WS6TA
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Joined: 4/26/2004
Msg: 126 | |
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Posted: 10/9/2004 10:23:47 AM | Krypto:
That's a scare thought? She isn't one of those green women from the orginal series that men drool over is she? But only in disguise? Or is she one of those that if one of her tear drops touches you madly in love you will fall.
Personal I'd like to have a whole garden of those flowers that got Mr. Spock to fall in love. I'd talk one of those blooms every where I went just in case I saw someone I just had to have...
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Posted: 10/9/2004 10:28:22 AM | | Thanks for the great idea Silken.........can't wait till Sunday football!! | |
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Msg: 128 | |
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Posted: 10/9/2004 10:36:03 AM | Lyons Angel:
Don't listen to her! | |
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Msg: 129 | |
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Posted: 10/9/2004 10:37:39 AM | krypto:
Because the site is doing what it suppose to be doing making us all feel better about ourselves. It's working for me how about everyone else? | |
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Posted: 10/9/2004 10:41:08 AM | Yes I agree this site does have a lot of fun qualities and the people I have talked to so far seem very nice.
It's been a long tough year and I say theres nothing wrong with feeling better about ones self! | |
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silken
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Joined: 8/19/2004
Msg: 131 | |
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Posted: 10/9/2004 10:51:22 AM | Ladies here are some more things you can do to entertain yourself and give the gentlemen a hard -- but good-- time..... ;)
1. Insist that he review each of your nail polish colours ... bring out your tray of colours and put a colour on each finger and then make him stop and look at each single finger to give his rating (men like the 1 to 10 scale because they don't have to actually think too much for that. ;) hehe Now take off all the colours and start with your next 10 and do the same thing... remember... he has to rate them ONE finger at a time. :) This will help him to feel included in your life. :) hehe
2. While you are watching football/hockey/racing/soccer, etc. with him on tv (and believe me you WANT to be there to share that moment,) try to get involved by making your man explain what everyone is doing and WHY. :) If he's not in the mood to explain the sport to you, suggest you have a talk about the relationship. :) I think he will change his mind. :)
3. Give your boyfriend a personal fashion show during his playoff game. Again, ask for his opinion on colour, fit, length, style and if he seems lost for words then just insist he use the 1 to 10 scale. ;)
4. Play 40 questions. Men love this game. :) And remember, if he's not American, he can't plead the 5th! I suggest that you take notes so that you will have something to refer back to later on. ;) hehe
5. One of my favourite ways to distract him of course.... hug and kiss him and call him your pet name while he is trying to watch the instant replay. :)
I would like to hear more suggestions. :)
silken
P.S. W6 I had a boyfriend who would have sex during Star Trek but only if he could still keep watching. | |
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silken
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Joined: 8/19/2004
Msg: 132 | |
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Posted: 10/9/2004 10:53:37 AM | Krypto and W6 and all men out there in POF Land, I have a message from my leader....
RESISTANCE IS FUTILE. YOU WILL BE ASSIMILATED.
surrender now to the nearest female and receive mercy
hehe
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WS6TA
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Joined: 4/26/2004
Msg: 133 | |
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Posted: 10/9/2004 10:58:26 AM | Lyons Angel:
Ditto on that... This is the very best site I've ever been to and I've tried nearly all of them. I got so sick of "read deleted" and "unread deleted" e-mails. That I couldn't help but start feeling bad about myself. I had no idea what I was doing wrong all I was left to asume was that the women I sent e-mails to saw my picture and that was enough I knew with the "unread deleted" ones that I had been judged merely by my looks and nothing more. As for the "read deleted" ones I was left to assume I must have said something that did not suit them. Without some form of feedback then we are left on are own to figure it out which usually doesn't lead to the correct answer but certainly to unhealthy conclussions. I don't know nor understand still why it's so difficult for some females to respond to an e-mail. It strikes me as bad manners to not to do so. Heck it only takes a second to write "thanks but I'm seeing someone... I wish you luck." It doesn't matter if you are really seeing someone or not at least it's confromation that the e-mail was received and your polite enough to reply and this in itself lessens the damage to the ego of the sender. Plus it really helps to keep you from looking like a hypocrite in your profile when you exclaim how nice you are. In case your not aware of it we guys talk to one another just like you girls do. Word will get around if you say one thing and behave contradictor to yourself in your own profile... Just a thought you might want to keep in mind.
