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Posted: 9/4/2007 2:38:14 PM | | To the op. You're gonna do what you're gonna do and although I don't think it's a good idea and a lot of people don't think it's a good idea it probably won't change your mind. One piece of advice though, when you choose the 'set' choose as small as you can. I dated a girl once who had B's which were quite nice as far as I was concerned but she went and got these massive honkers that attractive all kinds of attention which was good for her for about a month and then became really annoying...not to mention the back pain that comes with the extra weight. Just be careful when you make the choice because it's difficult to go back | |
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Posted: 9/4/2007 2:39:38 PM | | The smaller the cuter. I hate fake boobs. I love naturals, including small to average. Stay natural no matter how small. | |
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Posted: 9/4/2007 2:47:15 PM | | The OP hasn`t posted in 2 months........ opinions are kinda moot at this point. | |
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Posted: 9/4/2007 3:41:34 PM | | Small boobs look good on some women. What's important is how proportionate they are to the rest of the body. | |
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Posted: 9/4/2007 4:05:50 PM | | Its to funny reading all of the responses I know alot of men and hear them talk about loving big boobs alot but you come online and you got every guy and his brother saying they prefer small boobs I apologize for most of the guys who are sucking up to you or whatever but the truth is bigger boobs are more appealing than small boobs and im not even that picky as far as size goes my ex gf had fake boobs I thought they were too big the ex before that had average boobs and I loved them and the one before that didnt have any I wont lie it didnt turn me on seeing she was flat chested but it also didnt make a difference in how I felt about her if a guy is into you and loves you it should be for who you are not for anything about your body.....it is far more sexy to be natural than to try and change yourself for any reason... | |
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Posted: 9/5/2007 10:33:26 AM | Ive heard a few times that people who fix one thing that they arnt happy with usually when they have it 'fixed' move on to another area they dont like and so on and so on
Breasts are for breastfeeding, having a bob job means that there is a chance you wont even be able to do that- so their purpose would be meanigless.
Try some cognitive therapy or something like that instead and focus on the good things about you instead!
Ive always wanted to have breasts small enough to carry off the white t-shirt no bra look!
And the moral of the story is- its probably better to be happy with what you have, than be miserable thinking about what you dont have! | |
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Posted: 9/5/2007 1:04:40 PM | First of all. "The grass is always greener on the otherside" definitley comes into play here. I have 38 DD's. Some days I love em. Some days I hate em. I hate them when I see a super cute shirt that I want to buy, but can't because I wouldn't be able to wear a bra with it. Or when I realize if my boobs were about a C I'd be able to wear a size medium shirt instead of an extra large. Or when I go to buy a bathing suit and I have to go to the plus size section JUST to fit my chest, but can wear a medium regular size for a bottom! The fact is...everyone has something on their body that irritates them and makes them self concious. You gotta realize that not all men like big boobs, so where you gain an audience getting a boob job, you're also going to lose one.
If you think that getting a boob job will help, then go for it! But keep in mind...You'll be taking on scars, and potentially breasts that look fake, depending on the surgeon. You will definitley have scars though. Also there are a lot of risks. You might have a whole new set of sel conscious points with the implants. Like those pull lines you get after you've had them for awhile! I'd think about it very seriously and weigh all the options. Personally I'd rather have real looking boobs that are on the small side than boobs that are large and FAKE! | |
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Posted: 9/5/2007 1:43:41 PM | | One simple thing. Boob jobs cost a LOT of money. AND they don't last your lifetime. If you want to keep your boobs the way they are after the surgery your spending quite a bit of money on upkeep. That's just too much for something so superficial. That's just my opinion though. | |
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Posted: 9/6/2007 10:02:36 AM | There are advantages to being small breasted.
They don't get in the way..they are perkier, you don't have to wear a bra. Clothes are easier to buy (ask a very large breasted woman how difficult it is to find shirts that fit, especially if her chest and boob size are quite different) Boobs aren't the only part of a woman men find sexy...really. I've met lots of men who actually don't like larger breasts.
