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Posted: 7/5/2007 11:00:56 AM | Its easy for you to say. You post a picture of you wearing a fairly low-cut shirt that shows some cleavage.
I did spend time thinking about getting a breast enlargement. I am so glad that I didn't do it. My body is in excellent proportion. I don't have large breasts. But they are perfect size for me. I have a tiny waiste size, no big hips or buttocks. I do have long legs. I also have big dark, expressive eyes.
Anyone who is going to immediately judge who I am because of my breast size is not someone I want to be with. People who judge me that way are missing out - because I have been told that I am amazing in bed.
How many women with very large breasts can walk into a lingerie shop and find something they look especially HOT in? | |
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Posted: 7/5/2007 11:20:17 AM | I don't see the need to put down large breasted women, simply because you happen to be of a smaller bust size. Nor should us larger breasted women look down or think we are more attractive or sexually desirable to men, than those women who are small breasted.
Women blame men for causing a controversy or rivalry amongst women when it comes to breast size. I think it's pretty obvious by some of the previous posts by women.. that it is in fact.. women who cause the problem for the most part. Whether it be insecurity... jealousy, defensiveness or what have you.
For me.. personally ~ having very large breasts.. I know the advantages and disadvantages.
I had to start wearing a bra at age 8.. that's right ~ 3rd grade. It took me many years to accept that my breasts were going to be large.. and something men will stare at and decide who I am because of them. And on the flip side ~ how women will resent and go gunning for me for the exact same reason.
I have embraced my breasts and I love them. All women are beautiful.. no matter what their breast size is ~ the sooner we make peace with that..the better. 
Oh and HRWild.. there are some amazing lingerie stores which cater to the larger breasted women in society.. therefore it's not hard for us to look hot! The store I go to has beautiful lingerie from Paris.. so it is very possible. They just have to know where to look and to be professionally fitted .. that's all. | |
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Posted: 7/5/2007 12:37:04 PM | I go lingerie shopping with my sister in law in all of the same stores. She wears a AA (yes, that is right, smaller than an A cup) and I wear DD. It is only cheap department stores and huge chains which do not have the range from almost nothing to DDD. There are styles to make every woman look like a God's dream...
On Topic: However, I wouldn't recommend implants. At least I'd wait until the body has completed growing. Maybe as late as about 23 or so. Never know what might pop out | |
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Posted: 7/5/2007 6:17:46 PM | | Boobs are boobs, small or big. As long as a woman has them it's cool with me. Too big though and they are not attractive, they look nasty. and fake never looks good. | |
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Posted: 7/6/2007 1:27:13 PM | | this thread just goes to show you how the media has really messed with the minds of youth. Oh, what a sickly convoluted world in which we live... | |
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Posted: 7/6/2007 4:50:26 PM | Forget about what other people think! It's how you feel that is important. If you are self conscience about your breast size, then there are lots of options. It's no different in my mind than a woman with a Roman nose! The one with the big hook on top and the sharp drop down the front!
When my niece finally was old enough to have her nose fixed, her countenance changed over night. The main thing is to do it for you, not someone else...... You're the one that is important here! | |
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Posted: 7/6/2007 10:10:11 PM | Well freaking said........ | |
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Posted: 7/8/2007 11:15:02 AM | dont like boobs anyway .........iam a leg man.
i have noticed tho when i have seen a woman with her boobs nearly out and she is wearing a mini skirt or a knee length skirt that when i look down at her legs rather than her boobs i have noticed out the corner of my eye the look of dissapointment and/or the look of uurrrggghhh he`s looking at my legs....pervert.....and why do a lot of women think looking at boobs is more normal than if a guy looks at their legs instead.
i just aint a boob man. | |
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Posted: 7/8/2007 11:49:58 AM | Large breasts are overratted in my opinion. I mean, think about it, on some girls, they just look silly. I'm more apt to be attracted to a girl who is proportinate, but unfortunately, the term proportionate has been warped beyond belief.
It depends on the build of the woman though. I think thin framed girls look best with smaller to medium boobs, all these thin girls looking to get implants are just ruining themselves.
