| boobs Posted: 6/26/2007 6:26:23 PM | | There are just as many men who appreciate small breast as there are that like large. Personally, I'm an equal opportunity breast man. I am attracted to almost every size ...and shape....almost. The exceptions are fake breasts...not interested. | |
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| boobs Posted: 6/26/2007 6:30:01 PM | Hey please don't put that crap inside you,theres nothing wrong with small boobs,quite the opposite. its probably that you are insecure in your life and this is just a focal point or some way of explaining it to yourself.the last thing that anybody should want to do is go under a general anesthetic-the're so very dangerous.and anyway small boobs sag less as you get older... | |
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| boobs Posted: 6/26/2007 7:07:47 PM | smaller boobs are the best boobs. they are my favorite.
think about it this way, the best part about you is the inner you. not the outer you. sure, men are attracted by a womans boobs but the bigger they are the more they droop and fall over when they are not being held up by a bra.
the perfect boob should fit nicely into a martini glass. a perfect handfull.
don't get the boob job, years down the road you will have to get bigger ones because your skin will start to stretch. (not attractive at all.)
you're perfect just the way you are. very beautiful indeed.
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| boobs Posted: 6/26/2007 7:14:40 PM | I just don't understand this whole thing about fake boobs.......... | |
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| boobs Posted: 6/26/2007 7:22:07 PM | | Anybody thats worth caring about could care less about your boobs, very unimportant. | |
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| boobs Posted: 6/26/2007 9:58:40 PM | Did you ever think that some smaller breasts do look quite attractive? Even if men pay attention to larger ones, well shaped small ones can be very appealing. Most guys don't really care that much about whether a girl has big breasts or not. If they do, fine. There are so many things that can be attractive about a woman like her legs. If a girl has decent legs, nice eyes, why complain? You're fine the way you look... I am sure many women would like to look the way you do... Many of the models do not have big breasts, by the way. They have small breasts. Paris Hilton doesn't seem to have big breasts, not that I like her, but she is definitely very pretty and most guys wouldn't be thinking about her breasts. Just something to think about... Really, it is not an issue... You think it is... I am sure many guys would ask you out, and they wouldn't be thinking "I can't ask her out, her breasts aren't big enough". Do you get my point? | |
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| boobs Posted: 6/26/2007 10:12:35 PM | It sounds like you're gonna do what you want regardless of the advice you asked for.... So why did you ask in the first place? Also keep in mind once you have a child and those implants.... Another "up side": smaller busted, you won't be worried about them being to your waist when you're older, like us bigger and older women... | |
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| boobs Posted: 6/27/2007 1:47:39 AM | | well like i told one guy that asked my my chest size i told him the honesty i have a hand full and proud of it and i then told him besides what kid of stupid question is that to ask a girl how big is your chest its just like a girl would turn around and ask the guy how long and big is your**** guys one lesson if u dont want females to laugh at your cause of your****size then dont judge a woman by her chest size we come in all size shapes and colors learn to except us for us if u dont like it then u lose out | |
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| boobs Posted: 6/27/2007 2:03:01 AM | I'm not going to read 6 pages, so maybe she changed her mind already.
But i wanted to say one name, Milla Jovovich. She has basically no boobs at all, and looked fantastic in Fifth Element, and every movie she's done.
I had a gf with A cups, she was older than me, 38. They looked like she was 18 years old. I had her walking around the apartment braless in no time. I loved getting flashed when she'd walk by. Much better than what they would have looked like at her age if she had Ds. | |
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| boobs Posted: 6/27/2007 2:12:13 AM | ugh no dont do it ,if i met some one who had implants it would put me right of ,i can/could spend as much time on pert breasts as biguns licking them to orgasm [nipples are connected to the cl;itoris]so dont do it | |
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| boobs Posted: 6/27/2007 2:29:36 AM | it removed a big reason for insecurity for me, and maybe that's what you are looking for as well. The person most important to please is yourself; there simply is no substitute for being able to look in the mirror and like what you see. It really does change the world.