And the main one...they still look great at 40! Gravity has less to grab on to.
Wait at least until you are done having children. You may want to breast feed and sometimes the surgery can mess that up. Also..a lot of smaller women get bigger as they get older. I don't know why, but it's been true for me. Started as a 30AA at 20 and am now 34b.
I've seen a lot of fake boobs..having worked at strip clubs. I've only seen about 10% that looked natural, especially on thinner women...and some were horridly botched. Honest. | |
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Posted: 9/6/2007 10:13:13 AM | I agree with this last statement about breast size. It is much more of how they fit you and your body type, then the size of them alone.
A thin or athletic body turns me on much more then large breasts, and I have always been an "eye" and "thigh" man when viewing an attractive woman. How you dress yourself to enhance all your good assets is half of the battle, and the other half is self concept.
There have been a couple or women that I have had relationships with that had breast implants, and when enjoying sex, I had to look past the feel and texture of the implants that are very apparent when involved in sexual activities. It did not mean that I did not enjoy those women or how the implants may have enhanced their body types, dress and self image, but when in bed and making love, I have not experienced where they have turned me on more then natural breasts.
Just my opinion.......   | |
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Posted: 9/6/2007 10:33:00 AM | | Gravity works when we get older. A boob job may sound like a good idea now, but when you get older they will be hanging down to your knees. Stick with what mother nature gave you. | |
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Posted: 9/6/2007 4:06:13 PM | forget boobs.....what about a nice pair of female legs.
trouble is during the daytime most women are scared to death to show off any leg or thigh........i have no idea why tho.
i have noticed when a woman catches me looking at her legs i get a frown and look of dissaproval from her tho when guys are "clocked" eyeing up boobs/clevage a woman gives a different look..........a look of "thank you.....you have noticed my boobs".......so you are a man......lol | |
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Posted: 9/6/2007 6:11:51 PM | For women and their guys who are considering this, I can tell you that I was supportive of my wife when she decided to get them. Her boobs were very small to begin with, and the implants gave her new boobs on the smaller side of "C". They look fine in a dress, and they were done by an excellent surgeon, but I hate the way they feel and how fake they look when she is naked.
Everyone is different, but if you have a relatively small frame and little body fat, they look comical, as there is not enough fat to fill in around the implant. You can see ripples on the sides and they look blown up, in her case, even though they are not huge.
And feeling that crinkly plastic through her skin makes me shiver. Plus she is always worried about squeezing them, so that is forbidden. Even so, one sprung a leak once and had to be replaced.
Now I wish she had remained small, with no implants. I admit I like big boobs, but I like any boobs better than fake ones. | |
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Posted: 9/6/2007 6:18:40 PM | | I never met a boob I didn't like. Small, big...boobs are all good. I've gone out with a couple of women who had fake ones, they are ok but I prefer small and real over big and fake. | |
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Posted: 9/7/2007 3:59:53 AM | The upside to your situation is that when you are in your 40s, people are going to tell you that you have 18-year-old boobs, which is very cool.
This is more true than you think.I have never been a big breasted woman, but never been unhappy with my boobs either. I'm only a B cup... But now i am 45.. my boobs are still there.. they are a still only a handful, but they dont sag (cant even hold a pen under them) they are still as tight and firm as they were 20 years ago (and i have breastfed 3 kids). My 2 sisters with much larger boobs now wish they had mine instead of theirs. I don't have to wear a bra unless i want to. I wouldn't change them for the world. the skimpy tops that the young girls wear still look good on me.. There is NO WAY that i would ever want bigger boobs.. | |
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Posted: 9/7/2007 2:54:32 PM | a law should be passed that all females should when asked by a guy in the street get their tits out.
