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 Author Thread: Online dating is depressing for guys
 CaR

Joined: 8/17/2004
Msg: 101
YOU DONT KNOW ME
Posted: 10/7/2004 11:59:09 AM
sunshine thank you for your exportise...

but i dont need it, thanks for tryin to even help, but you failed, and your positive comments are negative and i dont need it, AND YES i judged some girls but's true not dat you could care? or dont understand where im comming from or understand me,

and dont tell me i cant use slang, i can use it wherever i want, im not in friggin school, and your not MY PARENT, so stfu(sorry i had to say it i didnt want your help anyways), other than dat, ty people for tellin me to join tha forums, but i dont think i will post much to girls like this

and please just dont care if you have nothing else to say or worth to say

you wasted your text for nothing, you think IM ACTUALLY GOIN TO LISTEN TO YOU?
you must be nuts, and hello THIS IS ME NOONE GOIN TO CHANGE ME so nice tyr wit tha gramamr thing, i wouldnt care if dat's it if they dont like me for dat, dat's fine wit me
i dont care less, why should i care for one who judges me, not like i judged them, some of tha moronic girls tell me off because their so indenial they are lying sleezebags for females, and some do, cause they actually CARE AND UNDERTSTAND ME


so sunshine,l this concludes my reponse to you

nice try to help but you did nothing
ahahahha lmao

if anyone else cares to try , do try but you wont get far if you do use dat tone of negativity in your messages and i know when
so dont even try to fake it
 CaR

Joined: 8/17/2004
Msg: 102
and kryptos is right
Posted: 10/7/2004 12:03:33 PM
Sunshine said it the way it should be said!!!,

Be yourself and nobody else, but remember that you are your only representative

I AM MYSELF, ALWAYS WILL BE, NOTHING CHANGES NOT EVEN SLANG
LOL


see how humanity fails to try to help a person? but they didnt ask for it anyways

SO WHY PROVIDE IT? I DONT CARE

i dont care
i dont need anyone advice unless i wanted it dammit


you have no right to for your opinions on people

only my fact is SOME girls lie on this site and it a real joke to see
 alura2

Joined: 3/18/2004
Msg: 103
and kryptos is right
Posted: 10/7/2004 12:16:19 PM
freedom of speech buddy...deal with it...

you are bashing...and you are wide open like an ant and us with a magnafine glass..we zom in and will attack back.

You are sounding like a whiner..and childish.PPl are giving good opinions..and like a child yelling back at his parents..you say DONT TELL ME WHAT TO DO..!!

grow up...
 WS6TA

Joined: 4/26/2004
Msg: 104
YOU DONT KNOW ME
Posted: 10/7/2004 2:34:52 PM
CaR:

It's sad to see you feel that way but it's your right to do so and no one here has the right to say otherwise. If you like to use slang I say go for it but be aware that it will be viewed poorly. Just because the world is on one page and your on another changes nothing. When anyone wants to be viewed in such a manner it is their own choice just as it is the same with the rest of the world choosing another path. The world is not always right but it is also not always wrong. Things change with the times and not always for the better. Might does not equate to being right...but being the outsider doesn't always mean your in the right either

I'm not trying to help you... Frankly I don't give a crap! I've learned one valuable lesson from people like the likes of you. You neither want the help or willing to accept what if any help may be given, but more often than not your the one's that need the help the most. Maybe you just like trying to see people attempt to help and thus there in lies your underlying issue.

Good day.
 CaR

Joined: 8/17/2004
Msg: 105
now this is funny lmao
Posted: 10/7/2004 2:56:43 PM
ok i am so lost on this now, it's sad to see people reply me bout this, i really dont care and i im stickin wit my fact and dat's final, other than dat some girls yes are worth it and some are not