^^This is how i feel, i want to b able 2 look in the mirror and go 'i'm gorgeous'. I know it costs a lot but i'd pay anything to feel good about myself. me getting them done has got nothin whatsoever to do with tryin to impress men in fact i'd rather get them done and stay single so I can concentrate on other things in life coz atm i've had enough of men. Like I said in a previous post, I know its not gonna change my life but it will give me confidence because I will be proud of my body. As for the nipple sensitivity being decreased, that doesn't really bother me at all and neither does having to get them done again every 10 years, I know it will be worth it. I've read up on all the facts and i'm very aware of anything that can go wrong and i've watched plenty of programs about young women getting them done and they all seem so much more confident and they have no regreats. | |
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| boobs Posted: 6/27/2007 4:40:44 AM | Wait until your twenties. Breasts are still growing. Mine went from B's to DD's between the ages of 18 - 20. Yours may get a little larger too. On a petite gal like you even a B or C cup will look big, and you may get there naturally.
Nothing artificial can give you confidence, it must come from within. | |
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| boobs Posted: 6/27/2007 4:58:24 AM |
This is how i feel, i want to b able 2 look in the mirror and go 'i'm gorgeous'. I know it costs a lot but i'd pay anything to feel good about myself. me getting them done has got nothin whatsoever to do with tryin to impress men in fact i'd rather get them done and stay single so I can concentrate on other things in life coz atm i've had enough of men. Like I said in a previous post, I know its not gonna change my life but it will give me confidence because I will be proud of my body.
I've read up on all the facts and i'm very aware of anything that can go wrong and i've watched plenty of programs about young women getting them done and they all seem so much more confident and they have no regreats.
Word of advice, talk to a surgon first and give it a while to sink in. Afterwards if that's what you want then roll the dice and go for it. Ultimatly it's your skin so you should be comfortable in it.
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| boobs Posted: 6/27/2007 7:45:49 AM |
i want to b able 2 look in the mirror and go 'i'm gorgeous'. I know it costs a lot but i'd pay anything to feel good about myself. Where does an 18 year old get the money for breast implants? Any money you spent on breast implants would better serve you spent elsewhere. Quite frankly I'm concerned about your mental state. Surgical altering something that doesn't require altering just to feel good about yourself seems to indicate problems much bigger than not being happy about having smaller than average breasts. I'd recommend spending some of that breast money on counselling.
has got nothin whatsoever to do with tryin to impress men This is so true, especially after reading what 80-90% of guys and women saying here that seeing a large breasted woman doesn't do it for them it the least. I really think this breast fad is driven by women trying to impress each other. I see this often with the younger ladies. Say a group of ladies is out together, I swear one girl has got big breasts that are WAY too big for her body, then her friend is even bigger, it goes on to the last one who looks like she can barely walk without tipping over. Sure they get stares and attention from people; so do circus freaks. | |
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| boobs Posted: 6/27/2007 7:53:13 AM | | Well let me just tell you- a girl doesn't completely finish growing in the chest area until she is in her mid-twenties..AND if you ever get prego, you will grow about 2-3 cup sizes. Do not rush out there and do something you will regret later. I am on the bigger side as far as my breasts go, and I do not get as much attention as my smaller chested friends. Just remember to be yourself and you will find someone who will love you for you...but first you need to love you. | |
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| boobs Posted: 6/27/2007 8:10:37 AM | I actually prefer women who are smaller breasted. You may get a lot more guys interested in you by getting the surgery done. The only problem is that many of those types of guys are more interested in going out with your breasts....and not you.
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| boobs Posted: 6/27/2007 8:14:11 AM | You are still so young! trust me, I had tiny boobs(was planning on getting the surgery) and I hit two growth spurt, one at 22 and another one at 24, and all of a sudden BAM! I had an awesome rack! (If I do say so myself) And then I had then baby and WOW! They are freaking amazing! With no signs of disappearing! LOL! Give it time. | |
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| boobs Posted: 6/27/2007 8:18:08 AM | I would have to agree with the majority of the responses on here.
my 'gf' just turned 20 and hers have grown in the short time i've been with her (from a B to a C)... If you're only 18, i would STRONGLY suggest waiting to see what, uhhh, develops.
I think most guys prefer smaller, decent to well-shaped breasts as opposed to big ones. I sure as hell do. And you'll be happy when you're older too - the last thing any guy wants to see between a woman's breasts is her belly button (gravity is a ****).