Yea, nearly everyone here is super and at least in the forums people do talk to you. In this way is what makes this site so great and unequaled. Here you can help others and in the same time learn something about yourself so you can improve upon it... | |
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WS6TA
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Joined: 4/26/2004
Msg: 134 | |
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Posted: 10/9/2004 11:03:10 AM | Now that she is wearing the mask maybe we should pratice up on our "Jedi" skills?
Female Vader is amounst us...
Strong with the dark side; she is. As Yoda would say | |
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Posted: 10/9/2004 11:09:48 AM | | WS, I agree there is no excuse for rudeness. If I receive e-mail I return it. It's that simple. I may or may not be interested for whatever reason, looks, distance, whatever but I always appreciate people and treat them like I'd like to be treated with kindness. May sound silly but it's true. We all have feelings and no one likes theirs to be hurt. | |
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Joined: 4/26/2004
Msg: 136 | |
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Posted: 10/9/2004 11:19:29 AM | Lyons Angel:
That's truly a pleasure to hear and you have restored some of my faith. I was begining to think all was lost with you women. It's too bad more women couldn't learn from your example. Then they might know what its like to be a lady instead of being a spoiled brat. | |
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Joined: 4/26/2004
Msg: 137 | |
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Posted: 10/9/2004 12:36:54 PM | Krypto:
Mine too. I always found it funny that after they had been dating a girl for sometime (and more often than not I was with them when they first met the girl, I was often the one that got the girls to notice us to begin with but as soon as I seen there was no spark in there eye for me I just let it go) and naturally I would end up spend a great deal of time around them they soon discovered how much a better human being I was than my friend/ their boyfriend. However eventually they would soon have their problems which would soon lead to break up. It was after the break up the ex-girlfriend of my friend would start revealing to me had she known that I was this great person she has come to know she would have went out with me instead. Or they tell me this in a simular fashon and attemt to come on to me. I always polite refussed and stated what makes you see me for what I am that you refussed to see before is the very reason why it will never happen. You see me for the carring, polite, and respectful person if I was to say yes then all of that would be no more. I can't go out with you- you are my friends Ex and I don't date my friends Ex girlfriends, that simple. I want a woman who knows she wants me and no one else not even my friends. You had an opportunity in the begining and you chose your path and now I have chosen mine... But we can still be friends but we can never be a couple... | |
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Posted: 10/9/2004 12:54:19 PM | | Yes we have been hurt before, and yes "people" can be cruel and rude. All I can be is accountable for myself. I've been hurt by men before but I learn from it and to be honest every person good or bad has effected my life in one way or another....and has helped me to be the person that I am today.... for what ever thats worth. | |
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Joined: 4/26/2004
Msg: 139 | |
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Posted: 10/9/2004 12:57:09 PM | Krypto:
If I dumped a girl then trust me it wouldn't bother me one bit for one of them to have her. If catch my point!
However, I've never dumped a girl in my life I was always the one being dumped... They get some crazy notion that somehow some other guy was better or was swept away by some smooth talker to only find out in the end neither guy truly matched my qualities and they come begging back. Not to sound mean or anything but you get one chance only with me as far as relationships go. I know it sounds unfair and unforgiving maybe even shallow but I found it to never be worth a second try. once the bridge has been burned no matter what repairs you make to it the burned smell never goes away. You just need to pick up and find some who is just trusting and faithful as yourself...
Now, friends fall under a different catagory. They can be jerks and you can allow them to get away with a lot more stuff and still remain friends but a relationship goes far beyond just mere friendship it's on an entielt different plane of exsistance... | |
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Joined: 4/26/2004
Msg: 140 | |
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Posted: 10/9/2004 1:41:19 PM | Krypto:
As they say: we live and we learn.
Sometimes we are the student and other times the teacher. As Enistien once said: We learn more from our mistakes than our success (Hey, wait a minute! If that's true I should be genius by now? )
Another one of his sayings was: Imagination is more important than knowledge. Meaning that its what we dream up that is the most intriguing. What we know is already old news.
A basketball coach once said: I'd rather have luck than talent because luck will beat you every time.
