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Posted: 6/29/2007 10:16:39 AM | | I love small boobs. Don't even think about a boob job. Plastic bags suck compared to the real thing no matter how petite. Wish there where more women with itty bitty titties! | |
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Posted: 6/29/2007 11:10:04 AM | | a LOT of men are VERY turned off by implants- most I know say they prefer small and real to fake. Focus on the positive! I have 40 E's and let me tell you, I like them but what attracts men to me I'm told is more about the confidence projected from being comfortable in my own skin. Heck- the guy I'm seeing now prefers what's going on behind me! Men appreciate lots of different things about women- doesn't mean they are obsessed with the things they appreciate. If anything I'd say men appreciate the variety and rarely have a preference to anything more strongly than your "total package" | |
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Posted: 6/29/2007 5:50:13 PM |
It seems like all men want big boobs coz u can't do much wiv small boobs and it makes me feel unattractive and not sexy at all.
To me this sounds just crazy. I don't know a single male friend of mine who likes em big. The smaller the better!! | |
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Posted: 6/29/2007 5:59:10 PM | Don't get breast implants. There are potential complications that can look worse than having an A cup. Personally, when I find out a girl has implants I am automatically turned off and am not interested.
Remember, that each man is different. DON'T try to make yourself look bigger because men can be turned off if they think you are as chesty as you make yourself look to be and then they found out you aren't.
When you eventually have a child, your chest will increase maybe up to three sizes and you'll have a bigger chest. And then you might think you wish you had your smaller ones.
Each guy is different. Me, I like a nice Firm B or C cup. But that is me. Some men like a girl with a smaller chest. Another thing is to avoid looking at magazines and media that promote a larger chest. | |
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Posted: 6/30/2007 3:37:58 AM | I doubt all the men want small boobs but whats so bad about them being fake? most of the men that have posted have said they don't want a woman with fake boobs. why? It doesn't make the person fake. obviously with ridiciously big fake boobs I understand but with a size c why wouldn't u want to date a nice girl just because shes got fake boobs if (as most of u have said it) the boobs don't matter, it's the person.
Yea its true I won't be moaning when I'm older as they won't sag as much, but by then I hopefully will have settled down so It won't matter. What matters to me more is feeling good about myself while i'm young and in my prime and have fun. I'd much rather look and feel good while i'm young living out my life than have perfect boobs when i'm 40.
I'm not sure if u will understand where i'm cumin from coz its hard 2 explain but whats the point in me being misrable when I should be enjoying my best years n my replacement for the boobs is them not sagging when i'm older? when i'm older, hopfully i'll have kids and a husband to care about, my boobs wont matter at all whereas now, I want to love myself, go out and have fun but i can't do that feeling this self consicious. I hope u all understand my point of view. | |
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Posted: 6/30/2007 7:36:25 AM | ^^
well just go and do it then!
WTF do you need 'permission' from a bunch of anonymous internet POF posters?
you obviously are bound & determined to do it no matter what advice anyone gives you to the contrary.
so go do it, quit wasting time posting about it | |
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Posted: 6/30/2007 9:37:15 AM | oOoDANIoOo.. What is your hurry? You are 18. Have you had lot a guys complain about your size? Somehow I don't think that you have. You are very attractive.
When I was your age my bra size was 34B. By the time I was 25 it changed to a 36C and I was still very slim. When I was 30, I had my daughter and after the breast feeding stopped my bra size was (and still is) a 38C. and there was no significant weight gain to the rest of my body. (well.. a little baby pooch tummy that I'm considering getting tucked in the near future, so I DO understand how you feel)
I REALLY recommend you give it some TIME.. at least another 5-10 years to see what "developes"
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Posted: 6/30/2007 10:29:57 AM | | Nothing wrong with a C cup. Even a B cup is nice. | |
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Posted: 6/30/2007 10:38:19 AM | hi i understand how you feel...i was there myself once...i was an A cup until i had my daughter i was 23 when i gave birth to her...now im 32 and after giving birth was back into my size 10-12 jeans ans was n am still a 36 d boob size no worries hon take care  | |
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Posted: 7/2/2007 8:34:05 AM |
I doubt all the men want small boobs but whats so bad about them being fake? most of the men that have posted have said they don't want a woman with fake boobs. why? It doesn't make the person fake. obviously with ridiciously big fake boobs I understand but with a size c why wouldn't u want to date a nice girl just because shes got fake boobs if (as most of u have said it) the boobs don't matter, it's the person...Yea its true I won't be moaning when I'm older as they won't sag as much, but by then I hopefully will have settled down so It won't matter. What matters to me more is feeling good about myself while i'm young and in my prime and have fun. I'd much rather look and feel good while i'm young living out my life than have perfect boobs when i'm 40...I'm not sure if u will understand where i'm cumin from coz its hard 2 explain but whats the point in me being misrable when I should be enjoying my best years n my replacement for the boobs is them not sagging when i'm older? when i'm older, hopfully i'll have kids and a husband to care about, my boobs wont matter at all whereas now, I want to love myself, go out and have fun but i can't do that feeling this self consicious. I hope u all understand my point of view.
