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Posted: 7/25/2007 12:17:38 AM | You ppl trying to get this woman to change her mind STOP. She doesent want your help because shes felling sorry for herself. I dont even know y she got on here in the first place shes going to do what shes going to do. To me shes stupid for even thinking about a boob job. But shes going to do it anyway no mater what we say. You can read that in her statments to everyone. I just wish I could introduce her top my oldest daughter then ? sorry if you got affended by my comments but I cant stand a person that wont listen to some real good advice and they feel sorry for them selfs | |
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Posted: 7/25/2007 12:20:38 AM | I find a lot of guys are getting more into the bums than the boobs. So if you got one or the other you're good to go. Sadly I have both, and too much of them LOL.  | |
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Posted: 7/25/2007 2:16:21 AM | | plastic surgery is stupid unless you were born with a disability and having small breast doesnt come into that catogory | |
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Posted: 7/25/2007 3:39:44 AM | Did some of you guys miss where she said she was going to take everyone's advice and nix the idea of surgery for now? This has been a pretty civil thread, don't start getting nasty.
I'm glad you've changed your mind OP, and that you're doing well. Seriously, with a face like yours who needs big tits? | |
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Posted: 7/25/2007 4:18:20 AM |
Its embarrassin gettin asked 4 ID wheneva I want to go out 4 a drink, even sumtimes if I wana buy a pack of cigs!
you are only 18 - of course you wil get asked for ID - what on earth has that got to do with the size of your boobs???!
Im 34 and have big boobs and I still get asked! | |
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Posted: 7/25/2007 4:26:59 AM | what IS all the fuss over boobs.
and yeah whats ID gotta do with boobs !!!!
having said that my last GF liked me sucking on her nips for ages....they were nice but there was another part of her body i was MORE interested in.
with her it was more like breast feeding ....i think she was lacking something in her life.
anyway what really is the big deal with boobs.....are women more obsessed with them than guys or what ????? | |
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Posted: 7/25/2007 5:01:26 AM |
thanx I really appreciate everyones opinions, I thought most ppl would disagree tho is there anyone that does agree???
I know they are false, but it wouldn't make me a false person, in fact I'm one of the nicest ppl u'll meet will do almost anythin 4 anyone n once I get em done, the'll b part of me.
I know my body may change, I doubt it though, I'm 7 stone n can't put any weight on no matter how much I eat. I was bullied in school for being fat when I was younger, so I went on a crash diet while my body was still trying to grow which I think is the reason y my boobs are so tiny. So u see all my confidence was completly knockd down n hen stamped all over n now i'm skinny wiv no boobs an feel so unattractive.
Yeah I would agree you hav breast implants...i would only agree if you were at least 5-6 years older...and had more experience...yeah it does boost your confidence but there are a lot of risks invovled...some to the point where you would be unable to breast feed your children...
anyways 18 is wayyyy to young to be thinking about breast implants...
wait till your at least 25+...your outlook on life..and mentality of such things do change...you may or may not still want the implants but at least you will have a better understanding on why you are doing it....
I know a couple of girls that did it around 19-20 and they actually regretted it as they aged...they noticed a lot of problems with it...i wont mention it here but you can do the research yourself.. | |
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Posted: 7/25/2007 1:50:03 PM | | from what i can see of your picture you have beutiful eyes which is what attracts me first .use that to your advantage please .large boobs are no fun when they are tuck ed into the top of your pants or under yor arms.and perky nipples are far sexier than big floppy boobs, at least small boobs will still be up there and accountable when you are older not down the front of your pants | |
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Posted: 7/25/2007 3:18:34 PM | First off 18 is too young to even think about implants. Now, for my opinion, I have been a breast man since my dera departed Mom, breast fed me as a tiny babe.And have always been attracted to women with "large" breasts.Shallow, I think not,it is what I like and enjoy.Liking large breast is no more shallow then liking women with long legs a pretty face,long hair or an infinite reason for liking women. So, to all the "morons" let the young lady make her own decision, just my dos centavos | |
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Posted: 7/25/2007 3:39:09 PM | | I think smaller breasts are much more sexy then big breasts. And judging by your picture you got a very beautiful physic. And I agree 18 is to young to get anything done yet my friend amy was much like you in that she had a small chest but still she was very beautiful and then suddenly about a year ago BAM she went from like a large A cup to a now almost C cup in a matter of like 4 or 5 months lol. So I guess there is still hope and if you end up staying small so what like I said you look damn fine already but if you end up one day choosing implants then its your desision however imo wait till your mid 20's or something when you know your at least done growing. Then again i've heard of many diffrent ages womens breasts suddenly grow out of no where XD | |
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Posted: 7/25/2007 3:48:52 PM | OP, I've just gone back and read all your posts since the beginning. WHEW!
