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Posted: 6/27/2007 12:50:08 PM | don't get a boob job. a guy who likes you doesn't care what size ur boobs r. and, at least you'll know a guy isn't dating you just cause you have big tits | |
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Posted: 6/27/2007 1:09:30 PM | | Boobs??? Who cares really, its everything else that matters | |
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Posted: 6/27/2007 1:38:24 PM |
Paris Hilton is maybe the sexiest woman on the planet...
Which planet is this? | |
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Posted: 6/27/2007 2:12:20 PM | | I am an older man (70) who recently lost my wife via death. She had implants and her breasts were beautiful even later in life, but I have heard her advise young girls not to do it. One of hers was always hurting and she said she would never do it again if she had it to do over. Some men do not mind smaller breasts, your personality, smile, legs, butt, eyes and overall beauty can compensate and who is to say that years of foreplay will not cause yours to enlarge? My advice is to find and ask some of the ladies who have had the implants for many years and ask their opinions. Some implants leave a hard breast and some a soft one, just wanted you to be aware of that. Silicone was put out of use for years but now a plastic surgeon told me its making a comeback and my wife did lose one to cancer and had to have reconstruction, so look before you leap and get advice from others who have been there. Don't be self conscious. Good luck. | |
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Posted: 6/27/2007 4:09:52 PM | HEY EVERYONE! I AM REALLY IMPRESSED HOW MANY PEOPLE CARED ENOUGH TO TALK ON THIS TOPIC AND BE "CONCERNED" AND "HELPFUL!!"
Every opinion everyone supported you here. I think you need to really mull that over. So many people, are concerned about your health and well being!!!
I will add several more things here. When you get imlants and want to have a child, you have to have them removed as your breasts will have unbelievable pain as they try to accomodate milk for a baby and a breast implant is in the way. This means more ugly scarres!! Pam Anderson (like Cher and numerous other stars) on several ocassions had to park hers in the fridge when she had her child. After the baby, she had to wait for the milk to stop before they could be inserted again. If you do decide to do this, maybe you should wait till you've had a baby.............
Another note, most women are larger after having a baby and keep some of the size after breast feeding and all. Hmmmm...
You are so pretty, I really hope you change your mind. The world I know is tough at 18 and there is so much pressure to look perfect. Ever thought you are perfect now to the genetic blue print your genes have created?
The Cinnamon Girl | |
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Posted: 6/27/2007 5:30:28 PM | How you feel is up to you. What you think of yourself is likely to impact other persons views of you.
As you say a "boob job will boost your confidence"(I'm sure it would)
But a" boost" is just a "boost". You will have to do something on your own within your mind for it to be lasting.
I find sm all boobs sexy, heck small boobs seem less prone to the forces of gravity.
The fine things in life come in smaller amounts and bring a higher price
---gasoline 3.50 a gallon
---perfume 60.00 bucks an ounce and even much more
---big boobs 7500.00
---your God Given Boobs priceless
Why dont you try dating a guy that thinks your hot? and wants your hot bod
Or are you secretly into a bit of humiliation? | |
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Posted: 6/27/2007 7:54:30 PM | this is to the OP & everyone else. i hafta come to this post with comments at 2 levels. first, i've read every post in the boobs thread, and i agree with everything that the ~~145-to-3 majority said. ( i'm #165, some of the posters have more than 1 message, and 3 or 4 of the posts were by the OP, and don't count in the 145-3 "vote".) second, i am a retired psych. researcher, & my faculty group did a series of studies over the years from 1992 to 2005, concerning men's "attraction" to big breasts. as it turns out, in general, mens' attention IS drawn to big breasts, but the research results suggest that the attraction is a response to the appearance that the woman is "advertising" her availability. sorta like, "here i am. come & get me." this is especially the case if she is wearing high heels, which changes the curvature of the spine, causing the the butt & chest to protrude more than the same body in bare feet. the results also show that a "flat-chested" woman can greatly increase her "attractiveness" (defined by mens' eye-movements & "time-on-target" when presented with 2 or 3 or 4 or 5 photos side-by-side) by changing her posture, to a posture that might be described here as "i'm proud of, and happy about, my body", such as when the flat-chested woman wears high heels, or has shoulders-back, straight posture. apparently, big-breasted women can accomplish this "come-on" protrusion with less care taken with respect to posture, while women with smaller breasts must work harder on posture to accomplish the same effect.
