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 eeek
Joined: 9/23/2005
Msg: 76
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eeek, I have read some of them and it just made me angry.


That was pretty much my reaction.

If men don't want to be with independent women, they don't have to be.


From what I read a lot of them are extremely threatened by the entire idea. Bitter was dripping off the bottom of my screen!

My peeve is when they date you, tell you how much they are attracted to and admire that quality in you, then once you are sucked in, they try to destroy it!


I did every thing I could to support my wife being a seperate person and, even though it ended with her leaving, I would not change that.
 califboomergirl
Joined: 11/22/2006
Msg: 77
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Posted: 6/26/2007 12:51:00 AM

I did every thing I could to support my wife being a seperate person and, even though it ended with her leaving, I would not change that.

You are a rare soul.
 eeek
Joined: 9/23/2005
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Posted: 6/26/2007 1:07:36 AM

You are a rare soul.


Sole? You sure I'm not a cod? Oh, ok, I'll admit to being built more like a whale. But I've haddock with these accusations of me not being shellfish. I'm still looking for a cute little yellow tail no matter what you say.
 califboomergirl
Joined: 11/22/2006
Msg: 79
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Posted: 6/26/2007 1:12:50 AM
You are a barracuda of laughs when I am feeling crabby!
 Violet Tigress
Joined: 1/10/2007
Msg: 80
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Posted: 6/26/2007 11:05:55 AM
I hate that wheb a guy writes to you & you respond, he responds to that....but when you actually ask him a question he never replies.
 NoGamesMan
Joined: 6/8/2007
Msg: 81
PET PEEVES about the OPPOSITE SEX
Posted: 6/27/2007 9:19:01 PM
My pet peeve is men who are wussies and won't share their true thoughts and feelings....CALIFBOOMERGIRL

My turn CBG. WOMEN GET SCARED AWAY when a MAN that can do this comes around. I HAVE run into this time and time again and I won't stop doing it. I speak from my heart. Look at my profile or other postings. Ya'll can't take it! You then run to the "bad boy" for whatever reason. It's kool. It's you gals loss because you want to play your games. When the WOMAN that CAN take it comes forward, we'll both know it and leave everyone else behind.
 califboomergirl
Joined: 11/22/2006
Msg: 82
PET PEEVES about the OPPOSITE SEX
Posted: 6/27/2007 9:32:08 PM

My turn CBG. WOMEN GET SCARED AWAY when a MAN that can do this comes around. I HAVE run into this time and time again and I won't stop doing it. I speak from my heart. Look at my profile or other postings. Ya'll can't take it.

At the risk of looking totally stupid, I am going to ask you to please define IT
We can't take IT. You won't stop doing IT. We get scared away when a can who can to THIS comes around.
There have been several posts since the one I believe you are referring to, so could you please give us some specific examples instead of broad generalities?
 LifeLessOrdinary
Joined: 4/29/2007
Msg: 83
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Posted: 6/27/2007 11:17:37 PM
"We can't take IT. You won't stop doing IT. We get scared away when a can who can to THIS comes around".

Well, IT is just IT. CBG come on we all know what wonderful mind readers women are because you have IT. Truth, Honesty, and being able to articulate feelings sometimes scares folks. I articulated once, the female articulated once and do you know what happened? She ran, thought the grass was greener on the other side. Go figure it was brown and now shes miserable and the only thing I can do is stand by and continue being IT.

my 2 cents
 califboomergirl
Joined: 11/22/2006
Msg: 84
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Posted: 6/27/2007 11:20:13 PM
So are those of us who CAN articulate our thoughts and feelings in an intelligent manner just stuff it all and become zombies lest we accidently threaten somebody who is less secure?
 LifeLessOrdinary
Joined: 4/29/2007
Msg: 85
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Posted: 6/27/2007 11:25:33 PM
Open to personal interpritations..
 cooky4321
Joined: 3/25/2007
Msg: 86
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Posted: 6/28/2007 12:14:38 AM
*stepping carefully away from the thread...*
 Wreckless1
Joined: 2/22/2007
Msg: 87
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Posted: 6/28/2007 1:28:48 AM
Just think how far we have come from grunts and roars! It seems using words is only complicating things or IT! Is this why alot of guys just want take some 6 packs and go

It is interesting to see or hear, even if you are a spectator. Just remember when you hear the bell... come out with both lips flapping
 *DisneyMom*
Joined: 5/15/2007
Msg: 88
PET PEEVES about the OPPOSITE SEX
Posted: 6/28/2007 8:39:35 AM
Hmmm. My pet peeve.