It's not about quantity, it's all about quality. | |
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Posted: 7/8/2007 2:14:07 PM | Personally I have always prefered small boobs. A young lady I know, whom is a strikingly beautiful lady, has exceptionally small breasts. Almost nothing at all. It does not take away from her in any way. On the other hand, I also know a lovely young lady whom is exceptionally petite in every way except her breasts. She is small enough that my hands will fit completely around her waist, yet she has DD breasts. They are natural. It makes her feel self concious and they apparantly hurt her back constantly. They do look a little out of place on her, but they are natural.
People will always look at the larger breasts. It seems an almost involuntary action, but my preference has always been for the smaller ones. It seems that most men do also, since the majority of ladies do not have "Hooters" class boobs, yet we all seem pretty satisfied. A small build lady with small breasts will turn my head anytime before a large breasted lady will. The other aspect is that if someone prefers a lady of a smaller build, then generally speaking, they have smaller breasts. Most often (but not always) the larger breasted lady also has a larger build to go with them.
Its a matter of what the persons individual preferences are. So don't ever feel badly about small (or large) breasts. There are many more things that matter so much more. Just be happy with who you are and enjoy yourself. | |
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Posted: 7/8/2007 11:36:16 PM | Some men will treat you completely differently. That is true. The ones with any substance will not let their subconscious attraction affect a real relationship. Think about it. What turns you on about a guy? If you find someone that has everything else minus that instant turn on item, what are you going to do? I have had two children and the natural body change took me from a AAA to a C and then back down to an A/B. Smaller is more comfortable. Sensitivity is really something to consider. Wait a little while. I know I thought that a boob job would fix my self consciousness. Never did it. I have small boobs but very perky, sensitive nipples. Find a good bra. Try a silicone one or get some of the inserts for a little while. See if you are really treated any differently. I wore some for about two years just to make my clothes hang right. When I stopped wearing them everyone asked if I had lost weight and told me how good I looked.
So, I attract Leg Men. Oh well, I'm a dancer, go figure. Um...in the can't do much with small ones...you have been dealing with some unimaginative blokes if that is the case. (sorry-I'm not a guy and I am answering anyway) Best of luck to you. | |
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Posted: 7/9/2007 3:41:19 AM | I don't see the need to put down large breasted women, simply because you happen to be of a smaller bust size. Nor should us larger breasted women look down or think we are more attractive or sexually desirable to men, than those women who are small breasted.
well said angel never judge of put down another woman | |
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Posted: 7/9/2007 3:49:02 AM | At then end of the day, breasts are breasts, if you need big ones to give you confidence, then frankly, you need counselling.
Just think about the ladies that have had to have theirs hacked off due to breast cancer, appreciate what you have girl and be grateful that your healthy.
I have big breasticles and they just give you back ache and put bra-marks on your shoulders...
Think yourself lucky and find something else to worry about...x | |
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Posted: 7/9/2007 4:08:15 AM | They are all good and I am sure some of the bigger chested girls will tell you of backaches and the need to wear Boulder Holders pretty much all the time or be in pain. Some of those Boulder Holders can cost you hundreds (I do pay attention when I have been waiting for the ex in the Lingerie Shop) and if you get older and you end up with gravel rash of have the need to place them over your shoulders when you walk - you may wish for some magic.
Overall, a girl of fuller figure may have startling eyes, smile, face, curves, a slim girl may have longer legs, a petite girl may have a cute face, a tall girl may be the queen of long legs and still wear high heels .................... all girls have something going for them - but if you are at such a young age worried about your breastage - stop growing first, think of the black eyes you have avoided and enhance your other fine assets. Find a Boulder Holder to enhance your chest and enjoy it from there. | |
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Posted: 7/9/2007 7:57:31 AM |
I don't see the need to put down large breasted women, simply because you happen to be of a smaller bust size. Nor should us larger breasted women look down or think we are more attractive or sexually desirable to men, than those women who are small breasted.
Thank you. I dont put down small breasted women because the way i see it, the guys that like small boobs will stick with them and the ones that like big ones will stick with us. To each their own.
They are all good and I am sure some of the bigger chested girls will tell you of backaches and the need to wear Boulder Holders pretty much all the time or be in pain. Some of those Boulder Holders can cost you hundreds (I do pay attention when I have been waiting for the ex in the Lingerie Shop) and if you get older and you end up with gravel rash of have the need to place them over your shoulders when you walk - you may wish for some magic.
