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Posted: 6/25/2007 10:17:01 AM | | Hey some men like em big and some men like em small. But all men love a pretty face and you've got that going for ya. I do understand when I was your age I had less than nothing and was very self consciosus. If you do decide to do it research it very carefully and find yourself a good plastic surgeon. I wish you well...... | |
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Joined: 5/23/2006
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Posted: 6/25/2007 10:20:55 AM | Natural boobs are the best.Small boobs means you can wear tight fitting tops,and i bet you have nice nipples.Big boobs can droop as you get older with some women,plus plastic surgery can sometimes go wrong.My ex liked small boobs which i don,t have,and his parting shot was..... "I never liked big boobs anyway. " | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 10:30:46 AM |
You seem pretty petite, implants might look really out of proportion with the rest of you. I think you're lovely as you are. And big boobs might get a lot of attention, but I think guys just like breasts in general, small ones too :)
I couldn't have said it better myself. And to tell the truth, I think most of us like the real thing. If your getting changed for you, thats one thing, but if your doing it for the men you might want to re-evaluate. Some men are turned off by "plastic", especially when it looks like they need someone hanging on to their back to keep from falling on their face. Attitude is everything and if your a woman who likes yourself, men will be hungry for you. If you don't like yourself, they will figure there's a good reason. A lot of us tend to think if your plastic, you have a tendency to be artificial in other ways too. | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 10:39:26 AM | | real boobs please, small medium large, its all good, just no fake ones for me,thanks | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 10:55:34 AM | | dont worry about your boobs if your partner does not like your boobs tell him to f*** off my self i like all sizes :) | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 10:56:23 AM | YEPPERS learn to live with your lot in life. Mind you I wouldn't necessarily say no to a reduction mammoplasty! But not going to do it. I have what I have and I can still remember when I didn't have what I thought I wanted! | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 11:57:53 AM | As with any elective surgery I hope you seriously weigh all aspects of this procedure and make sure you are doing this for the right reasons.
Personally, I have no preference on breast size. I have seen women with little to none easily be the sexiest woman in a room full of cleavage. It is more about the overall package to me and the way she carries herself.
Realistically I know larger breast can have its advantages and rewards I just hope really put some thought into this and consider the risks. It may be a common procedure with relatively high success rates but there are always risks involved when going under the knife.
In my opinion you are an attractive young lady and this is completely unnecessary. Whatever you choose I wish you the best. | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 12:00:33 PM | the size of the boobs are only important to BOOBS! just sayin
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Posted: 6/25/2007 12:00:39 PM | oh i forgot to say something befor its also the perkness thats get us gus going as well and if you are small there are for most of your life  | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 12:26:14 PM | | A handful is perfect! The nipple is more sexy than the breast size anyway. I prefer real to fake anyday! Small can be very very HOT! Too big is saggy and not attractive. Be happy with what you are born with because any guy who wants you to change is not worth your company! | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 12:53:07 PM | | IMO, boob size is very overrated. | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 1:06:34 PM | I HONESTLY think you should concentrate on the MANY other areas of your life. I for 1 love NIPPLES and areolas (on anysize breast)...what does a big boob do? In fact, I'll say that men who feel big boobs are most important in attraction are little more than boobs themselves. No matter what kind of silacone you get, you will have to be YOU. A image superimposed upon your psyche for large boobs should not be among the top 100 things in your life to work on. There are many more things to develop that will ONLY add to your REAL attractiveness to men as well as to yourself. Find a REAL man,......he will know this. In the meantime,I suggest you simply work on growing and ddeveloping your love of yourself. I think your real confidence will leap from it. Others will notice and become even more attracted to you. | |
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Joined: 11/4/2004
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Posted: 6/25/2007 1:09:19 PM | | I like small boobs , for some reason they seem to look younger longer, they sweat less ,,, heck I just prefer women with small boobs. | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 1:20:08 PM | And as far as the guys go, I believe about 90% of them prefer large boobs. Only women who undergo unnecessary voluntary plastic surgery enhancements to their chest because of self esteem issues believe this.
It's more like 90% of guys prefer natural breasts.
Why would you want to be more appealing to that 10% of guys anyways? You want someone to love you because of IMPLANTED SACS? Wouldn't you rather want to know that your man is into you because of YOU?