The best part about being were I'm at now is that all those friends that I've been speaking of are thousand miles away. I have nothing to worry about from them. Here were I am I'm all alone and have no friends. Hopefully when I do I'll be wiser at chosing them than in the past... | |
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Msg: 141 | |
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Posted: 10/9/2004 1:55:11 PM | Krypto:
So So So true. But what else can we do but go on and try to make the best of a bad situation? Sooner or later if by mere mistake only it's bound to happen. But if we try not then its a assured bet that nothing will happen. | |
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silken
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Joined: 8/19/2004
Msg: 142 | |
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Posted: 10/9/2004 3:03:01 PM | Ok I'll be serious for a sec..... both men and women tend to talk out of the sides of their mouth, both on here and elsewhere.... I've already run into a couple guys who've said one thing in their profiles but did something different in practice.
All you can do is move on and keep looking for someone whose actions match their words... vey important to look at both to see if someone is being honest.
silken
P.S. Notice that Krypto wanted to 'inject' something.... he's being dirty mr. moderator!!! ;) | |
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silken
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Joined: 8/19/2004
Msg: 143 | |
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Posted: 10/9/2004 3:07:36 PM | Speaking of dumbasses.... I have a date with one tonight. He was in the doghouse but now to get out of the doghouse he has agreed to a 3 part deal..... dinner, flowers and putting a sign in his window that sasy I AM A DUMB ASS. :)
Before you say I am mean, he deserved it and he was the one who says he is a "dumb ass" -- I simply agree based on his behaviour. ;)
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silken
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Joined: 8/19/2004
Msg: 144 | |
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Posted: 10/9/2004 3:18:02 PM | Well he was supposed to call me at 6 p.m.... i'ts a little past six and no call yet. Who knows, maybe he is a no-call.... he's sexy, he's charming, he's funny and he has some nice arms and chest (and tattoos) butttttttttttt he's soooooooo irresponsible.
silken
P.S. And he's on the second man I've ever met that can kiss me like gangbusters for 3 hours flat and be ok with not going any farther. ;) hehe | |
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silken
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Joined: 8/19/2004
Msg: 145 | |
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Posted: 10/9/2004 3:19:23 PM | P.S. He's not "on the second man" heheheh ... He's "only the second man"! Thought I better qualify that! ;)
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Posted: 10/9/2004 3:40:48 PM | | Part of it is you could be doing a custom search, in other words, looking for the right height, weight, type, compatibility, etc..........if you are looking at the guys, it may come up differently......I could be wrong........women are a little choosier when they do a profile because they honestly want the right guy. Men aren't as picky that way. At least normally. | |
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silken
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Joined: 8/19/2004
Msg: 147 | |
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Posted: 10/9/2004 3:58:47 PM | Well looks like I am going to have to nix that guy now FOR GOOD. It's a few minutes before 7 and once again he's been irresponsible and not called. Man sometimes the dating world sucks. :P
So my one friend wants me to go for a drive OR I could call the other gent who I was supposed to see today (who got the time wrong) and see if he wants to do something tonight instead OR I could just give up and stay home and trade remarks in here with you fellows. :P
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Posted: 10/9/2004 8:06:46 PM | Better stay at home Silken.
We can't kiss you through the computers, but we can keep you busy for much longer!
lol !
Or am I too late and you're gone by now.
It's hard to see by the time, my clock says really something else than yours.
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silken
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Joined: 8/19/2004
Msg: 149 | |
| Online dating is depressing for guys
Posted: 10/9/2004 9:04:18 PM | You didn't upset me krypto! :)
Actually boys it is now 11:54 p.m. my time (the time on this website seems screwed.) He never called. Knowing him he will probably call me sometime in the middle of the night and give me excuses why he didn't call earlier. Unfortunately for him I will have to hang up on him or just not answer the phone at all (which is what I did before.) Boy it's sad, I like him, we enjoy each other's company so much, the kissing is great too. Why does he have to be such a dumb ass? :P I asked him that last night and he said he honestly doesn't know why he's such an a** but that he wants to change and was going to. So much for that. ;) NEXT
I didn't stay home though. My ex asked me to come over and spend the evening with him and his sons so I went. Mind you his six year old son monopolized me until he fell asleep (and I mean right until he fell asleep on the couch with his feet across my lap, talking to me until the last moment. ) ;) The ex was monopolized by the younger boy (3) until he fell asleep at about 11:30... so we had about 45 minutes together and then it was time for me to go.
What did you boys do?
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Msg: 150 | |
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