Listen Dani, you don't need a boob job, most boob jobs make it obvious that the woman is fake. Especially on a naturally beautiful woman, like yourself, when I see the fake boobs it only makes me wonder went on in her mind when she altered a totally naturally beautiful appearance to have a fake look. That's the main reason why guys don't like the fake boobs. Not only are they generally hard as a rock, totally unnatural, but mentally the guy knows the woman is attention-starved, and that generally is non-plussing. True the boobs don't matter if the girl is nice, but really a guy only cares how nice a girl is to HIM. Not to all the other guys who are staring at his girlfriend's chest. Your comment about not feeling good about yourself, feeling self-conscious and miserable, and not enjoying your best years due to possessing natural breasts is troublesome. Hopefully whichever doctor you decide to go to for the implants will insist on you having some sort of psychological profile done, something that will help convince you that you are getting this unnecessary voluntary invasive plastic surgery for all the wrong reasons and none of the right ones. | |
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Posted: 7/2/2007 10:08:06 AM | Just to let you know, men can tell when a woman has had breast implants most of the time, and they are usually NOT attractive. I would rather date a girl with small natural breasts than one with big fake looking implants. But hey, to each their own. I hope you make the right choice for you OP.
How about this, post a full body shot of yourself so we can see what we're dealing with here and then the men will tell you if they don't like what they see? I can almost guaruntee you there will probably be all positive responses judging on your face, which is very pretty by the way. | |
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Posted: 7/2/2007 10:45:40 AM | I'm just the opposite. I'm self conscious of my big boobs. There is no such thing as a bust minimizer and if the bra says that it is then it's full of sh!t. I'm a pretty small girl and my boobs are way out of proportion for my size. I want to get a reduction...not only to help me feel more confident, but because I know sooner or later back pain is going to be an issue.  | |
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Posted: 7/2/2007 10:53:39 AM | firstly ... boobs do not make the woman, the woman makes the boobs
secondly ... not all men want big fake boobs
surgery may fix your the size of your boobs but not necessarily all the underlying self-confidence issues | |
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Posted: 7/2/2007 11:04:51 AM | Dani -
You are a VERY attractive young lady (although from some angles you do resemble a terrier).
I second the general consensus here. Personally, I have no problem with small boobs - nor do I know any guy who does - although I'm sure they are out there. Sensitivity and genuine feel mean a lot to me from both a psychological standpoint and a sexual pleasure standpoint. I can't imagine at your age that you should really get a boob job. At 18, you still have some growing to do - let time do its thing. Also, as many ladies have commented - having large boobs is not always tea and crackers.
Additionally, there are surgical complications, potential long term health issues, etc.
You can always use a padded bra/push-up bra to accentuate what you have. If you still feel this way five years from now then reconsider. IMHO. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2007 3:34:29 PM |
You are a VERY attractive young lady (although from some angles you do resemble a terrier).
WTF?
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Posted: 7/3/2007 3:57:46 PM | | We always want what we don't have. I have big boobs, not by my choice. I would love to be a 34B. Then I could wear any kind of shirt. Big boobs are painful. The men that want big boobs. They are only into sex, not the woman. There maybe a few who are sweethearts. But not very many. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2007 5:23:30 PM | trista that's a good point. I've been with many women who have big boobs and have craved for smaller ones and vice versa. But to most men all boobs are just mmmmmm | |
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Posted: 7/3/2007 5:41:04 PM | " I have 40 E's and let me tell you, I like them but what attracts men to me I'm told is more about the confidence projected from being comfortable in my own skin."
You have confidence because you were blessed with your "pups"... getting implants will artificially give you confidence.