So im guessing ALL the big breasted women you know complain about back aches? There so much generalization in this thread. And WTF is a Boulder Holder? Is that what YOU wear?  | |
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Posted: 7/9/2007 8:49:39 AM | If all woman had the same exact size titties life would be pretty boring. I agree with an earlier post, go braless in a T-shirt , many guys find that very sexy, including myself. I myself think breasts are all about the nipples, so big or small, if ya got sexy nips its alll good. My thoughts on implants, sexually speaking I am not sure as a man I would be turned on with implants. Having never felt implants before, I am guessing they are not natural feeling and I have always wondered if titties with implants would turn me off. Also to agree with another post here, and not to sound like a pervert because I am much older than you, but you are a very attractive girl, so don't worry, its not the size of your boobs thats going to keep all the guys chasing ya.
Cheers!! | |
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Posted: 7/9/2007 9:18:40 AM | I understand what she means
well
because I feel the same way at times, I have really contemplated having a breast aug.
I just feel like it would make me feel so much happier  | |
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Posted: 7/9/2007 9:29:15 AM | big boobs are not all they are made out to be.....
mine are large and are the bain of my life...
cant understand why guys think smaller ones respond more, mine are extremely sensitive... go with what god gave you...thats what I say!
(remind me that I said that when I am booked in for my reduction!) | |
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Posted: 7/9/2007 9:47:27 AM | | I'd much prefer small boobs to d cups full of saline. Keep it real. | |
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Posted: 7/9/2007 3:38:04 PM | hmmmmm "Over the shoulder, bouldar holders". WOW that's a very old expression. I wish that I was back in my complaining about very little breasts in my late 20's but I have to put up with what I have. The female body goes thru so many marked changes at different times I hate to see a young lady make these kinds of decisions.
When I was in training (Edmonton) I had a girlfriend I hung out with socially. She was 6' with excellent posture and I thought a great body BUT she just had to have implants (this was back in the late 60's) when she was 27. She then had a stacked body BUT the point is that she was 6' tall and had considered it for years. Lost track of her when I returned to the East (Toronto) but I often wondered how it worked out for her over those years. She did go to California to work. I just hope she wasn't one of the horror stories. Don't forget that implants can react adversely just as a transplant. | |
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Posted: 7/9/2007 4:08:45 PM | | Generally speaking....size is just a personal preference thing with men,,,,, so don't worry about it ..... artificial changes are more of a turn off than an attractant. Natural is great, no matter what the size. | |
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Posted: 7/9/2007 6:58:23 PM | | Fvck any guy who doesnt like small boobs. they are fvckin retarded if they think that they cant doing anything with small boobs, and are even dumber for wanting bigger ones on their woman. small or big is fine, in this case size doesnt matter, because if the guy is capable he can entertain him and his lady friend regardless of breast size. | |
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Posted: 7/10/2007 4:34:13 PM | A woman who is confident enough and is reminded of how good they look (should be a standard response from any male), and who finds clothing that enhances her looks (yes there are many styles of clothing to suit all shapes, sizes, age, and personalities) should be complimented on her sex appeal.
Be fitted for a boulder holder and then be happy with your investment as it is for your own self and not for the girl next door. Oh and for those who don't know what a Boulder Holder is ................ it's a bra ........... B...... R....... A ........ which I think was mentioned by another few posters earlier on. (Aka - OSBH - an Over Shoulder Boulder Holder). | |
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Posted: 7/10/2007 6:32:29 PM | the obsession about big boobs is purely cultural.
And in western culture its only about 30% of guys that love big boobs. It may seem like more but thats because these types of guys have similar personalities and they are usually loud and boastful and let the whole world know they like big boobs. Where as the guys who like small boobs or the guys who don't care about boobs don't usually talk about it cause its not a big deal for them.
My advice is too stop watching alot of media were they advertise big boobs is the best. Its kinda hard to think positive about your body when everything your looking at tells you small boobs are bad and big boobs are good. | |
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Posted: 7/11/2007 12:23:26 PM |
the obsession about big boobs is purely cultural.
And in western culture its only about 30% of guys that love big boobs. It may seem like more but thats because these types of guys have similar personalities and they are usually loud and boastful and let the whole world know they like big boobs. Where as the guys who like small boobs or the guys who don't care about boobs don't usually talk about it cause its not a big deal for them.
is there a positive correlation between boob-loving, drinking like an idiot, driving loud jacked-up 4-wheel drive pickups or straight-exhaust Hogs, and being a NASCAR &/or WWE &/or UFC fan?? | |
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