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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 6/23/2007 6:21:21 PM | You can NEVER EVER....EVER....go back. Ever. I tried. The "vanilla" sex eventually became horrible to me and was a main factor in my divorce. That and the depression of realizing that I would never have "rough" sex again for the rest of my life. Was just aweful!!
Lol, was a very sad time in my life. But not any more!
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 6/23/2007 7:49:47 PM |
Some days I'm in the mood for the rough stuff. Some days I'm in the mood for the soft stuff. Some days I want both. Some days I don't want any...
Rosanne did a famous stand-up bit on her cycle. When I first saw it on TV, I had only been with one woman (my first wife) long enough to observe it; I'd been thinking, "Boy--does this woman have multiple personality disorder, or what?" Now, of course, I know (both from Roseanne, and from subsequent experience--no, NOT with Roseanne... though I'd do her) it's the vast majority of women whose sex drive and preferences depend on the phase of the moon. Too weird--and wonderful! | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 6/23/2007 7:58:04 PM | Id have to.
If I just slept with a girl for the first time, and she tried some of the stuff that an X may have done already, id stil be outta there. Thats too much too fast, theres a comfort zone thats gotta be there before you really want to start getting out there. At least for me, a first time partner would have a **** of a time getting handcuffs on me. I guess I have watched too much TV
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 6/23/2007 8:00:09 PM |
Okay. So once you have really good rough sex on an ongoing basis, and I mean really good, would you ever settle for vanilla sex again (I don't just mean one time, but would you ever consider having a partner who wasn't into anything kinky?)?
Once you've crossed that line...... can you ever go back? How would it affect your choices of a future partner?
Well it depends on the actual size match.. I mean if it's some man that's below average and he's doing the rough sex on me well all I am going to get out of it is a bruised area and no pleasure if he is overly large well I'll probally end up in the hospital
Now as far as going back to vanilla? NOOOO Not if it was the last day I was alove NEVER ! I love it rough~! | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 6/23/2007 9:34:16 PM | | i agree with the methodical journey...sex is a life all of its own...moods, physical capabilities and places all should be taken into consideration...hard sex combined with hard loving is the ultimate!!! | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 6/25/2007 4:49:42 PM | There is NO going back. My ex (18 months) turned me onto BDSM. It was amazing. I found sides to me that I never had a clue existed. I've been single for 2 years now and sex sucks. Every relationship I've had since the breakup, hinges on the sex. If he doesn't have it in him to be Dom, our relationship goes no where.
You can take that for being shallow.
I call it knowing WHAT I want !!! And no settling for anything less. | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 6/25/2007 5:06:32 PM | | Rough sex...is a real turnon...but after the "rough" sex, kisses, hugs....vanilla smooching is a wonderful end to a perfect time!! | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 6/25/2007 5:28:13 PM | there is something very desirable to me about the balance between vanilla and rough
to all go over the board between the two while communicating what you like or don't like and experimentating seems, to me, the most intimate way of connecting the souls
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 6/25/2007 5:42:15 PM | | You need variety of all kinds.... it depends on how I'm feeling.... but could I ever do the straight up, no variety, 2 position never being spanked again?? HELL NO | |
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Joined: 12/7/2006
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 6/25/2007 6:02:32 PM | Mmmmmmmm Variety!
What ever the mood calls for and gawd no please don't ask me to just have vanilla sex for the rest of my life. I would rather do with out.
Rough, tender, kink what ever makes our hair stand on end and makes us glow like super novas brighter than her pink behind!
It's even fun later when you get that delightful shiver remembering.  | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 6/27/2007 2:23:02 AM | | i was in a nilla relationship for 2 years and some regrets cause i like it rough whips spanking cuffing and stuff like that but to tell u something i think i might go back only if the guy was willing to experience the bondage things with me maybe i can turn him lol | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 6/28/2007 12:30:26 PM | | First of all you need to agree on the roughness level and activities... but variety is always good. Different positions, locations, toys... don't wanna get in a rut (so to speak) | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 6/28/2007 12:34:12 PM | | There's something to be said for variety, I think. There are definitely times for more tender, "vanilla" sex... but cinnamon definitely has its place too. | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 6/28/2007 1:15:53 PM | not sure what you mean by vanilla sex when clearly im caramel lol.........jk... it all depends on the mood....i like it in many ways but i will take it rough any day  | |
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Joined: 7/18/2006
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 6/28/2007 2:24:10 PM | | i am not a vanilla girl. kink, dirty talk and rough play is what gets me wet. sure, tenderness and cuddling are luvly in the afterglow, but sex itself is raw and should not be gentle. | |
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