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Posted: 6/25/2007 3:43:39 PM | | I don't have any tits either. Push-up bra's are a wonderful thing. Cheaper than augmentation, too. | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 3:48:06 PM | | Small firm boobs are wonderful...and if your nipples are buds that are senssitive I have no idea what is the problem. Get a padded bra for the nights out and feel great about you sex life. | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 3:48:27 PM | boobs is boobs, honestly they come way down the list of things like 'do i like you' and 'can i see you naked'
you'll certainly get a lot more attention with big boobs. its your choice. will you feel better about yourself? can you afford the maintenance?
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Posted: 6/25/2007 4:15:46 PM | Hon,
You're still a child. Give it time. When I was 18, my boobs were barely a B cup. By the time I was 22 I was hovering between a C and D. Wait until you're atleast early 20's to make the decision and if you do opt for a boob job, good luck. Just find a good surgeon and go for it. Get tons of references on the Doc. This is one surgery you don't want messed up. I've seen quite a few bad boob job watching porn. It looks nasty when done wrong. Also keep in mind, don't bump up to a size that looks abnormal for your body size. I guarantee you'll regret it later on.
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Posted: 6/25/2007 5:21:37 PM | | As you get older and after you have children....small boobs stay in place and they dont sag..im 47 and mine are small, and after having 3 children..they stayed perfect..never mind taking my shirt off!!!! | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 5:43:19 PM | You might want to really do the hard work and find out why you are so insecure, why you think your previous boyfriends were lying (that's really what some call "being polite"). And to come to the realization that maturity means more than the physical - for both men and women.
If you do this - going under the knife, then you most likely will fall prey to something else about yourself down the line that you will focus on as a "flaw".
There will always be insecure men that perpetuate the perfect female as ideal...and loving men that will accept women as they come to them...mind, body and spirit.
Good luck with your personal journey.
PS ~ if you do it - get the implants under the muscle - it's more realistic than a water balloon look under the flesh only. Do your research on surgeons. Though I personally hope you choose not to......women are so beautiful in all ways, naturally. | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 5:50:13 PM |
As you get older and after you have children....small boobs stay in place and they dont sag..im 47 and mine are small, and after having 3 children..they stayed perfect..never mind taking my shirt off!!!!
Listen to Sunbirdus, guide you well she does.
Mighty fine boobs has she and the rest is pretty damned nice too.
PS: I liked your profile too.  | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 6:05:21 PM | | Thank you kazot you made my nite | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 6:05:30 PM | | I think small boobs are really nice. I feel to much is a waste. If you have a mouth full that is plenty. The small size and shape of a small breast is alot better than big ones are ugly and a waste. You really need to think about it before you get a boob job. Also when you are looking to date someone you want them to like you for who you are not for your boobs. Alot of guys just like women for there boobs not for what else they have. I hope I could help you out. | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 6:09:05 PM | the truth...
"a" cups; my personal fav! I love lil titties.....
so much better than big ones | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 7:54:02 PM | As a guy, it's not so much size, it's proportion. I know some men like the Jordan look, but EVERYONE seems to love Kylie. If they look like they suit you, then that's good.
Besides, you have to remember, boys of your age are still growin' up. They're really about 13 in our society. They still do stupid things, like calling girls fat, and pulling their pigtails. So you'll NEVER really please them, and if you do they'll just slag you off to their mates.
Anyway, I'm a fan of the natural ones, me. For some reason, they just look better than inflatable air-bags. Only good for an emergency crash-landing in the sea, or in case you're in a car crash w/out air bags. I prefer them to be as enjoyable as they were designed to be, and size does NOT come into it, unless he doesn't know how to work a body. I'ts just like a p*nis extension. It's now what you have, it's what you do with it.
By the way, lots of women get carded. Now, it's an insult. Wait till you get to 25. You will be so chuffed when some guy thinks you're 24, even. So remember that. Because you will live a lot longer than 25. Better to look younger.
But heck, if you want to do it, it's up to you. But there is a massive difference between having the confidence to walk out there are "pull" boys, and having the confidence to say "no". The first will get you lots of sex and boyfriends, the second will get you lots of respect and love. It's not about what you think you are. It's about what you do and don't do. | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 9:39:46 PM | Fake boobs blow dogs for quarters...but they do act as flotation devices...that's my opinion.
And it sounds to me like you have more issues than your tit size...if you're so insecure about your body because you think your tits are too small...your mind is trying to come up with an excuse to make the thoughts go away, and so you think that making your boobs bigger will magically change all that...actually, it will only do one thing...make your boobs bigger...that's it...
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Posted: 6/26/2007 1:41:17 AM | There are upsides and downsides to having large breasts; Much like there are upsides and downsides to having small breasts.
You can go without bras. Busty women probably envy this. | |
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Posted: 6/26/2007 2:03:21 AM | | I have worked in this area for some years, not boob jobs but councelling and I have found that many many girls who do get enhanced come out of their shell so to speak and are far more relaxed around the opposite sex in particular 'cause they look great in their own eyes. The enhancements done by properly certified professionals is for the most part not dangerous and the results are very good. Let me turn it around a little, if most guys could get a penile enlargement as easily the plastic surgery profession would be unable to keep up. The only real thought here is that you should only get this done for YOU, no one, especially a current boy friend or SO should have any say other than to provide support for whatever decision you make. Watch a few 'Extreme Makeover' shows and watch the elation on the expressions of the girls who have an enlargement or in some case reduction, if it's their decision, as anything regarding YOUR body should be, and you feel that you will benefit for your own self perception, then, go for it. | |
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Posted: 6/26/2007 2:08:11 AM | Well, I trained in Ballet for 6 years in a semi-pro. environment. so Yeah, I've seen many girls with flate chests before (not nude per say)
I think it all depends on taste...
