wake up and stop trying to score?
Posted: 10/9/2007 7:23:14 PM | I honestly don't think it EVER stops for us guys... I think some are just more descrete about it than others. I mean, look at the rich old men who marry young beautiful girls... I don't think they doit just to impress their friends... nope, those girls are i that house for a REASON! I just heard on the news a while back that senior citizens in nursing homes are being given free condoms now to prevent the spread of STD among the older population. So that should tell all of us something. It's kind of embarrassing to talk about, but just recently I've had an older woman who was 65 yrs. old hit on me in a bar!...this ld broad even bought me drinks, and I THINK she was trying to get me drunk, but there isn't evnough alcohol in the WORLD for me to do what she was asking of me! .... I know how you feel...it was kinda creepy, but it also just kinda made me laugh. Then again, I was pretty drunk, because she kept feeding me beers all night. lol | |
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| At what age does a man finally wake up and stop trying to score?
Posted: 10/9/2007 8:11:00 PM |
At what age does a man finally wake up and stop trying to "score"?
If he’s my man, I hope it isn’t until he kicks the bucket.
Do any of them finally realize it's time to give up?
What time would that be??
I mean who wants some lame d---ed, crusty old geezer on top of them anyhow?
I might when I am a bow-legged old crone.
It's disgusting, and if they want a lady's companionship, they should stop with the sex talk. Otherwise they'll keep driving us awway!
Now, if you are talking about the first meeting and dates, I understand where you are coming from, but you didn’t really specify that in the beginning.
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| At what age does a man finally wake up and stop trying to score?
Posted: 10/10/2007 1:43:10 AM | Do any of them finally realize it's time to give up? I mean who wants some lame d---ed, crusty old geezer on top of them anyhow? It's disgusting, and if they want a lady's companionship,they should stop with the sex talk. Otherwise they'll keep driving us awway!
First, the mature svj response.
OP: Well guys, can you believe she's still single?? How did we ever let that one get away?
You hate sex. We get it. Deal with it already. Preferably privately.
And now... the immature response.
(my best sing-song voice)
Someone got a dirty mail from a 80 year old.... Someone got a dirty mail from a 80 year old!
nyah nyah nyah nyah nyah!
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| At what age does a man finally wake up and stop trying to score?
Posted: 10/10/2007 5:24:49 AM | *steals svj's style*
Yea...that's right...I am a thievin' word hussy! LOL.
First, the semi-mature (*smiles*) Ink response…
*insert Dr. Ruth's voice here*
It's just her opinion...she made a brash statement about diving 'all us women away'
It's not true...she isn't speaking on behalf of all of us...circumstances people,*rolls eyes* and preferences...*sighs*....someone needs a toy.
And now... the immature response…
*In my best sing-song voice*
Someone got a dirty mail from a 80 year old.... Someone got a dirty mail from a 80 year old!
nyah nyah nyah nyah nyah!
LOL...teasin' girl.*wink*
Seriously, If it 'irks' you don't do it...don't allow it...JUST DON'T.
Oh...and try not to generalize so...really, your not speaking on behalf ...of half as many ladies as you think. | |
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| At what age does a man finally wake up and stop trying to score?
Posted: 10/10/2007 8:06:18 AM | Another thread that makes a generalization about Men.
Peachy.
Trying to score has never been my primary reason for dating anyone.
I am 28 years old and a virgin by choice.
You may say that I am the exception, but I am not.
Keep making generalizations about Men, and there will be no more Men to make generalizations about. | |
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