I'm glad that you are happy and that you have decided to wait a few more years. Wait until your 25 pretty please and even then I still say don't do it. WHY?
You've already answered the question. Right now you are happy with an old friend back in your life! See happiness comes from within NOT from anything fake! I wish you well and please rearrange your head space! from the "old woman" who didn't get her growth until late 20's and even then it was slow going. Wish they had stopped growing but that's one thing you can't do anything about.
BEST WISHES in your life and grow your self from the inside out. Looks like you have fine packaging already! | |
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Posted: 7/25/2007 7:43:20 PM | Small boobs rule!!!!!!! AND, they don't sag to your knees and make your back hurt at 50.
My mother was well, "endowed" in that area, after her double mastectomy I asked her if she was OK w/ it. She said, "My God yes, no more backaches."
You are an attractive young lady, don't sweat it. | |
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Posted: 7/25/2007 7:46:41 PM | | theres like 40 pages of replies here so i didnt read ALL of them, suffice it to say, i have seen large breasted women i didnt care for and have seen small breasted women send me into the stratosphere, its all in the presentation, and if the person who is presenting also oozes selfconfidence and sexuality, then she will do fine. | |
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Posted: 7/25/2007 8:11:09 PM | Sweety, you know yourself better than anyone, if you really want it which its obvious you do, the only thing i would advise is just wait a little till your body is done growing.I had augmentation and it was the best decision i made for me.I wasnt flat , but i felt my body was out of proportion.I researched and got a great surgeon.He gave me lots of choices ,and information.My surgery was very quick and virtually painless compared to any other surgery ive had( though this varies person to person of course).I had my surgery in the morning and was out with friends the same night!!( probably against dr's advice;)).I gained instant confidence, it was not about anyone else , or being Pamela Anderson , but just for me when i looked in the mirror feeling normal good and proportioned finally!I had a lot of friends against my getting the surgery but when they saw the results, and saw how good i felt and the recovery being so easy( 4 days all pain was gone and they started to feel natural) they ALL came around.Do what you feel is right for you, just make sure you think it over and are not rash.Btw I totally advise you AGAINST saline these are the ones that look fake, they actually make sloshing noises! though more expensive i got silicon gel implants ( before i get bashed about silicon they are completely safe and they are not liquid they are gel and can never leak) i have had a couple partners since and they had no idea until i told them.They look and feel natural they just dont sag as much as a normal 26 year olds breasts would.For me i have never had one regret since , except maybe wishing id gone a bit bigger, but apparently all women feel that way after surgery, and everyone says my d's are awesome now:)I say go for it!:)
Start the bashing!;) | |
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Posted: 7/25/2007 9:07:08 PM | You say that they aren't big enough?? Try being at the other end of the spectrum with the back pain , the shoulder pain, and constant problems of finding clothes that fit that the buttons won't pop off.
Attitude is everything, buying boobs won't fix your self-confidence. Be glad you can wear clothes that would ridiculous on anyone that is busty, be able to wear cotton without it looking like a tent, and be able to wear those little slinky halters that I have never, ever been able to.Wearing bikini tops that you can lift your arms and not fall out of, and strapless dresses and shirts. I have never been able to wear anything like that and most clothes are catered to women with better proportions, you should be pleased that you don't have the difficulties with ugly unattractive choices by a lot of clothing manufacturers.
You ARE a beautiful woman!! Having a bigger chest won't make you more attractive unless you are attractive inside. | |
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Posted: 7/25/2007 11:42:12 PM | | i know you were looking for a guys point of view but thought i would throw in my 2pence worth. before having my son i was a 38 lg bcup/sml c cup, now i am a 34a, i felt the same way you did. solution: got my nipples pierced! didnt cost as much, probably less painful, and way more fun! the feeling u know u have them done gives u that confidence to walk back straight, chest out, it deffenetly makes me feel sexy! go girl give it a try, what do u have to loose! if u dont like it you can always take them out! nothing ventured nothing gained, (try getting your clit hood done to! its amazing!) good luck! | |
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Posted: 7/26/2007 11:03:08 AM | @Bre: I prefer bums over boobs too, but if the boobs are a bumpin than the bums gotta take a back seat, but usually the bum is only one, so I prefer some. At least there still is a 2-fer special either way you choose lol ..........but it won't be jealous too long, I will share the attention.  | |
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Posted: 7/26/2007 11:06:23 AM | HEY EVERYONE
SHE HAS REMET A NEAT GUY, SHE IS HAPPY AND
SHE HAS DECIDED NOT TO DO IT FOR SEVERAL YEARS.