males are the masters and women should always obey when asked by the supreme beings. | |
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Posted: 9/7/2007 5:51:01 PM | | *blinks* ummm yeaaah ooook | |
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Posted: 9/7/2007 6:13:23 PM | | size does not matter to me the woman they are attached to is what is important, sehe should be a nice person | |
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Posted: 10/10/2007 6:40:51 PM | I am the opposite, I had a breast reduction and let me tell you what a difference it makes. I was very large breasted and I could go anywhere and get the attention of the man I thought I wanted, What a waste, these men are so stupid, they actually thought that by me having big breats I was less than intelligent. I got men who did'nt want to commit, or who were really sleazy. I now have reduced my breasts even though I still
may be considered large to many. However I have never received so much respect and courtesy in my life now they are actually starting to look at my mind. So don't do it, the people you will draw just are'nt worth it!!! Plus you are already beautiful and you just don't know it !!
Oh peep this, sometime later in life when you have children sometimes nature has a
way giving of giving back- (if you know what I mean). | |
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Posted: 10/10/2007 7:38:54 PM | I really dont think it matters either way.... I have a really good friend who was in the same situation, She had a little confidence but she was really small up top, she was a really small A cup. She was thinking about a boob job for like 2 years we talk about it all the time cause she always thought that guys would pay more attention to her and her clothes would look better and she thought it would boost her confidence. So she got it dont and i have to say that it DID!! She walks with more confidence, for the most part you can look at people and by the way they carry them selves kinda how they think of themselves. ( NOT ALL PEOPLE) But in my friends case yea it helped her out. Now i know alot of people say that " if you need the fake boobs to make you happeir with your self then you should find your self first," kinda stuff but some people just need a little boost from an outside source. Yea she got good and bad attention from guys but she also got that before. I think that if it really helps you and is going to make you feel better in your own body then what does it really matter what people think? I mean i like big, small, round, flat, perky, saggy... what ever i like them all because of the person they are on....
I want to love myself, go out and have fun but i can't do that feeling this self consicious. I looked at your profile and i must say that your really gorgeous and small boobs or not your a very attractive sexy girl! real or fake if it makes you happy then do it!! alot of people do things that are fake to make them selves feel better ( sorry women for this some might get mad) MOST WOMEN WEAR MAKEUP.... WHATS THE DIFFERENCE? because you can wipe it off at night its ok? you wear hair extentions your hair is not that long... i could go on and on with that but because this girl wants something that she cant take off its no good??
i say if it makes you feel better sweetie then DO IT!!! | |
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Posted: 10/10/2007 7:43:24 PM | | I have always loved small boobs . I can't understand why a girl would want a boob job. Keep em small. I hugh turn on ! | |
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Posted: 10/11/2007 5:50:35 PM | | You went through posting this falsehood so that you could hear from a billion fishpeople that you have the hottest little tits ever, 'cause you know you do. But I think it's almost as hot to chop yourself up. I dig that look. | |
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Posted: 10/11/2007 6:02:07 PM | | I have YET to see a pair that wasn't perfect. | |
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Posted: 10/11/2007 6:30:10 PM | you don't need a boob job,you are very attractive and sexy.you just need better bf.beside's why do you want a guy that think's boob's will make or not make u attractive.boob's are not the most inporten part of a woman.you can have fun with small boob's as well as big one's.it's how the guy play's and what you like done to your boob's. don't get a boob job sexy | |
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Posted: 10/11/2007 9:09:39 PM | Here's the rub. I am always soo turned on by what is "sexxy" and sexxy is "the package" ... it comes in all shapes and sizes.. tall short fat skinny busty and small.. its the confidence you communicate in feeling good about yourself and accepting who you are.. and being proud of it. I have met and seen some of the most sexxy and hottest women who are not big breasted...
I have always maintained that everyone has pluses and minuses.. and you use what you have to fulfill your potential. People are going to do whatever they do, you cant control that. but you can control how you respond... and if they cant see how hott you are... then they are missin out.. they might try to intimidate and make you feel self-conscious but the best thing is to smile with confidence to let them know you don't play that head game... | |
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