OP, you have a VERY cute look. Don't ruin it. Of course you'll do whatever you want. Imagine how you could invest those pounds? Health club, nice vacation, cool clothes, early retirement nest egg. Don't waste your money.
Do you have any idea what kind of risks are involved with surgery? Surgery involves CUTTING, SCARRING, SWELLING, PAIN. Not to mention unforeseen complications. And you'll probably require these surgeries periodically for as long as you keep this sacs inside your chest cavity. Ain't worth it.
Do the risk assessment. Get the surgery, possibly have things go wrong, attract guys who love boobs. Don't get the surgery, life is GREAT, attract guys who are into YOU.
Where I go out, we've got a bartender who has pretty much your same build, OP. She has a HELLA KICKAZZZ BOD. I hope she keeps that kickazz bod and doesn't succumb to this fad mentality. She knows she can command any guy's attention that she is interested in with a CONFIDENT attitude.
Breast enhancement surgery is a FAD. Don't get involved at the end of it only to have regrets later.
p.s. go Reds! Gerrard is Da Man. | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 1:35:51 PM | right on bro
real boobs are better the touch,feel and play with. I have had my hands on a set of fake boobs and let me tell you i would perfer real boobs any day | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 1:51:17 PM | You probably don't need another person to jump on the band wagon, but here I am. 
I graduated from high school as a 32B, and am now a 36D. I only weigh 10 pounds more than the day I graduated high school at 18, so no, the extra boobage isn't fat.
At your age your body is still going through changes, and outside of the comments made here on the fake look, and complications of breast surgery, there are other problems -- like adhesions and leaking that can lead to needing revisions or removal.
My best friend who was a small A cup had an enlargement to a C cup over 20 years ago. It doesn't look normal, and the first time she hugged me after she got those things I almost jumped they were so hard. The adhesions that form around the implant can also cause the sagging that will take place as you age to occur in weird ways. In the case of my friend, she sagged, but the nipples still faced out 90 degrees.
She also got silicon leakage (something that's not as much of a problem with new implants), and has had to keep what she has, because if it's removed the surgeons have told her that she won't look normal.
Even large natural breasts are more difficult to deal with. I have to religously lift weights to maintain my back strength, and to prevent looking like that Grandma from the old Playboy comics. The fact is, smaller breasts are much lower maintenance, and since you have an otherwise small body, good luck getting any clothes to fit with implants.
I have some trouble buying dresses, and my mother who was larger than me had to have everything made to fit. Dresses are made with the hips 2 inches larger than the bust, and my chest is a half inch larger than my hips. This means alterations on everything I buy, or wearing separates or knits. My mother's chest was 4 inches larger than her hips. For her, alterations were so extensive on off-the-rack clothing, that she always had dresses made to order.
This is not to say I think the grass is greener on the other side, but all body shapes have their challenges.
You should embrace your shape. Small breasts age better, so just enjoy. You're very pretty, and I doubt you'll have any trouble finding men to pay attention to you.
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Posted: 6/25/2007 2:19:24 PM | Trust me, big boobs are a pain. More of a curse than a blessing.
And having big boobs does not mean you won't get carded. I get carded buying gum! I'm 29! | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 2:27:38 PM | | Can I just say...what a beautiful girl you are! Most girls with big boobs would die for a face like yours...you are stunning and I cannot understand why you would want to put yourself through such a huge operation. Can I just add that I have friends who have had cosmetic surgery and afterwards, they just found something else they didn't like! You are a gorgeous young woman, enjoy your life and your body. Breasts are for babies...and very often...big babies xx | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 2:42:59 PM |
I have now decided that I am gonna get a boob job to boost my self- confidence and make me feel sexy.
My ex did that,and for a time her self esteem went up,but any shrink will tell you if you have self esteem issues,the boob job won't be the magic bullet.Most would suggest several counseling sessions before you go under the knife.
Any surgery is risky and you need to make sure it will be worth the expense,pain and possible complications involved.You could get a really good counselor and find a really nice guy that isn't media brainwashed into thinking big boobs=sexy and likes your breasts just the way they are.
