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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 9/11/2007 1:03:30 PM | I like it . . _occasionally_ . . as a variation or change of position . . during a long session . . but Fast, rough stuff wears me/both out much quicker . .
I _Much_ prefer Slow, Tender, Emotional, Sensual Love-making . . extending the enjoyment over an Hour . . or two . . of Pure Pleasure . . !!! | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 12/29/2007 7:53:28 PM |
i personally think its a mood thing but to answer ur question yes one could go back to not so rough sex.
It is individual to the relationship. Some relationships develop into d/s, and once they do, it's rare that vanilla sex will be all that fulfilling. On the other hand, after a d/s relationship ends, the "norm" is to enter into a relationship, where sex is pedicated on a more "vanilla" paradigm.
IME, it's one or the other, not both in the same relationship. Which one a person is primarily looking for is, yes, something of a mood thing, but more the pervasive mood for a time, rather than transitory moods of the moment. | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 12/29/2007 8:17:03 PM | | There's a wealth of difference when you care about the person that you're with vs. just screwing. I mean, rough sex isn't always good sex, and same for vanilla. I would hope that there are variations of sexual intensity that I have with my partner, and would consider it a problem if there weren't. If you're not growing, sexuality-wise, then your next partner is in for a whole different set of issues. | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 12/29/2007 10:32:50 PM | I enjoy rough sex, but it's like anything. It too can get boring after awhile.
But then I get bored easily that's why I am a habitual dater. | |
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Posted: 12/29/2007 11:18:17 PM | | Too much emphasis is placed on the sex. If you are in a loving long term relationship(dont we all want this ?" then we should be able to satisfy our partner either way. I love to dominate, and would love a woman who could be submissive (not all the time) but have not found anyone yet who can be "both" apart from my exwife. Going back to vanilla, the whole thread seems like bollocks (no disrespect to the original poster). i FYOU LOVE SOMEONE YOU LOVE SOMEONE , I'd do almost anything to please someone I loved | |
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smd83
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Joined: 1/17/2008
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 1/28/2008 8:33:01 AM | Ohhh no... He can choose to go vanilla but sure as hell I wont be the one involved in it...
so he can OPEN his mind... or IM  | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 3/15/2008 5:24:39 AM | I agree with many other posters in this question. I'd go back to vanilla for a while in the hopes of opening her sexual repertoire. However, that said, theres no way I could stand it for the long term.
I mean, once you've been on a rack, or put someone on the rack, tied them up and hauled out the whips, crops, and velvet wand, theres no going back to vanilla.
Yes, it would affect my longterm choice for a partner.
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 3/15/2008 7:25:15 AM | | That's the situation I'm facing now.....I don't know that I could go back to ONLY vanilla....an occasional...sure...cause rough isn't always what I want, but to NEVER have it again.... | |
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Posted: 3/16/2008 7:17:21 PM | Vanilla sex?? LMAO. Um, so what flavor is kinky?
OK, so have you ever heard of the expression, if you eat an apple everyday sooner or later you're gonna want an orange? Well that applies here.
You can have really great, rough sex everyday and love it, but if it's the same old thing, it too will get boring. A little soft, passionate lovemaking is and can be just as kinky.
You gotta mix it up.
Now if you are having that great sex with someone and loose them, have to look for another, then you are probably going to be a little picky about your future partner, especially if they aren't into the rough stuff.
That's why communication is the key. Talk about your likes and dislikes before you jump in. That way you will know if you are sexually compatable.
Me personally, well, gotta have the rough sex and if my partner won't give me the kink, see ya, moving on. | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 3/16/2008 7:56:45 PM | It's always better to mix it up but I confess to being spoiled to it. Can't go back and if I could I sure as hell wouldn't want to.  | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 3/18/2008 6:00:52 AM | I left my last boyfriend partially for this reason. I like sex, not intercourse. What I mean by that is PLEASE don't be predictable, and if you must be, don't make me be predictable by telling me I'm a freak when I want to do things you have never done. I like rough, I like toys, I like when you just let me go down on you, I like being submissive at times and dominant at others. I like it when you smack my ass just as much as I like it when you kiss my neck. Basically I like EVERYTHING...so when I am limited to 3 positions...5 mins of foreplay...lights off...10 mins of thrust, and then I finish myself....EVERY time...puh-lease
No, you can NEVER go back to boring sex...it will not work | |
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Posted: 3/18/2008 6:19:39 AM | I want it all... depending on the mood. Kinky is fun to spice things up sometimes but I still enjoy 'love making'. I would certainly try to corrupt my new partner, but if their not into it that's fun. I wouldn't leave someone I like just because of their more gentle sex style.. | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 3/18/2008 7:57:20 AM | tulipa
this is an interesting post, i dont mind the makin luv and vanilla sex, but if a guy cannot get rough with me and dominate me, i cant stay with him....i am not a cheater and i never will be, so i need to make sure i find sumone who will give me the good luvin that i require, rough sex is great but i do like to mix it up a bit as well as be made luv to...i believe the perfect balance in a relationship is a lil bit of vanilla and a lil bit of chocolate.....
lol
have a great day folks
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Joined: 3/8/2008
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 3/18/2008 9:18:22 AM | | The problem for me is that I can only very rarely , if ever, "allow" the woman to be the dominant one during rough sex. I am the dominant one by nature, I guess. My last regular partner complained a bit about that, but in general the roughness factor was high, and then the "switch over" the next time to nice and slow and passionate was very interesting and fun as well. It's pretty hot to go from being like you are practically raping her, face pushed down in the pillows, hair pulled hard, name-calling, etc, to being like Mr. rose petals strewn on the bed super gentle loverman, and she seemed to like this fairly regular switch-over as well. | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 3/18/2008 1:14:32 PM | I know for me "ROUGH SEX " is what it is about...to be pushed and not know where this is going is so very exciting(lots of trust is envolved). The mind is such a wonderful thing..to be racing, wondering what is coming next, the complete loss of controll...maybe as someone stated there is more going on during this kind of sex...laten this or that...surpressed or unrealized desires...needs...submission....whatever...all I know is that "ROUGH SEX" is so very outragious that "vanilla" loses it appeal. | |
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