but all of this, i personally believe, is irrelevant. message #144 shows that the OP has read all of the opinions, and has apparently heard 140 posts (about 125 different people) say "don't". but the OP is saying at #144 that none of it has changed her thinking at all. very sad, because i think those posts, saying DON'T, present a case that any jury would decide was "beyond a reasonable doubt". personal experiences of the women, personal preferences of the men -- clear & convincing evidence if the OP has an open mind, but, alas, i've used this joke line many times in a long lifetime "my mind is made up! don't confuse me with the evidence."
and on a more personal level, i am really impressed with the OP's totally beautiful face. i wish: 1) i lived a half a world away, (near her); and 2) i were about 50 years younger. i really love slender or "thin", and if small boobs are part of that package, that's super. | |
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Posted: 6/27/2007 11:49:10 PM | well in my own eyes i like a girl with small boobs.. but just know it's not all about your boob size that will get a guy... but what will get a i guy is who you are as a person
I hope that helps! | |
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Posted: 6/28/2007 12:34:29 AM | like other people have said, you're only 18 they're still growing, trust me... bigger is not always better.
My "sister" is 22 and has only recently grown out of her B-cups, and into a 34 C, she's not too happy about it, b/c she can't run around bra-less all the time now, she has to buy bigger clothing, so that it actually hangs on her properly,b/c now, she has boobs.
I am a 38F (yes you read that correctly, F ) and i can't afford the bras i need in my size, i wear a lot of plunge neck-line tops, (when you're that busty its better to do so, than to attempt to hide it, b/c it backfires and makes them [and you] look bigger) BUT, do large size bras take into consideration the deep plunge of the blouse, top or whatever? Nope, so i end up with a portion of my bra tring to peek out of my top, OR, i end up with improper support.
Seriously though, give it time, take into consideration the porportions of the rest of your body, what size jean do you wear? what size tops? My "sister" had to break 120 lbs before i got my revenge, i mean her boobs grew.... believe it or not we'r both insecure about our chests from time to time, but we can joke about them, and we can pick on each other.
So i am going to echo one of the earlier posts, wait, until you're 25 or 30, atleast, before you really consider something that drastic.
Yes there are men out there who do prefer smaller breasts, i've heard the saying "anything over a mouthfull is a waste" well according to that, mine are wasted... and yes my over abundance of cleavage does draw attention, but with me only being 4'10" people are looking that low anyway...
If you're buying tops that have 'cups' as part of the design, and despite being your size, they're bigger than you are, then yeah, wear padded bras, or wear the 'chicken cutlets' - up side is, if he cops a feel, it still feels the same, but do warn him, if things start to get intimate, that you've got falseies, mainly to fill out the look of your clothing....
its amazing how much more understanding guys are, when we give them half a chance to be...
hope anything i've said here helps
Blessed be | |
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Posted: 6/28/2007 12:38:50 AM | Here's my assessment (as a guy):
Big breast pros:
Big breasts DO attract guys' attention. Big (real) breasts ARE more fun. Women that have a breast enhancement (whether artificial or natural, i.e. pregnancy/ childbirth) do feel sexier.
(Fake) big breast cons:
The attention big breasts attract may be the wrong kind (your profile doesn't seem to indicate you're a sex fiend). Fake breasts are mostly just eye candy (not really functional). Having seen my fair share of breasts, the real ones ALWAYS look better up close than then fake ones. Now, that's not to say that a Hollywood surgeon somewhere can't perform outstanding breast jobs... but that is to say the majority aren't doing a better job than mother nature. Breast implants interfere with breast feeding (and your breasts WILL get bigger if you have a child). Ultimately, breast implants look good in a photo, but not so good when they have a job to perform.