Trouble is,people have been fed this Barbie doll image as to what is supposedly sexy when it should be in the eye of the beholder.I know a white guy in his late 50's that thinks very large,fat black women are sexy.His current wife tips the scale at over 300 lbs.Good for him,I say!A man who is truly unique and doesn't give a damn about the media telling him that he should strive for a Paris Hilton.
By the way,my ex wife got the boob job NOT at my suggestion.I loved her small breasts and I used to tell her that.Yet she was determined to have it done and it was a nice job,but an unnecessary expense and a hell of a lot of pain.
a lot of the time, it also affects my sex life.
Many times women who have had augmentation complain about a loss of sensitivity.One thing I have noticed with small busted women is that their breasts seem to be more sensitive than large breasted women.I've known women who could orgasm just by playing with their small breasts.
Is it really worth it?Maybe if you've had cancer or suffered some kind of disfigurement,but speaking as a 100% heterosexual man,a set of pretty,perky and sensitive small boobs,beats big old cow udders any day.And remember,as age sets in so does gravity and no matter how good the boob job is,eventually,everything heads toward the floor.
coz u can't do much wiv small boobs
WTF???Who says women with small breasts can't do the same things full figure gals can.If you're talking about the titty fuk as seen in porn films,you probably won't be able to that even if you opt for augmentation.This is because most small breasted women have wide breastbones,and even if the breasts are surgically enhanced for size,they still won't meet close enough together to get the "pearl necklace " act.Do you really want to bother with that anyway?I can't see where it will do much for you and I'm hard pressed to see what the attraction to such an act would be. | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 2:43:41 PM | I got implants 01/07 and its the best thing I ever did. My only advice is, do it for you not for anyone else.  | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 2:54:35 PM | OP, you said that you wanted feedback and while most people understand why you are considering the surgery, you have had people respond with a wide variety of perspectives--women with large breasts, women with small(er) breasts, men who like natural boobs, men who like smaller boobs, men who like boobs--that suggest you would be smarter to either abandon it or at least wait.
While most guys will look at boobs of any size and seem to drool at anything that is at least partially visible or seems to want to bust out of whatever is holding them back, most guys prefer natural boobs and most also feel that the handful, perky thing rings true, at least with women they are actually intimate with.
Although I never considered a boob job, I was a wee bit pissed when I was younger because my mother was a 32 DD and I was so not. But I reiterate, when you are small they do not sag (despite breast feeding three children) and I can guarantee that if my boobs had been larger, they would not currently be 18-year-old boobs.
In addition to being attracted to smaller boobs, there are also tons of guys that are more into legs or ass than boobs anyway. If you walk around believing that you have the most flawless breasts on the planet, I guarentee you will get more attention without altering a thing. | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 3:15:42 PM | Boobs don't make the lady! Develop some other aspect that makes you feel special like your legs, waist or even learn to highlite some facial feature. Having big or any larger boobs can only give you the confidence to be out- going but ultimately they just end your life sooner, give you trouble and you're paying alot for them. The girl I am currently seeing off and on has smaller boobs(34B) and to tell you the truth, I prefer it. If the boys you're dating all want bigger boobs, tell them to get implants! Its time you met a real man!! One who doesn't judge a woman by the size of her boobs.
I'm 50 and have dated and had sex with many women in the 40 to 50 year age bracket. Many have been 36C,38C to DD or even 44DD. The boobs just hang there. Smaller tits(excuse me, boobs) are much more sensitive and easier to play with..
Lets not forget the old saying - more than a handful is a waste! | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 3:23:04 PM | Fake boobs at 18???
Why not just become an alcoholic? | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 3:24:11 PM | I have known men that "yes" they like big boobs. But would choose small ones over FAKE ones! So don't be to rash in your decision making. Bigger is NOT always better. That's my vote!  mthr | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 3:31:00 PM | look i was not going to say this because you looking under 18 more like 16 and i am 24 but here goes
you are a hot little thing and after reading your profile you seen to be not just sexy on the out siad but also on the insaid it looks your only doing this so you can look better but for what? really girl lissan you can not tell me you dont have lots of guys of all sorts after you and you look like you could do model work in mags and stuff so why change to look better when you dont need to.
now i hope your 18 becaues if not that might make me look like a petafile lol | |
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