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Posted: 10/18/2007 7:27:26 AM |
I have now decided that I am gonna get a boob job to boost my self- confidence and make me feel sexy. My niece had such large breasts that she finally had a breast reduction done. I note that as she was growing up and getting into dating that she complained bitterly about all the remarks about her big breasts and how much attention it drew.
I have always had small breasts and did endure the "small breast" jokes earlier in life, but that's all they were ... jokes. In the end, I had four little babies that I was able to breast feed well, often much better than those ladies with the "big breasts". My husband also joked about them, but after several years of marriage, I discovered that he really was just joking ... he's a "leg" man and likes small perky breasts.
I think you'll find that there are a lot of men out there who truly enjoy small, perky breasts on a woman. I can say this much ... I'm glad I do not have big breasts as most of the women I know who do have them ... complain from time to time about it. They complain about not being able to find bras that fit appropriately, about not be able to find clothing that fits appropriately.
And the biggest joke they make now is talking about their breasts hanging around their waist when they take their bras off. That does not happen to me ...  | |
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Posted: 10/18/2007 7:42:37 AM | Breast implants aren't going to change your mindset. If you're not comfortable with yourself to begin with, no matter what you upgrade your cup size to, you're going to always have doubts. Appreciate what you have, we're all different shapes and sizes. I don't see why we can't embrace that.
If you're contemplating getting your breasts enlarged simply because men "favor" larger breasts, that's ridiculous. Men might favor Barbie doll tanorexics too, are you going to get more plastic surgery then? In the long run the only person you'll ever be good enough for is yourself. | |
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Posted: 10/18/2007 8:25:48 AM | | The very best boobs are the ones that are attached to a really, really good woman! | |
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Posted: 10/18/2007 11:03:54 AM | Dang, that is the BEST post on this hole thread, thanks Whatsthis!!! | |
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Posted: 10/18/2007 11:51:15 AM | DANI NO! we love all boobs made of natural boob stuff big, small ,midsized or compact , implants rarely look good or feel nice they need to be worked to get a natural look and they are not fun they just sit there no matter what you are doing.
Stay natural . | |
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Posted: 10/18/2007 2:03:30 PM | | Send me a picture of your boobs and I'll let you know what I think. I love appreciation of the female body so I'll probably appreciate them a lot. | |
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Posted: 10/18/2007 2:25:22 PM | | One thing about women... you have straight hair,you want curly... you have smaller breasts, you want bigger breasts... we are constantly thinking wishing whatever, if my hair were thicker, if my hair were longer.. we do the grass is greener all the time. I have nothing against implants, my mother has them. Myself, I have DD's, I like my breasts, but I hate how it is hard to find the right tops, or a tank top that would look so cute and sexy on you looks slutty on me... just make sure in the end you do it for yourself. Now you have had relationships, your obviously a beautiful girl just the way you are... men are attracted to more than just breasts, you need to remember you are more than a chest... you are a person with a sense of humor and personality worth knowing. Sexy isn't just how you look, people can be shallow (but avoid those people), focus on those that enjoy you for you and maybe take some notes... in the end your an adult, your going to make up your own mind. I just don't want to see you with a forum post in a few months asking why men don't like fake breasts that much... everyone has their opinions, which is why it is so important to make sure you do it for yourself, you will never make everyone happy. | |
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Posted: 10/18/2007 2:30:29 PM | I like them big, I like them small, I love them all!!!    | |
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Posted: 10/18/2007 8:29:43 PM | More than a handful is a waste? I beg your pardon! It's only a waste if your man doesn't know what the hell to do with them to begin with!
Leave the big boobed girls out of this. | |
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Posted: 10/18/2007 8:31:07 PM | | Thank you for setting the record straight. lol lol lol | |
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Posted: 10/18/2007 9:20:32 PM | | I love small boobs. Not to say I don't like big ones, as long as they aren't disproportionate. But my opinion on implants is you might as well have a penis, because I don't wanna touch something that isn't supposed to be there. Especially when you can tell by looking... | |
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Posted: 10/19/2007 7:12:08 AM | | Please do not do this as in later in life you will be sorry besides the back pain.So what if your boobs are small(more than a handful is a waste),you also increase your chances of breast cancer by 50%,so do not let shallow men tell you otherwise,there insecurities not yours,Michael. | |
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Posted: 10/19/2007 10:17:29 AM | | Sorry MM but its all about her insecurities and I suspect she had it done months ago. She has made no replies for months. Never can tell a young un anything, especially when they are a female hung up on their breast size. | |
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Posted: 10/19/2007 10:52:32 AM | | you leave yourself alone,you look pretty enough as you are,its your exes loss,peter andre is only with jordan,cause she had 4 boob jobs,she still has no class and he has no talent so their well suited.she had no cleavage before she was famous,and is only famous now cause all thats on her chest are bags of silicone.next youll be on the forum saying blokes never want to talk to my face.leave well alone | |
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Posted: 10/19/2007 12:59:59 PM | DON'T DO IT!!!
Those fake boobs might look ok (probably not though because they'll be too big), but they will feel like crap.
