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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 5/29/2008 9:04:40 AM | | I don't know if I am doing this right or not on putting my reason why I love to have rough sex. I am the kind of person who is very shy at most times and no one knows how I like my sex because I am so shy. I like to have it nice and rough. So rough that even though I am screaming for my partner to do it harder and harder I can still hear his balls slapping and banging against my wet ****. I also like to have sex very hard while in doggie style that really turns me on so much. At most times I don't think that my BF understand that is what I really want. but there are times when being why isn't the issue it's just because he don't do it like I want it. Hard sex is a turn on for me especially when I get drunk to make it better. But of course I demand hard sex from him because the way he does that doesn't work out for me. I guess I like to be in control in sex. | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 5/29/2008 10:59:32 AM | I think it depends on who you are with. I can go both ways... I TEND to like it a little rough. But that all boils down to what kind of mood I or she is in.
As far as kinky.. well.. again, as I have posted on here before. I would do just about anything as long as it doesn't involve pain, children or animals.
My question to all of you is.. why wouldn't you? If you are having sex with someone.. hopefully you have an awesome bond with them and there is love there... then why wouldn't you want to please them and them you?!
I won't settle for just vanilla.... I like to mix it up.. but it isn't something that is done each and every time!
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 5/30/2008 7:44:33 PM | | Rough sex is the shit! Once you've had it good, and I mean GOOD, you will never go back. Making love is soap operas and chick flix! | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 5/30/2008 9:00:03 PM | I agree with message 16.....its all good to a point I like all the aformentiopned but also take a dim view of buggy whips ....but the other stuff I'm there!!lol (what a naughty thread) lol | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 5/30/2008 9:05:56 PM | | If you have masochistic tendencies, then go work out real hard, make your muscles real sore... then get an extremely hard deep-tissue sports massage from a strong certified and license male massage therapist. WOW.... this would be the experience of your life! | |
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Diva83
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Joined: 5/27/2008
Msg: 183 | |
| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 5/31/2008 10:44:35 AM | | I love to have any kind of sex really but I love to have rough sex more then anything. Just thinking about someone just putting me on a dresser or even a bathroom sink and putting my legs up and ****ing me so hard that is such a turn on for me to do that. I love the sound of what hard sex makes.....when someone is banging you so hard that you can hear the sound of a big**** in me and his balls are banging against me and having me bag for more while my partner is ****ing me harder and harder. That is such a turn on for me. I love to have any kind of sex anywhere. | |
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Diva83
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Joined: 5/27/2008
Msg: 184 | |
| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 5/31/2008 10:58:31 AM | I know that I just put one on here under the name of goodiesLD about how I love to have hard rough sex but I have to make another one about.
I love to have rough and passionate sex with whoever I am with but it is hard to find someone that does it right for me. I love that kind of sex that I can bag my partner to give me more but having his****banging me so hard against my **** it's so hard to hear me. you see I love to have any kind of sex but rough sex is the best for me. Just thinking about having someone bending me over in a doggies style really turns me on. looking for someone to try it out with me.
Contact me at Diva83. | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 5/31/2008 11:47:33 AM | | I know my last ex girlfriend couldn't go back. It was pretty sad, actually we did have it, but she wanted sex like 4 times a day, I just couldn't do it every single time. | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 5/31/2008 1:19:22 PM | Variety babe, variety. You have to mix it up for the mood you're in. ;) Must be spontaneous at times (and rough) and romantic other times (lots of forplay and kissing) -- ahhhhh, heaven!  | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 6/1/2008 4:27:15 AM | First time rough for me was about 2 years ago and realised I'd been missing out on a really good thing.
Next relationship I'm in I'd have no problem telling the guy how I like it. If you don't ask, you don't get.  | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 6/1/2008 7:25:30 AM | What constitutes "rough sex"?
Just curious because I believe what I would consider normal would be a little rough for some..lol
As long as you are not inflicting real pain or doing permanent damage its all good right?
Of course there are times when vanilla has its place....again, its all good! | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 6/2/2008 12:00:36 PM | I didn't read anything more than the first post,
but I think that if you're looking for STRICTLY sex & prefer it rough, why settle for anything less? But if you're looking for commitment & prefer rough sex but the man/woman that you're with isn't so much into that, I think that you could settle with plain old 'vanilla'. I'm sure that the person you're with would stretch their limits a little to satisfy you, just as you would for them. | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 6/3/2008 3:44:46 PM | | I have to agree with Midnight crossing. Variety is the key. Although I do prefer rough sex, I am quite submissive in bed and enjoy being told what to do. Hey it works for me | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 6/3/2008 5:43:11 PM | I like my vanilla with a little "Topping"! Nothing like having a good Dominant man to... well, I don't want to get deleted from here .
I'm into some serious rough play, and although I enjoy the vanilla once in a while, I can't imagine going back to vanilla full time. Once you *really* cross the line (not talking about experimenting) you can't go back! Quite the opposite really. The more you experience on that level, the more you want to try...
Guess I've corrupted myself to the point of no return (not that it's a bad thing).