Women with small breasts complain about their size. Women with big breasts complain about their size. As a guy, I'd prefer to date a woman in great shape with small breasts, than an overweight woman with large breasts. BUT, there are men that would pick the exact opposite. I'd say think about breast implants later in life and focus on the aspects that you can naturally improve at this point. | |
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Posted: 6/28/2007 1:37:36 AM | I took a poll at work, of guys my age and younger.
They all said pretty much the same thing. The only time we think big boobs look great is when they are swinging around a stripper's pole.
But on our girlfriends, we all prefer small. | |
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Posted: 6/28/2007 2:18:15 AM | I’ve got bigger boobs and men DO enjoy them... but then again MEN enjoy all sizes of breasts!  Especially ones with nice and sensitive nipples! 
GIRL....you are only 18 years old! They are still changing! My advice...don’t THINK about the surgery until at least AFTER you’ve had children.
In the meantime, play them up with all the amazing bras they have on the market now! Men LOVE the CLEAVAGE....and you can get that from a great padded or water bra.... that us bigger breasted woman...do NO DARE go near!! Depending on what you wear...you’ll look amazing either way...and keep in mind... when you are casual...and wanting to put a tshirt and shorts on ... or when you are working out... you are SOOOOO LUCKY you dont need a bra!!
Im ALWAYS having to think SUPPORT!!! when purchasing bathing suits, bras, tops...
You can show off your nipples ... and just WATCH THOSE MEN gather round!! Its like a RADAR for MEN!! LMAO 
If I was in your position and I had to sacrifice the sensation in my nipples, I would not do it! I LOVE that feeling... and wouldn’t lose it for anything!
I have also heard so many women that get boob jobs...aren’t very pleased with them which eventually leads to more surgery...and that gets pricey! Not to forget... after years and years...the skin around them will TOO begin to sag... and I cant imagine what THAT would look like! Some of the skin going SOUTH...and the implant staying NORTH!
LMAOROTF!! YIKES!!! 
Think about it seriously GIRL! Reading through this thread...it seems the consensus is a NO GO!
OMG!!! --- KAZOT (MSG # 13) -----That is hilarious! | |
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Posted: 6/28/2007 11:22:35 AM |
If i'm getting the boob job for myself, to make me feel good and make me feel like a woman is there really anything wrong with that?
No and Yes.
1) Any change in your feelings is likely to be temporary. Feelings of inadequacy will return if you have a problem with them, they sag, you get wrinkles, etc. etc. etc.
2) Developing an attitude that accepts you as you ARE means you don't have to worry about the changes that come. Learn to be self confident is better than changing your self to something artificial.
3)Hon, women will die to get carded. Its because you look young, not because your boobs are small. Most places will card anyone looking under age 30 just to be on the safe side. Some places even publicize that they card anyone looking or saying they are under 25. Your listed as 18 barely past the age where you can get in if your carded. | |
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Posted: 6/28/2007 11:50:28 AM | | I say do it if you think it makes you look better in your clothes but do NOT do it just so you think men will be attracted to your bigger boobs. | |
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Posted: 6/28/2007 12:00:43 PM | Sweets,
I am opposite of you... but I used to wish that mine weren't like they are. I think that we as women will constantly try to change our outer looks to settle some inner battle we have.
At 18 I was unsure of myself as a woman. I didn't like how I was put together. But here I am at 30 after giving birth to 5 kids, and I love me. Flaws and all. Most men LOVE natural, because they feel different than say implants. I would recommend getting some cool bras and fun sexy shirts that enhance rather than change what you have and go have fun. You only live once, and in 10 years you might regret altering your body to fit the small mind of society.
Emmy | |
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Posted: 6/28/2007 12:24:50 PM | It is all about who u are.. and that takes TIME.. I mean it.. ..I have 3 daughters all have it different sizes.. (overly to small).. all feel differently
yet.. I was ALWAYS uncomfortable with what i have..