It's all in the eye of the beholder imo... | |
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Posted: 7/3/2007 5:45:46 PM | "I'm just the opposite. I'm self conscious of my big boobs. There is no such thing as a bust minimizer and if the bra says that it is then it's full of sh!t. I'm a pretty small girl and my boobs are way out of proportion for my size. I want to get a reduction...not only to help me feel more confident, but because I know sooner or later back pain is going to be an issue. "
You should read the book "psycho cybernetics".
It deals with this "problem"...
Then, re-read it every month for the rest of your life.
One of the best books that you can possibly read. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2007 6:01:39 PM | Hi,
my advice would be - talk to your GP get the best advice and see what your friends say. It's true they may improve your confidence and, as long as you don't go too large, they may look ok. However, there are potentially some long-term medical drawbacks .e.g. sensitivity loss, and I believe the expense of having them done every 10 years or so. 18 can still be a difficult age and you may find that once you're a year or 2 on your confidence will naturally have improved and your weight increased which may help breast size a lot.
Personally, I would say you already look attractive and as a nice person you will meet people who love you for who you are regardless of breast size. You'll then have the advantage of firm non-saggy breasts and as people have said be the envy of all the well blessed ladies in summer.
Best wishes
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Posted: 7/3/2007 6:30:19 PM | Op,
Im not a guy, but speaking from a female point of view. I wish I had small boobs. Its easier to find tops for. Big boobs comes with lots of problems. Including back problems. Trust me ,its not worth the operation. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2007 6:38:19 PM | | I just want to say just be yourself..some men are leg men,some men are butt men and some are yes boob men..there s a Mr. Right for you out there just the way you are..and yes believe it or not there are lots of men who adore small boobs..you'd be surprised..Just be you 100% you..nothing fake..am sure you are an amazing woman..and besides..if someone can't accept you for who you are..they are not worth it..hope this helped | |
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Posted: 7/3/2007 9:17:31 PM | Hi oOoDANIoOo.....
I haven't read the entire thread so I'm going to offer my own opinion to your initial question.
Everyone is different and has different tastes. Some guys like small,some like big,some like medium size breasts. Just like every guy,each woman is different in the size of their "areas".
You should never feel unattractive because you believe your breasts are too small. Some men are turned off by very large breasts. I for instance like to hold them while being intimate without having to have hands the size of Andre the Giant! lol!
Seriously...alot of guys who are looking for true sexual intimacy would be beaming just knowing a woman as attractive you is interested.
Breast size does not and will not matter in the long run. Believe me.
Perhaps your reseverations of your past boyfriends thinking they were "just being polite" may be because your breast size always on your mind but they were being truthful? Though I will not say that with 100% confidence as,of course, I obviously wasn't there to tell...lol! But I believe at least a few were truthful.
Also...don't focuse too much on the breast thing as different guys find different things attractive.
Such as physically on a girl, what strikes my fancy are the arms-(believe it or not)- , tummy-(doesn't have to be washboard tight)-and a pretty smile.
A big seller is the personality....senual,fun,goofy,likes to laugh...but can be serious when need be.
I guess what I'm trying to say is....every man finds different traits... be it physical or personality wise attractive. No one is the same.
Be yourself and stop worrying so much on the breast thing. It's like guys worrying about their penis size all the time. If every woman demanded a 9" pecker no one would date. Do all women base sexual intimacy with a guy on penis size all the time? Of course not. It's 90% or more personality. Guys are the same way. If all us guys based sexual attractiveness souly on breast size,well,the male population might as well just call it quits.
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Posted: 7/3/2007 9:52:28 PM | | Guys who want big ones have a problem. Anything over a mouthfull is wasted and if you don't have a man who absolutely delights in stimulating your petite bosom, then you need to keep looking. Sadly, you may be looking for a while. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2007 10:06:18 PM | If you want to enhance yourself because you think this is a great thing for you because you want to look better for yourself I say GO FOR IT. But I find this hard is the case as you are asking strangers on the internet for their advice and waiting for someone to tell you want you want to hear. And that is????
Ask yourself this question. "What do I hope to achieve by undergoing a breast enlargement?" If you can honestly answer you are doing it because you think you will look better, it will make you feel good then do it and it's for yourself...Then do it. I'm all about enhancing one's self if it hurts no one else. But don't do it because you think men will find your more appealing, because it will only get you superficial attention and you still won't be happy with yourself.
If you want to be more appealing trying growing your mind, donate your time to a good charitable cause or give back to your community. | |
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