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 6/4/2008 12:45:05 PM |
Okay. So once you have really good rough sex on an ongoing basis, and I mean really good, would you ever settle for vanilla sex again (I don't just mean one time, but would you ever consider having a partner who wasn't into anything kinky?)?
Hell No
That's like asking someone who has discovered the wonders of truely great scotch if they would be happy going back to malt duck.... | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 6/4/2008 1:25:57 PM | I think there is a danger of that... or that an emotional bond between people can be ruined by their desire for more sex. In fact, I believe that it's natural for people to become used to each other after awhile and not be quite as excited as they were at first... but does that mean we shouldn't try to make sex exciting?
I don't think so.
However, I do think we have to realize that "more" is not always better... or that we shouldn't necessarily do everything we possibly can, just because we can.
"Everything in moderation", someone said... | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 6/4/2008 1:46:27 PM | all depends on the mood
I'm a switch so it all depends on what kind of mood I'm in. Sometimes rough, sometimes gentle... sometimes downright corrupt.. it's the best way to reach deep down and find out what's really in there, better if you have a partner to explore with.
vanilla forever? No, I couldn't even date a guy seriously if he couldn't mix it up... | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 6/4/2008 1:59:28 PM | I've never had the chance to find a someone into rough sex, one post talked about being with the same person for years and then discovering rough sex, that's my situation.
I would imagine you could have it both ways, we all have different sides to our personalities, I'd love to try being submissive but it's not easy to find someone.
But on the other hand I also enjoy long and slow and soft......
Sexual Schitzophrenia????? Or just normal more likely. | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 6/4/2008 2:39:22 PM | Variety is really the way to go in a productive, satisfying sex life! So rough to vanilla and back again is exactly the way things should be! Definitely going back to vanilla can show you you are accepted equally in every sexual situation. Respect for each others desires is key!
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 6/4/2008 2:56:16 PM | Just ****ing **** me, already.
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Date: 2008-02-03, 3:29PM PST
Dear Men of Craigslist,
Look, I know you men have it difficult. Women are just about impossible to understand, much less please. In a post-feminist society, you never know exactly what you should be doing. Women are bloody picky, I know we are. It can be scary, too, when women freak out about what appear to be benign issues. And men who do their best to be respectful, female-positive humans, I salute you, I do.
But please, please just **** me already. Honestly, I appreciate your thoughtfulness. I like that you want to take things slow. I can totally get behind the idea of emotional connection, but dearjesusinheaven, **** ME. We've done dinner and drinks. We've gone dancing. We've cuddled and watched a movie. I'm wearing a low cut shirt and you've been staring at my breasts all night. Goodgodalmighty, get to it and **** me.
When we get hot and heavy, please take charge. Please, please **** me. Trust me, I'm not going to just lie still - I'll get involved. But don't make me force your hand into my panties. That makes me feel like a rapist. We've been kissing for a half hour and your hand keeps grazing my ass. That's nice, but it's time to move forward. Get on top of me. Don't make me get on top right out of the gate and start bobbing up and down on your****like I'm practicing some crazy new aerobic yoga because YOU won't go down on me. Roll on top and start dry humping like a good boy should. Don't gently suck my nipples and then pull back when I moan with pleasure. You being coy is totally not what I want. It's not what WE want.
OK, I know it's scary. There are lots of women out there who make ****ing really difficult. So, I have compiled some handy tips. Don't think of this as complaining, or as schadenfreude for the Andrea Dworkins of the world. Just some simple tips, for timid men who have forgotten what it means to **** like men:
1. Taking charge is not bad. Oh, there will be some women who feel that you are pushy. If you are making out with a woman, and she starts to push back, ask nicely if things are moving too fast. If she says yes, say something like "I'm sorry - you just look so ****ing delicious. I'll go slower." Otherwise, skillfully move forward. If you start kissing a woman, and she responds well, and before long, you're both on the floor with her skirt pushed up, and you on top of her, it's not the time to roll onto your back and start awkwardly stroking the top of her head. Seriously, grow a goddamn pair. YOU'RE the man. Act like one.
2. Ohmy****inggod, please learn to respect the clit. It's different for every woman, so ask what she likes. Do not, I repeat, do not just wiggle your fingers around her **** like you're trying to tickle her. Do not drum your fingertips against her vulva like you are impatiently waiting at the Sears Tire Center for your receipt. Do not push the clit like it is a doorbell at some house that you need to get inside of. Start by using all four fingers with firm yet gentle pressure against the outside of her ****. Do not charge in with a single finger and start jabbing at things. And if you really don't know what to do, ask her. Just ask. "How do you like it?". It's a simple question, and most women will answer straight out. If she's being all coy, ask "Do you like pressure? Is it sensitive?" The clitoris is a varied item, indeed. Treat each one as though you have never encountered one before. Forget everything that your last partner liked.
3. Most women like to be ****ed, and ****ed well. Yes, there are women out there who want to "make love" every time - sweet, gentle, rocking love with lots of eye contact and loving kisses. Those women are not the majority. The majority like to be pounded. The majority like to have their hair pulled. The majority like a good, solid jackhammering. When a woman is bucking wildly against you, it's not because she wants you to pull back and slowly swirl your****around her vagina like you're mixing a cake batter up there. It's because she wants you to hold down her arms, or grab her hips, or push her legs above her head, and **** her harder. Don't be too afraid of what this means as far as gender equality goes - I am a raging feminist ****, but I still want to be penetrated like you are planning on ****ing my throat from the inside out.
