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| would you prefer avoidance or the truth
Posted: 7/22/2007 9:05:57 PM | Tell him.
Never 'let him figure it out'. Tell him tactfully and with respect that there's nothing there...don't toy with him.
By the way, why'd ya let it go 5-6 dates before ya figured there wasn't anything there...?
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| would you prefer avoidance or the truth
Posted: 7/26/2007 6:33:58 PM | Truth is always better, even if it hurts. As I see it, the hurt will become deeper if time goes by with him thinking there is a romantic future. Then he will think he'd just been strung along, and will feel foolish which will lead to an even angrier response.
There is nothing wrong with being friends, as long as you two set and agree on the rules. Sex is not the be all, end all most people seem to think it is. Sex, at best is transitory. Friendship can last a lifetime.
Peace. | |
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Deonyx
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Joined: 1/20/2008
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| would you prefer avoidance or the truth
Posted: 5/17/2008 2:30:13 PM | TELL HIM!
Why gamble with somebody's heart?
It is a matter of simple common courtesy and respect.
--Wouldn't you want to be told?
DO IT NOW. | |
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| would you prefer avoidance or the truth
Posted: 5/17/2008 3:37:04 PM | | Tell him the truth. Even if the truth hurts him it is much less disturbing to him than leading him on and him finding out later. | |
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| would you prefer avoidance or the truth
Posted: 5/24/2008 8:11:13 AM | On second thought, are you sure you aren't keeping him in that "in-case-of-emergency-break-glass"
category because you like keeping a hopeful soul on the hook for your own ego-stroke? 
....Or, are you just chicken of confrontation? | |
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