I had a gf who was the most delightful "A" cup you'd ever want to suckle when she was 32. Now she's 46 and her metabolism has slowed and she gained a little weight. She is now a magnificient "C" cup. I'm glad she never got the boob job.
Boob jobs are for women with no self esteem. You're better off finding that someplace other than a plastic surgeons office. | |
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Posted: 10/19/2007 1:58:39 PM | | I think you should think about further down the road,like having kids,will you be able to breast feed if you want to,how will being pregnant affect them,cause you automatically get boobs when you r prego, alot of the clothes they make these days are made for gfirls with smaller chests,I have a hell of a time finding a top that i can do up or get over my chest,big boobs are not all theyre cracked up to be..there is good and bad in getting them done,but honestly I dont think you will be able to find a plastic surgeon that will do a breast augmentation for you at such a young age not a reputable one anyways...your body is still developing believe me i waited until i was in my late 20 s before i got mine done after i had kids and old enough to make a proper informed decision..I think you should wait a few more years then if you feel as strongly the do it,but i think with time you will see your confidence level boost and maybe not even want them anymore.. | |
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Posted: 10/19/2007 2:20:39 PM | boobs are a helluva drug.
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Posted: 10/19/2007 2:22:17 PM | Dani i think u have issues and not necesarily your past bfs do.
Its all bout how u view yourself.
I myself lost a lot of weight and lost my breasts goin from a 40d to a 34b.
Im not happy about that but i couldnt stop it i had to lose weight as i was 6 stone too heavy!
When u say u cant do anythin with small breasts u lost me a bit.
Sex doesnt always replicate what we see in pornos!
I suggest you meet a man , date him , get to know him really well before u undress and do the nasty lol
Thats way he'll want u no matter wat and treasure u for who u are.
Ur not just a pair of tits.
I dont think men are really that bothered them especially if they care bout the woman.
None of us are perfect , we're human.
Im 33 now i cant be bothered puttin myself through surgery , i saw my dad goin through op after op (medical reasons) and he died.
Do tits mean more than anythin to u ?
All i sayin is think bout it, who are you doin it for and if it really is for you then good luck hun xx | |
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Posted: 10/19/2007 2:27:47 PM | In all seriousness.
My ex wife suffered from itty bitty titties. i couldn't have cared less, I loved them suckers no matter how badly my children drained them. But her self image suffered horribly from them. So i caved and purchased new ones for her. She suffered horribly with regret in the beginning. Then she began to enjoy them. Then she asked for them to be "topped off" (made bigger than she originally requested). She left me soon after once she started getting attention from all the guys. She's a miserable person now, and still has a shyte self image.
If you have problems loving yourself how you are, then no amount of cosmetic surgery will help you. It is not a fluke that the suicide rate among those who've had breast enlargement are higher than those who haven't. Please, work on yourself, before you decide to work on your body. | |
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Posted: 10/19/2007 3:56:28 PM | | Not to mention some of us men have large hands...........But seriously I agree with the earlier post. My ex wife was busty D+ and always complained about them. I thought they were just dandy. My last GF was smaller framed and smaller up top as well B to B-. She was always saying she wanted a boob job to make them bigger. I thought hers were just fine as well. One advantage of the petite frame is that many tops and dresses are designed to be worn braless ideally and I know my ex-wife would sooner eat a bird turd than leave the house without a bra. Her mother had taught her at a young age that her boobs were to be hidden and something to be ashamed of, and damned if that lesson didn't take root and bloom...... | |
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Posted: 10/19/2007 4:03:48 PM | My daughter developed overnight..from an A to a D cup, at 18 and so did I. We were both gymnasts and did not have enought fat before that. Are you dieting too much? Boobs are fat, and muscle. So work out your uper body. If you are too skinny, and have no muscle you will not have them. You will look like the rest of the women in your family, once full grown. Look at them and see what makes them sexy. I think a big booty is sexier than boobs at least that is what men tell me. Sexy legs are also sexy...don't worry about what you don't have use what you have. Mini skirts on thin girls look sexy also.
Sexy is an additute...not body parts so keep telling yourself you are sexy and you will be. | |
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Posted: 10/19/2007 4:46:20 PM | iluv2travel, you seem like a really cool girl. I'd love to get to know you more. Message me sometime.
Take Care =)
Steven | |
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Posted: 2/27/2008 2:20:51 PM | If you think that having bigger breasts and a clevage will get you a guy then he is not attracted to YOU the person he is just attracted to the BREASTS ans CLEVAGE not the real you just the BODY, and i think that he is the wrong kind of guy in my opinion.
that is why any girl that makes an issue of her breasts in her pictures to show them of is of NO interest to me in any shape or form, i am after the person not the body. | |
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Posted: 2/27/2008 2:53:04 PM | At your age, you should be thinking about a good education and finding your place in the world, not being the object for fickle and idiotic men.
Your body grows up to the age of 21 and when you marry and have children, your breasts will change quite a bit before, during and after pregnancy.
Don't do it. | |
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Posted: 2/27/2008 6:09:02 PM | Breasts are great to look at and fun to suck on.
For me to be attracted to you, they're not necessary.
Dani this should really be a non-issue for you.
You are Very Attractive! | |
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