Never in my life was i comfortable .. but only today.. .. 48 years later can i walk around saying. this is..WHO I AM>> I walk with confidence.. No longer self-conscience.. of being a 40C.. And if that is what men look at so be it..if not...no big deal
so it is very much MENTAL>> getting a breast implant done.. may make u feel better.. but psych.. wise. u dont change what u think about yourself...overnight.. is the point. GIVE yourself time.. girl...(from a woman / and a mom...) | |
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Posted: 6/28/2007 2:00:08 PM | Well, I like mine, and apparently so do others!
There are all kinds and you just have to kno wyourself and what you like! | |
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Posted: 6/28/2007 2:27:19 PM | | Speak to quite a number of plastic surgeons first. Check out their work. It will make you feel better about yourself. I had my nose done and it makes a difference in appearance and confidence. Ask about your age too...for your body does change as you age and your breasts will probably grow too.Do research first. | |
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Posted: 6/28/2007 3:34:30 PM | | I have no problem with small boobs. I prefer the smaller, perkier ones to be honest. If they are huge, I'm not really impressed. Ultimately, I don't care so long as the woman is attractive. | |
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Posted: 6/28/2007 3:42:18 PM | | OP, since the beginning of this thread your picture has reminded me of someone! Never could figure it out but now I have it!!!! Avril Lavigne!!!! She's quite a petite young lady and the world is hers. I hope you don't think this is an insult, I consider it a compliment. Of course she changes her hair color a lot but your facial features remind me of her. | |
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Posted: 6/28/2007 3:54:25 PM | I have to disagree with the bit about nursing with implants being a problem. I have known women with implants who have been able to nurse without any additional discomfort from the implants.
I've also known women (without implants) who have lost up to a cup size after having a child. Yes, they usually swell immediately afterwards, but I don't know if you can count on the additional size to stick around more than a few months.
However, for the basic question, it is a matter of preference just like so many other things. I do know women who have felt so much better about themselves that the implants really didn't matter on their own, but they felt great after having had them (the women, not necessarily the implants!). Others I have known felt it was a waste of money, time, effort, etc.
The one big caveat I would tell you is they don't last forever. You're probably looking at a maximum of a 10 year life span (MAX) before something has to be done with them, either replaced or removed. I would not expect them to last much longer than that, in fact I would not expect them to last that long, honestly.
And should you choose to get implants, from personal opinion (not only my own but both other men and women I've known): GET A GOOD ONE. That usually means pitching in for a more expensive procedure/operation, but a cheap set of implants/installation will look bad. Almost humiliating.
Just my .02 | |
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Posted: 6/28/2007 9:37:26 PM | Take it from a bigger chested girl. I get TONS of comments on my chest. Some are tasteful some distastful. I've got em and as much of a pain in the arse they are, I flaunt them...in a respectful way.
However...if a guy wants me b/c I have "great tata's" well...he can take a hike. I'd rather have a smaller chest b/c I cant fit in clothes either. My boobs pop out, I have "quad boobs" at times, and if an XL shirt is supposed to fit a girl.....well my boobs are soo big that the line on an XL low cut shirt goes right in the middle.......but the XL doesnt fit right in other places
It's a PITA.
Oh and I was a B-C cup at 18/19. I'll be 25 in 3 weeks and i'm on the bigger end of a D cup.
It SUCKS! | |
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Posted: 6/28/2007 11:09:38 PM | Like others have said. It doesn't matter.
I like a woman who's nipples get really hard and stick out. Those are probably the more sensitive ones. I have seen those on A cup and G cup, so it really doesn't matter as long as those are there. | |
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Posted: 6/29/2007 12:28:01 AM | | don't do it, it matters whats below the waste anyways. | |
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Posted: 6/29/2007 8:20:37 AM | oOoDANIoOo
Honey.. It's true, I'm right there with you..
However.. We can wear all those cute little summer tops without a bra !! And although I have talked about getting mine done (a C would be nice) with them the size they are, I don't have to worry about gravity !! LOL
My best friend had hers actually made smaller, she went from a triple D to a C. She was so large that she had skin reduction then implants. She says they are cold as hell in the winter !! And after 20 years she still has NO sensation.
So think long and hard about getting them done.. Once it's done, you can't go back.
Pppsssttt.... Love you for YOU Hun, and everyone else will will too !!! | |
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