Well at least until she is lonely and unhappy again and then it will become paramount to her again. | |
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Posted: 7/27/2007 8:18:53 AM | | some men prefer tiny.. maybe you should find one of them and let him adore you for a while.. and with your ego stroked, maybe your self confidence and body image will be better.. you are beautiful, find someone who loves you for you. | |
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Posted: 7/27/2007 4:55:52 PM | to OP. I have tried put myself into your shoes, and i realized I think you should get it! One advice though, you should get a good surgeon, to make it look as natural as possible.
to other men: try to imagine yourself with a 3 inch**** and ask yourself the same question. i think we have a pretty good reason to encourage this gal to get a boob job that she always wanted. | |
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Posted: 7/27/2007 5:34:37 PM | | All boobs or most of them anyway are nice.. Its not about the size its about how comfortable you are with your sexuality.. if you feel attractive,then thats what you will project.. You might think thats an over simplification but thats my opinion anyway.. | |
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Posted: 7/27/2007 5:53:06 PM | | Ok I didn't really read all 50 million posts but trust me when I say having big boobs is over rated. I'm in the complete opposite boat as you and was looking at getting a reduction but the pain and money aren't worth it. You are who you are, be it buying a padded bra or having to special order one large enough. | |
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Posted: 7/27/2007 5:56:48 PM |
I have always been reli self-conscious about how small my boobs are and a lot of the time, it also affects my sex life. It seems like all men want big boobs coz u can't do much wiv small boobs and it makes me feel unattractive and not sexy at all.
I have now decided that I am gonna get a boob job to boost my self- confidence and make me feel sexy.
I was wondering what all u men really think about small boobs coz i fink my previous bf's were just bein polite and does anyone hav any opinions on the subject xx
Give me small breasts -- I think they are sexier than large breasts.
My two cents: breast implants are not sexy or sensual. I am all for natural -- you are the way you are and anyone that loves you will accept you they way you are. And that applies to yourself. Accept yourself with all the beauty that you have to offer to the world. | |
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Posted: 7/27/2007 6:11:44 PM | | Small tits are the bset. Love a thin sleek gal big fake tits feel just that way. Fake. | |
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Posted: 7/27/2007 10:49:43 PM | I can’t tell were your stand is now; the thread about giving advice above is sort of hard to understand. If you decide to look into breast surgery you have to understand the major precautions which come with it (rise in cancer, common bacteria, balance, weight problems, and a couple weeks of pain after the surgery; I researched it for a paper got an A too). I hope you do take others advice and at least wait a couple of years more before making the decision; college and afterwards is way different then high school.
I can totally feel your pain, though. I’m 18 and I don’t know anyone with smaller breast then me (I’m still in an A size...and I don't think breast feeding will help that). I’m told I have a great personality and I’m beautiful inside out; but when I looked at myself I saw…no boobs. In high school everyone had dates and were flaunting the asset I didn’t have. Most of my best friends had dates because of their asset; I had them because of my personality. I’ve come though not to rely on what people think about my physical appearance. I learned if I didn’t get confidence in myself, If I decided to get surgical boobs, then I would find the next wrong thing with me…which would probably be my flawed nose (basketball accident). I feel like girls focus on what they think is their worst flaw. Focus on the beauty you know you contain. Physical appearances don’t make a person. I’ve come to have confidence in everything about me, I may not be perfect, but people will have to love me for all my imperfections.
If I moved to Spain I would be adored for my slim figure. Everywhere we go the world has a different image pushing for the perfect physical women. It’s not possible. If I was surrounded by thousands of women small like me and thousands of men that adored us for our small figures and personalities I think I would be more comfortable everyday, but I’m not therefore I’m loving myself even though I’m in America were big boobs is the women. In the end though I find people that love me for my personality; which is better then having the world love because of my assets. Stars only look so great because they are placed on a pedestal and airbrushed. The stars I love the best (Oprah, Jennifer Aniston, Kate Moss…); I like them because of the beauty coming from inside and so do many others.
And yeah I know how hard it is to find clothes that look good on small adults with a good price. Everything is six or bigger, but you know I’m a size three and I’m proud of my small figure. I’ve learned to shop smarter and more cautiously to find clothes that look stunning on me that big breast women could not pull off (at still a good price). I’m taking my weakness and turning it into my gift. I use to be jealous of big breast, but you know there are others that are jealous of our smallness. Enjoy yourself there are thousands of women wishing they didn’t have all the cleavage to heave around.
You, I, and other confident small breasted women are far past sexy they are b-e-a-utiful. Now all you have to do is start believing it. I hope it helps a bit, it did me. | |
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