Lack of honesty.

Hey, if it isnt there, then say so. Im a blunt and direct to the point person. I dont sugarcoat things either.

I wish I owned a bullshi.t detector.
 califboomergirl
Joined: 11/22/2006
Msg: 89
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Posted: 6/28/2007 8:48:07 AM
This says it:
MORNING LOVE -

She was in the kitchen preparing to boil eggs for
breakfast. He walked in. She turned and said, You've got to make
love to me this very moment."
His eyes lit up and he thought, "This is my lucky
day.."
Not wanting to lose the moment, he embraced her and
then gave it his all, right there on the kitchen table.
Afterwards she said, "Thanks," and returned to the
stove.
More than a little puzzled, he asked, "What was that
all about?"
She explained, "The egg timer's broken."
 *DisneyMom*
Joined: 5/15/2007
Msg: 90
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Posted: 6/28/2007 8:59:30 AM
LMAO!!!!!!!!
that was cute.
 Sierrasman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 91
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Posted: 6/28/2007 9:09:30 AM
Good thing she wasn't cooking a turkey!
 NoGamesMan
Joined: 6/8/2007
Msg: 92
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Posted: 6/28/2007 7:56:48 PM
Honesty and Upfrontness (word?) "IT" DEFINED
Being honest and upfront is what many women can't deal with and run to the "bad boy" that the only expectations are of sex. (present company excepted) They know how to deal with the normal BS from the guys [and can be in control because they have the "receiver part]. I have had many gals tell me that they got "scared" by me because I do speak from my heart (IT). These are the same ones that want the honesty and integrity and not a liar, not pretentious, good morals, etc from a potential "soul mate" for God's sake and they run with their tails between their legs. When that happens, I shake my head and move on. Watch out what you wish for you just might get it.............................then what? If your not ready for IT, don't ask for IT.
This has been MY experience with "IT".

I click on the reply button of the post I'm replying to. I tried to quote you in my own way. Cut me a little slack here. I'm a newby.
 eb3267
Joined: 1/29/2007
Msg: 93
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Posted: 6/28/2007 9:42:05 PM
Grabs Cooky, takes Wrecks 6 pack and RUNS !!!

 califboomergirl
Joined: 11/22/2006
Msg: 94
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Posted: 7/7/2007 10:47:38 PM
I wish I owned a bullshi.t detector.


Actually a couple of us are working on a prototype in our spare time. It will be a variation of the Jerk Detector, but with greater sensitivity to pick up subtle nuances usually missed by the untrained and will have modifications to distinguish between male or female bullsh.t. Venture capital is being raised for those willing to invest.
 SterlingHeart
Joined: 11/19/2006
Msg: 95
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Posted: 7/7/2007 10:53:30 PM
I'm in!!!!!!

Messages this short may not be posted <-----oh, bullsh.t!!
 *DisneyMom*
Joined: 5/15/2007
Msg: 96
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Posted: 7/8/2007 1:07:49 PM
aaaaaaaaaaahahahaha. Count me in!

LOL @ Sterlingheart. Dontcha hate the not enough words. I know Im a chick that likes to gab, but sometimes I just wanna make my answers short and sweet..heh.
 SterlingHeart
Joined: 11/19/2006
Msg: 97
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Posted: 7/8/2007 10:09:47 PM
Yeah, we get told not to babble so much and when we try to be succinct in our statements we get criticized by a dang machine without a brain - go figure!
 califboomergirl
Joined: 11/22/2006
Msg: 98
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Posted: 7/8/2007 10:19:09 PM
Yes, and the dang machine was designed by a MAN!! Irritates the heck out of me when I try to post something short and sweet and I keep getting that STUPID message. So, I keep adding more emoticons or gobbledegook until the lttle man in the computer is satisfied. DUMB!! One of my PET PEEVES OF POF!
 SterlingHeart
Joined: 11/19/2006
Msg: 99
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Posted: 7/8/2007 10:23:00 PM
Where's the "messages this freakin' long can't be posted" criticism, I ask you??
 califboomergirl
Joined: 11/22/2006
Msg: 100
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Posted: 7/8/2007 10:24:30 PM
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