| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 4/13/2008 10:37:22 AM | I am sure it is possible to go back, but I wouldn't want to.
I do like tender sex sometimes. But, I can't imagine being with somebody who wasn't into anything kinky.
Just seems like that would get kinda boring real quick.
And, it would affect my choice of a future partner. | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 4/18/2008 10:44:01 AM | | variety is all.if its one way and one way only, i will try to change it. i dont mind putting in the effort to get the results i want. hopefully he will enjoy it too. if not... not come across that yet ;) | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 4/18/2008 12:53:19 PM | | How rough are most of you talking though? It seems like kind of a broad category, "rough". Do you mean "mild rough", or seriously rough? Because I'd never have though this many women would enjoy seriously rough sex, frankly. | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 4/18/2008 1:18:47 PM | | I have never settled for vanilla sex. I like things that some people may not like and this does affect my choice in partners because it's nice to be compatible in the bedroom as well as on an intellectual level. | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 4/18/2008 1:54:02 PM | | Depends what you mean by rough sex. I tend to have a fair bit of rougher vanilla sex, though I do enjoy some kink as well. I'm not into S&M. But I wouldn't want only gentle sex on a regular basis; I really do enjoy the more primal, rougher sex as well. I don't think it has anything to do with line-crossing in my case. I think I just like rougher sex sometimes. | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 4/29/2008 3:35:53 AM | It depends on the situation completely, for me.
My first relationship, the sex was very vanilla. I was young, and he was my first. I got out of that relationship, and had a one night stand a while later, and it was *FANTASTIC*...given I was drunker than drunk.
I've noticed that...I don't think the vanilla will do it for me anymore. I was already getting a bit sick of the vanilla while I was dating the boy. | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 5/25/2008 11:29:53 AM | | Well I think once you get to a certain age most people want to experiment. I personally like the male to be dominant, I am a natural submissive- Well in the bedroom at least- Only men with very high sex drives turn me on. | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 5/28/2008 6:56:02 PM | First, i think rough sex and kinky sex are two different things, rough to me means hair pulling , biting, talking dirty , getting spanked, etc.... kinky is more weird , like ropes , ties, handcuffs, swings etc....
But to answer the question at hand....
Depends on what gets you excited, i personally can enjoy both, although the rougher sex seems to be the more passionate and leads to better orgasms. When in a relationship, there always has to be compromise when it comes to sex, you have to give to recieve. Some people associate sex as complete "love making" and like it 'vanilla' or maybe have never crossed the 'line' to the rougher side. | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 5/28/2008 8:10:11 PM | I am totally ruined at this point and yes it affects in my choices in the future partner.
I can't be with anyone who's any kind of vanilla sex or is NON kinky or CLOSE minded about some preferences I do have, for me it's all or nothing. | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 5/28/2008 8:10:11 PM | | I don't think I could permenantly go back. I like gentle sex on occasion but I don't think I could do a steady diet of it anymore. | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 5/28/2008 8:17:39 PM | I'm ruined!
I am doomed to a life of kinky uninhibited rough sex and passion till I can't get it up any more.
I guess it sucks to be me. | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 5/28/2008 8:47:03 PM |
Yes, what is rough sex? Slapping? Biting? Drawing blood?
It can be.
There are all levels.
Here I think it pertains more to a bedroom Dom/Sub type thing.
I would say that on more than one occasion both of us have come away from some passionate love making with bruises, scratches, bite marks, welts and sometimes some blood. not a lot but some.
Have you ever wanted to be ravished, spanked, want to feel a Little out of your control, a little pain to emphasize and highlight what is happening. Some made passionate abandon with hard pounding bent over the furniture sex?
Or wanted to do it to him?
Rough has many levels and now I am off to a cold shower growling about my so far away love. | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 5/28/2008 8:54:04 PM | | The definition of rough varies so I make sure I specify. If you break the skin, I will kill you. If you leave marks that can be seen at work, I will kill you. If it involves bodily fluids other than cum and saliva, I don't deal with it. Otherwise, if it's between consenting adults, I'll probably at least try it! | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 5/28/2008 9:02:00 PM |
If it involves bodily fluids other than cum and saliva, I don't deal with it.
LOL Running joke between my GF and I. Everytime we get together we end up with CSI sheets.
Hmmm I wonder how long before she slaps me in the head because she can't ever post here if people find out she is my GF? | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 5/28/2008 9:04:07 PM | Have you ever wanted to be ravished, spanked, want to feel a Little out of your control, a little pain to emphasize and highlight what is happening. Some made passionate abandon with hard pounding bent over the furniture sex?
No pain - if a man gets rough with my nipples it pisses me off
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 5/28/2008 9:11:51 PM | No pain - if a man gets rough with my nipples it pisses me off
Is it pain in general or just the nipples.
My d!ck is sensitive. I don't enjoy to much roughness with it. It needs and wants to be loved. On the other hand when it is thrusting hard and fast in a cvnt, a$$ or mouth it seems to be a lot more resiliant to pain, Go figure.
Rough sex may not be for you.
Some pain is a spice to some of us.
Nipples are and interesting thing in rough sex. Often you have to start out gently with them but by the end of the night it is amazing how far you have to go to get that gasp of pleasure from nipple stimulation. | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 5/28/2008 10:11:38 PM | well i dont think myself personally that there is anything wrong with a bit of ruff sex every now and then as long as you both agree and dont go over Bord with it all its just a different way of having sex enjoying each others company and having fun and exploring new things sexual adventures and pleasures so enjoy the moment have fun ....shaz  | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 5/29/2008 1:13:01 AM | | No vanilla sex thanks. I want chocolate and strawberries thrown in, add some kink, toys, biting and roughness and that sounds like a better recipe to me. | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 5/29/2008 1:21:13 AM | It is absolutly impossible to go back to a vanilla sex life if you have tried the darker side, and loved it. I am one of those, who settled for missionary, and no oral...etc, but then met a person who showed me the true meaning of good sex, and I have been sharing the good news to others ever since.
Ruined? I would say not, inlightened perhaps, but certainly not ruined.
SexyWanda
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 5/29/2008 3:24:14 AM | Nah, I found it's a problem for me. I'm talkin kinky, but not like "punch in the face" kinky.
I was seeing a girl that would take it in ways you only saw on porn, liked it, loved it and did me proud. She left but the damage remained. I was talkin to my friend the other week about what I look for in a woman, it wasn't right away, but eventually it came down to me saying "it'd be tough to date a woman that won't let me put it in her butt from time to time and the sad part is... i'm serious."
Sex can be a serious problem for relationships. If say she wants to go see a britney spears concert and you're like "umm no.. f*ck that's gay..." and she's like "Fine I'll just take my friend." Fine, no problem, I'd love to have the same taste in music, but if we don't we can listen to different stuff. Say I play golf and she refuses to come, who cares right I'll get golf buddies. Sex ain't like that, if you want to tie your partner up and they ain't into it, you can't just go find (well most people wouldn't I hope) another partner that will let you do it to them.
It's the 1 thing where if she/he ain't giving it, you ain't getting it. Unless you're a swinger or something, but I'm not and a lot of people aren't. | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 5/29/2008 6:31:11 AM | | you cant go back unless you have deep feelings or chemistry for your partener and even then it will start slow and get rough by the end most times | |
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