The stereotype that men like bigger boobs is there, but that does not apply to everyone.
Everyone has their thing that will test their confidence and self esteme... for you, its boobs, for us its penis size, muscle build etc...
I personally don't like huge boobs, and like one of the earlier replies said... small and sensitive nipples are fun :P
And one of the reply posts said that you're 18 and give it time to grow... I thought that girls stop growing earlier than guys?
Reguardless, you look super cute! if you're in NY or I was back in England (GO! shefiled lol) i'd totally ask you out!
Oh wells, guess some fish just happens to get away.
Best of luck, happy hunting. | |
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Posted: 6/26/2007 2:21:29 AM |
I have to agree I actually grew after 21 breast size went up from a b to a d to my dismay I liked my small girls
Mine went from B to DD between the ages of 24-26. So you might give yourself some time.
Personally I think small ones are better. Big ones are heavy and it's hard to find properly fitting tops and nice bras. Men are just happy if you have boobs at all, there's no point in endangering your life and your body to have big ones for someone else. | |
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Posted: 6/26/2007 2:28:01 AM | | Well, i have to say if a man just wants you for your boob size you are really onto a loser! There are lots more to women than their boob size and if he cannot see further than the boobs hes not worth bothering with anyway. | |
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Posted: 6/26/2007 4:09:05 AM | OK OP. You've gotten lots of different types of information and encouragement (I think that most of it is 1. you don't need it 2. wait for 5 or 6 years because a women's breast frequently blossom in the 20's.
What is your feed back at this time. We really care and I hope we have been a help and have you thinging about it for a few more years? What are your thoughts? | |
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Posted: 6/26/2007 5:30:01 AM | OP,...Boobs are not for everyone and you really should do your homework before going under the knife,..there are a lot of resources on the net.
I was blessed with my fair share but did not appreciate them until I was well into my twenties and in grade school would have traded them in a SECOND! We all want what we don't have and to be honest you need to love yourself and your body before doing this as I am assuming you think this is an instant fix,....
I wish you luck in what ever you decide but you might want to wait a few years until you better understand your body and yourself for that matter seeing as you are still very young.
It is easy for me to give advice about this seeing as I am a 38DD but actually have friends that have gone under the knife and have regretted it! And also a few who would do it again in an INSTANT!
Something else you should know is that although men do enjoy looking at Boobs weather real or fake,...most men will admit there is nothing better then REAL boobs regardless of there size. | |
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Posted: 6/26/2007 5:33:07 AM | | Its not the boobs on a woman that makes them sexy, its the heart beneath them. You have nothing to be insecure about. | |
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Posted: 6/26/2007 5:38:50 AM | i'd like to thank everyone for your helpful opinions and advice I've taken it all in and I appeciate it. Of course I would prefer to have natural boobs rather than fake but how long will it take? I know te best advice is to wait a few years but I don't think I could stand much more waiting. I can't even have sex with the lights on coz I'm that self conscious about them they are so tiny just like 2 little lumps pointing out I can't bare to look at them. The majority of u think I shouldn't get them done but i'm sure if u were in my shoes feeling the way I'm feeling, you'd at least consider it.
Thanks also to everyone who said i'm pretty, it means a lot bcoz atm I don't feel very attractive. Does anyone know any natural ways that I could try to make them bigger? I don't want to use padding bcoz that still doesn't solve the problem wen it comes to taking my clothes off and isn't that just as fake as implants just without the cost? plus it won't make me feel as good.
Maybe I will wait for a while coz I know its the right thing to do, but I can't wait for much longer its really getting me down. some of u think it won't give me confidence. Obviously its not going to change me completley but it will give me a hell of a boost and make me feel sexy and womanly thats all I want. and the boost it will give my sex life, I'll be so much more confident in the bedroom and not feel embarrassed.
I'm not going to get them huge, that would just be silly, I want to keep them as natural as possible.
So if anyone knows any other ways to make them bigger, i'd really appreciate it
thanks everyone  xx | |
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Posted: 6/26/2007 5:53:29 AM | | Don't worry, you're young - my mom's didn't grow till she had kids and my sister's didn't grow till she got on the pill | |
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Posted: 6/26/2007 5:53:55 AM | | Perhaps you could use those water filled bras that enhance your cleavage,...and hey why not buy a half bra and not take it off all together. It exposes your nipples so really there is no reason to have to get totally naked....lol,...and yet at the same time it is a push up and will make you look larger. Try different types of lingerie this might really help you out in feeling more SEXY!!! | |
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Posted: 6/26/2007 6:05:23 AM | you may just feel worse.
ever see the episode of the simpsons where marge gets the wrong plastic surgery job and ends up with huge ones? the writers exaggerate by showing her have trouble opening cabinets and holding her child because she wasnt used to having to be aware of her body orientation since it'd changed after the boob job.
there is some truth to what the writers were saying and i'll say why.
being someone with ample size breasts, there are some everyday things that happen to the negative because of the size. i cant hold a guitar in my lap to learn how to play one because the boobs get in the way. in eating establishments if the table is too low you end up not only with food on the table but your boobs as well because once again they are in the way before you can even reach your plate. then theres the back problems caused by being top heavy that only get worse as you get older | |
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Posted: 6/26/2007 6:26:55 AM | You are a very attractive and sexy girl from what I see in your profile pictures... and you are young...
Don't get the boob job, too many health risks involved. I love smaller breasts and find they tend to be more sensitive. Anything more than a handful is a waste... be true to yourself and don't do something as invasive as breast augmentation to impress adolescent minded boys who feel that you should have 50 DDD boobs in order to be sexy. Being sexy comes from inside, not from what your bra is stuffed with. | |
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