I know most women think most men want their women to remind them of a bar/ club - you know - with a couple of 'bouncers' at the front. Trust me - that's mostly not the case.
p.s. The only way i could ever see breast implants being justified is if there are medical reasons why the woman has none (and i maintain that it should be considered ONLY if there are NO BOOBS AT ALL)... if a woman has had a mastectomy and wants to reclaim her sense of 'womanhood', sure... if a girl never develops b/c of medical reasons (as was my sister's case), then sure. For vanity - hellllllz no. | |
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| boobs Posted: 6/27/2007 8:29:39 AM | oOoDANIoOo: I know you won't believe this but actually you are lucky. It could be the other way around - that you have too much cleavage thus have to worry about hiding your breasts because the tops these days reveal too much. Never thought I would say that.
Before I had my three sons my breast were pretty darned ok...kind of perfect (that is for wearing certain tops and clothes) , not too big and not too small. After having kids, darn it all, now they are bigger and a lot more cleavage. It is frustrating to always have to wear a cami underneath all of the cute spagetti strap tops so as not to reveal too much cleavage. I am not saying that I am not happy about having larger breast because I am happy having them. It is just that now I have to worry about covering them up in order to be appropriate.
As I now have grandchildren and even worse, wouldn't want my grown sons to see that mom has cleavage, now every time I buy a top I check to see how much cleavage is revealed before deciding upon its purchase.
You should do what makes YOU happy. Don't do it to please a man, nor a woman. Just do the research. Make sure you get a doctor who is credible. Talk to other women who have had this done. Larger breast can cause a host of physical problems, such as back problems.
My daughter in law is a size zero. She had very small breast and opted to have surgery to enhance them. She is very happy with her decision. She did it for HER. She didn't go for a size that was too large, inappropriate, nor revealing. To look at her one could never tell that her breasts are not natural. Do it, or not, for YOU.
As an aside, if you opt not to have the implants there are a host of bras, etc. that can make you look like you have larger breasts.
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| boobs Posted: 6/27/2007 9:24:14 AM | I believe the correct quote is "more than a mouthful".
And I agree,we love to look at big'uns,but they're all great.
Ever tried to sleep with a couple rock hard breasts poking you all night?Of course there are worse things to keep you up...
The general consensus seems to be for you to wait a while-and I agree.What happens if you get the job now,and in five years they grow on their own?
Nobody at your age wants to hear the wait and see speech,but there's a good reason for it-believe us!
Also,like I said,they're all great! | |
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| boobs Posted: 6/27/2007 9:43:56 AM | | Paris Hilton is maybe the sexiest woman on the planet... hers are small. Dont do it! | |
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| boobs Posted: 6/27/2007 11:05:00 AM | | i used t feel exactly the same about my boobs but it doesnt make u any less sexy atleast you no wen ur older that u wont have boobs like dog ears if they arnt big gravity cant really take place. u have t realise people wont look at you any different n have you ever thought that implants could make u less sexy yes it might make it so u can buy the clothes u want n stuff but most men dont actually like implants and you never no wot they will look like on you . have you tried push up bras n jelly bras thy give u more of a bust and a cleavage. | |
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| boobs Posted: 6/27/2007 11:05:50 AM | Sorry, doitguy, Paris got a boob job
I agree, they looked better before | |
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| boobs Posted: 6/27/2007 11:42:57 AM | EVERY female on my mom's side of the family have fake boobs...even my youngest cousin on that side, who just graduated from college. my mom and her two sisters, in fact, all have the *same* boobs, which is why, at around the age of 15-16, i started thinking, "genetically speaking, i should be bigger..." which is when i figured it out, and was told by my mom. i am the last hold-out and, although i have been tempted several times to go under the knife, i also really like to exercise...and i hear that huge ones just get in the way. not to mention ruptures, leaks, hardening, less readable mammagrams, fashion dilemmas (although, admittedly, corsets, t-shirts, and anything tight fittting might present less of a fashion dilemma with the boobs), and having men be far more interested in your boobs, than your heart. do you really want to be the brunt of "boob" jokes or attention? think about it. also think about the initial cost, along with any costs associated with things that could go wrong... ps. if you're going to do it, at least wait until you're done having children because you could end up several times larger than even your boob job... | |
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| boobs Posted: 6/27/2007 12:47:26 PM | | u know wot they say a handfull is more than enough dont let something like that get u down why have a boob job u look sound as u are | |
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