4. A little roughness is nice. Do not pretend that you had no idea that some women like their hair pulled. Do not act shocked if she wants you to spank her ("Really? Spanking? Won't it hurt?" - yes, it does. That's the ****ing point). We know you've read Stuff and Maxim, and that's all those laddie mags talk about in their "How to Please Her" sections. Start with light, full handed smacks to the area of her ass that she sits on. Judge her response and continue on from there. You don't have to bend her over one knee and tell her she's a naughty girl and that Daddy's going to punish her; save that for the fifth date. Women are less delicate than you think, so don't worry about breaking her hip.
5. It's OK for you to make noise. Otherwise, we feel like we are ****ing a ninja. Unless you actually are a ninja, and have sneaked into our rooms with vibrating nanuchaku and zippered black pajamas, please, please make some noise. If you're banging a woman, and she's crying out and saying your name and moaning, and you can't even manage a grunt, she's going to feel like an idiot. You don't have to make the sounds she is making, but do SOMETHING. You know how when you are watching porn, and the girl does something great to the guy and the guy kind of goes "Ah!", half grunt, half yell? That's HOT. Do that. Whisper our name (assuming you know it) gruffly. Groan against her neck when you're in missionary position. You don't have to grunt like a mountain gorilla, but if you are totally mute, she's going to get worried.
6. Most women like dirty talk, in addition to the grunting. If you'd like to get some dirty talk going, ask her if she likes the way you **** her. If she responds well, continue with something like, "I love ****ing you. God, you look so ****ing hot." Is she still moaning in response? "Your tits are so beautiful." Does that work? If she doesn't respond well to the term "tits", you might have to stop there. If she keep moaning or responding, pass Go and collect $200. Try the following:
"Oh, god. Your **** is SO tight."
"You're so wet - are you wet because you like the feel of my****ramming you?"
"I think I'm going to come inside you. I'm going to fill up your little****" It doesn't matter that you're wearing a condom; we LOVE hearing this.
If all of those work, you can then progress to things like "sexy little ****" and "dirty whore". Tread carefully, but please, tread. Do not tiptoe. Do not sit down. Charge.
6. You're not obligated to eat a woman out. In return, she's not obligated to choke on your**** Don't skip one and expect the other. If you do eat a woman out, the only comment you should make about her **** is how nice it is. The length of her labia minora, the color of her interior, her waxing job or full bush - you are not John Madden. No time for color commentary.
7. Do not **** about condoms. Oh, we hate them. Trust us. They hurt us more than they hurt you. But we don't want to be preggers, and you don't want to catch anything, right? Don't whine about condom sex. Do not explain that you can't come with one on. LEARN to come with one on, or if not, help us figure out what to do with you once we're satisfied and it's time for you to let loose your load.
8. We really like it when you come. It's called a money shot for a reason. Watching semen shoot out of you is one of the most gratifying things EVER. However, do not assume that she wants you to jack it off onto her face. She might, but don't assume. Seeing and/or feeling you come is rewarding for us, so there's no need to deprive us of it, but please do consult us before unleashing. "I think I'm going to come - how do you like it?" is a fair question that shouldn't rob you of your testicles.
In recent memory, I've been ****ed by a very aggressive, manly guy, and I've been... well, ****ed is the wrong term here. I've been penetrated by a total and utter wuss. Who am I going to run back to when I'm ready for my fill? Manly McHardon, that's who. ----------------------------------------------------
*New point of clarification - some people have brought up some really great issues in response to this post, so let me say this: I don't mean to imply that all women like to be treated like whores. I do mean to say that most women I know have told me that they like sex rougher than most men give it to them. Rough does NOT equal chains and bondage. And this applies to the bedroom only, and does not mean that she wants you to choose her dinner for her, or treat her like less of a person. **Some women have said that they don't like it rough and what the hell am I thinking? Well, girls, you're in the minority. HOWEVER, all women need to remember that, in addition to be straight forward about your sexual desires, you need to be straight forward about your sexual limits. Don't be afraid to ask for more, but when something feels wrong, say so. Don't ever do something you don't want to do in silence and then blame the guy. Silence is dangerous. | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 6/4/2008 3:17:21 PM | OMFG!!!!
Holly_Golightly6 has my vote for best fvcking post ever so far.
As a newly awakened dom not only did I enjoy her post a found it spiritualy uplifting.
YOU GO GIRL! | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 6/4/2008 3:32:55 PM | I think it varies on the mood you're in. I'm not one for casual sex, but I have an extremely high sex drive so usually theres some built up frustration (as an ex of mine would say) that comes out when I decide to take a relationship to the next level. While in a relationship, I prefer a little of this, a little of that...it keeps things from becoming to routine...Jeez..the thought of routine sex is making me nauseous! I’m like diva64...I’ll take vanilla, chocolate, blue raspberry, strawberry…whatever…lol
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