and tha rest of you who try to comment go ahead i want to laugh more lol

this is just too stupid dont be tellin me this older people

and yes ty i will use my slang
=)
 sunshine4040

Joined: 7/21/2004
Msg: 106
now this is funny lmao
Posted: 10/8/2004 3:15:29 AM
Hey car, you know what? I don't particularly care what your opinion of my message to you was. That would be one of the side benefits of being comfortable in my own skin and not caring what others think of what I say. I honestly believe that you could do better for yourself and am sorry that you viewed my comments in a negative manner. I don't believe that they came across that way, but hey, to each his own cesspool of negativity. Apparently you enjoy wallowing in your own too much to do anything to change your life or your outlook. I certainly make no claims to being your parent and seeing as how I am not a whole lot older than you, find that amusing. You need to find your own direction in life and go for it. If you don't like this forum, quit using it. But you are responsible for your own happiness in life and sitting around and B*$#*ing about it is not going to change things. All I wanted you to get was that you have to be the one to make changes in your life. If you are not happy, then go do stuff that will make you happy. Get out in the world and enjoy it and the variety of things it offers instead of staying shut up whining about the women there. Seems that you have an attitude that you present, but can't take advice....lol. If you don't want to hear what people say, don't write on here. So later....LOL
 sunshine4040

Joined: 7/21/2004
Msg: 107
I know you!!! CaR
Posted: 10/8/2004 3:20:10 AM
Kryptosdaddy
Thank you....lol you sound awesome...oh wait, was that slang I used?...lol. You do have a great attitude. ttyl
 sunshine4040

Joined: 7/21/2004
Msg: 108
to kryptosdaddy
Posted: 10/8/2004 8:07:08 AM
hey....ttyl just means talk to you later. No, your message was fine...I was trying to not break out and be too rude. After all, I don't know the guy, but you can't get what you want unless you are willing to go for it and do what you have to to get there. Youknow what I mean? If you just sit around whining about things instead of trying for them, well, that will be a waste of air and time. But anyway...is that your puppy in the pic? have agreat Friday
 indeepshitnow

Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 109
hey sunshine4040
Posted: 10/8/2004 8:09:13 AM
ttyl-NET abbreviation for "talk to you later" Umm officer, u live in VANCOUVER. That's woman capital of the freakin nation! I was in that city and saw more beautiful women than I have seen anywhere else in my life! I lived on Vancouver Island for a while too! Maybe you should try your luck out in Victoria... It's very nice there too!
 Raven1

Joined: 9/14/2004
Msg: 110
Re: Online dating is depressing for guys
Posted: 10/8/2004 10:45:41 AM
Yeah well welcome to the world of "most" women! (stupid)
They all say the "good" guys are taken and blah, blah, blah but then if one was right under their nose they wouldn't even know it!
As for the deleting of the mail w/o reading them - seems to happen quite often on here.
MABYE THEY'RE ILLITERATE AND JUST GO BY PICS!
LOL
They say women usually go more by what's on the inside and are (usually) less superficial than men but I don't think that's the case at all. I'd say if anything they're right up there with us! :)
 alura2

Joined: 3/18/2004
Msg: 111
Re: Online dating is depressing for guys
Posted: 10/8/2004 3:23:03 PM
ahh you are so right....vancouver woman kick a** and van islanders are just as gorgeous...its a known fact!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 indeepshitnow

Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 112
Re: Online dating is depressing for guys
Posted: 10/8/2004 4:26:21 PM
I miss Victoria... I will return there one day! As for most women being idiots, I disagree... It's very unfortunate that people in this site are generalizing screw ups with us normal folk. When I speak about the problems I've had with some psychotic women, and the ones who delete messages, etc., I don't put ALL women in that category. I realize that guys are just as screwed up. Do ya think the women who ARE reading these forums are gonna wanna chat with ya after reading some of this? Sure, I've had a few deleted, without being read, but ya chalk it up to the game, and be thankful that ya didn't wind up with her just to face more serios problems in the future! Try not to talk so bad about women in general. I realize that those deleted messages may be a dent in your self esteem or ego, if you will, but ya gotta remember these words and just chalk it up to the game. Keep trying. Buddy, there's nothing wrong with your profile. It's just that some women have preferences. Some are more arrogant than others. But the one thing you need to think about is this, that the one special woman out there might read one of your negative comments in putting ALL women in this category, and just skip ya over the same. Keep trying! I know, LOVE is a B1TCH, and I've run into my share of women in need of serious counseling... Thing is, I know there's still plenty o' fish in the sea. It's what length you're willing to go thru to prove to them, as they must us, in how bad they want to be with someone. Alot of people treat this site as a place to meet women to get laid, or things of that nature. I talk to alot of beautiful women on here, and get some really good feedback just being myself, and believe me, I ain't no super model, or youngbuck. I'm 31, decked with tattoos, have a shaved head, and sometimes a filthy mouth. But I realize that that is me, no one will change it, and I won't change it for anyone... The women like that just fine. I've met women on here from ages 19 and up. They're good people. Some may not be what I'm looking for, but I won't stop trying. Hey ladies, hit me up if ya like my profile, and essays! LMAO! Good Luck in your search.
 indeepshitnow

Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 113
Re: Online dating is depressing for guys
Posted: 10/8/2004 9:07:57 PM
Lived in S.C! *Columbia to be exact... Atlanta, and Columbus Ga. Montgomery Al. Gulfport, MS. Chattanooga... I've lived in the south.... I know all about those Southern Peaches my man, I was raised in the south... ;)
 indeepshitnow

Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 114
PS
Posted: 10/8/2004 9:08:44 PM
I',m in Cols Ga right now!
 indeepshitnow

Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 115
PS
Posted: 10/9/2004 7:56:02 AM
Go ahead put BUSH in again! LMAO
 silken

Joined: 8/19/2004
Msg: 116
PS
Posted: 10/9/2004 8:20:47 AM
Hey Krypto, but a few messages earlier you said they (the women) were all full of s*it down there too. ;)

silken
 WS6TA

Joined: 4/26/2004
Msg: 117
PS
Posted: 10/9/2004 8:53:48 AM
Krypto:

Watch out those lights you see in your review mirror is the POF police. If you are real good they will let you off with a warning. I recommend showing some leg or clevage...
 silken

Joined: 8/19/2004
Msg: 118
PS
Posted: 10/9/2004 9:24:38 AM
Excuse me sir, would you mind getting out of that vehicle... Hands against the car please.

I'm now going to read you your previous post and take you down to the station for questioning.


hehe

silken

P.S. Forget legs or cleavage, but a nice arm or chest is much appreciated and may lower your jail time. :)
 WS6TA

Joined: 4/26/2004
Msg: 119
PS
Posted: 10/9/2004 9:28:28 AM
 silken

Joined: 8/19/2004
Msg: 120
PS
Posted: 10/9/2004 9:41:19 AM
I'll bring the paddywagon, load up all the guys and we will attend at W6's for a social.

The ladies will be taking notes on the conversation and will be calling you down to the station later for questioning. ;)

hehe

silken

And boys you know that the ladies ALWAYS have questions. ;)
 WS6TA

Joined: 4/26/2004
Msg: 121
PS
Posted: 10/9/2004 9:49:30 AM
Krypto:

Thanks! Now I'm charged with "guilt by association."

Next they will be putting the light on us and the interogations will begin?

It's the strip search I dread the most... Please be gentle Ms. Officer?

Hey watch it that ain't no pocket knife.
 silken

Joined: 8/19/2004
Msg: 122
PS
Posted: 10/9/2004 9:52:14 AM
I myself am the Queen of Clarification. ;) If you boys were women you'd understand, but then again I'm glad you're *not* women. ;)

Of course there are times I just ask a boyfriend questions so that I can playfully pester him... like when he's trying to watch a sports game. :) Mind you I really don't know what the heck is going on in football so they're real questions. ;)

Here's a really fun fun female thing to do though...... (boys don't try this youself, you'd get hurt hehe)... wait until your boyfriend is watching football, hockey -- particularly if he's Canadian ;) -- and then say (in you best female whine)... "Honeyyyyyyyy, I want to talk about our relationship!" hehehehehe (I don't really want to talk about it, but it's fun to see the look of horror on his face. :)

silken
 WS6TA

Joined: 4/26/2004
Msg: 123
PS
Posted: 10/9/2004 9:56:13 AM
Silken:

Hey that ain't funny!!!!

Don't be putting thoughts into the ladies heads especially right when the clock has 5 seconds on at half time and you favorite team is two yards away from a touch down. It might cause us to have stroke
 WS6TA

Joined: 4/26/2004
Msg: 124
PS
Posted: 10/9/2004 10:12:46 AM
Krypto:

Well in that case I just have her beamed away to play with the "Borg" or something
 WS6TA

Joined: 4/26/2004
Msg: 125
PS
Posted: 10/9/2004 10:15:01 AM
Then I invite "Q" over for he seems to like to have fun. Plus he can make the most beautiful women in the universe appear to be my personal love slave...

O'crap now I need a cold shower
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