| Do men like to be seduced?
Posted: 7/4/2007 6:45:25 PM | OP wrote : If so, what do you like women to do to seduce you?
no_1_bby wrote : I'm at a loss as to how to approach him, or let him know that I wouldn't object to more.
Seriously..?
* put your hands hehind your head and stretch.. not looking at him.
When you think he's watching.. look directly at him.. keeping the pose..
then smile very softly and return to your demure normal self..
* eat some yogurt.. just be oblivious to him.. but slooooowly lick the spoon,
closing your eyes.. do this over and over, like each spoonful is precious..
* When getting up and he's close enough.. use him to help you 'steady yourself'
but pass your hand along his back slowly..
* If dancing.. or standing close.. get close enough that he can feel
you pressing against him.. Do not repeat if he backs off tho..
Am I telling you something you don't know..? :-)
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| Do men like to be seduced?
Posted: 7/4/2007 6:45:40 PM | This one works in all the movies. Unplug your telephone, then ask the guy to come up and fix it. After he figures out the problem, do something like take off your clothes and say "well maybe you can fix this!"
Or something more romantic
smile
stand closer
a tender touch
say something nice
go down and say something nice to my johnson like "how are you mind if we kiss?" | |
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| Do men like to be seduced?
Posted: 7/4/2007 7:03:15 PM |
no_1_bby wrote : I'm at a loss as to how to approach him, or let him know that I wouldn't object to more.
Seriously..?
* put your hands hehind your head and stretch.. not looking at him.
When you think he's watching.. look directly at him.. keeping the pose..
then smile very softly and return to your demure normal self..
* eat some yogurt.. just be oblivious to him.. but slooooowly lick the spoon,
closing your eyes.. do this over and over, like each spoonful is precious..
* When getting up and he's close enough.. use him to help you 'steady yourself'
but pass your hand along his back slowly..
* If dancing.. or standing close.. get close enough that he can feel
you pressing against him.. Do not repeat if he backs off tho..
Am I telling you something you don't know..? :-)
Jim
Um.. yes and no.
I prefer licking a drippy ice cream cone, or eating a banana, sucking slowly on a popscicle... sucking the cream out of a chocolate eclair...
I guess I don't consider those seduction techniques... was looking for something more specific. | |
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| Do men like to be seduced?
Posted: 7/5/2007 6:38:56 AM | no_1_bby wrote : I prefer ... eating a banana
I guess I don't consider those seduction techniques... was looking for something more specific.
Okay.. then I mis-read you.. could you expand a bit on what you're after..?
Jim | |
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| Do men like to be seduced?
Posted: 7/5/2007 7:06:31 AM |
cook a steak with nothing but an apron on
how about a salad - steak might splatter - ouch! | |
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| Do men like to be seduced?
Posted: 7/5/2007 7:09:15 AM | actually shertenn you are telling me something i didn't know. which is why i asked. thank you for the suggetions, i will definately put them into practice.  | |
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| Do men like to be seduced?
Posted: 7/5/2007 7:17:53 AM |
Okay.. then I mis-read you.. could you expand a bit on what you're after..?
I can to the blatently obvious things like you stated, like I stated... was looking for slightly more subtle I guess. Or maybe I have what I need already.
At some point yesterday all this got muddled up inside my head and the line between flirting and seduction became blurred. I get flirting... understand that one no problem. There's flirting with the sole purpose of making someone feel good. Then there's what I call flirting with intent, which could ultimately be considered seduction by some I guess. I am a master at the flirting, double entendre, subtle sexual innuendo (and not so subtle sometimes!!)...
I guess what I'm looking for is what does a man consider to be seductive?? How does a woman, who initially knows nothing of a particular man, go about seducing him? | |
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| Do men like to be seduced?
Posted: 7/5/2007 1:27:35 PM |
I guess what I'm looking for is what does a man consider to be seductive?? How does a woman, who initially knows nothing of a particular man, go about seducing him? .
Hmmm...agressive/obvious should be intuitively understood. Already alluded to in another post - putting your body in close proximity, especially when alone and you don't have to, touch, ANYWHERE on his body - slightly more obvious things such as tell him he smells good and then smell his hair or his neck for example. He WILL know at that point.
And do NOT do those things if you're not interested in seducing him - that's false advertising!  | |
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| Do men like to be seduced?
Posted: 7/5/2007 2:09:13 PM | no_1_bby wrote : I guess what I'm looking for is what does a man consider to be seductive??
How does a woman, who initially knows nothing of a particular man, go about seducing him?
Let us consider your seduction signals / actions as an advertizing campaign.
First.. who is your target customer..? 'a man' is too general..
Your profile doesn't say specifically.. but I'm willing to posit that you have some
idea of what you want. Refine that..
* Does he wear a denim shirt.. or a button-down dress shirt and tie..?
* Does he have a beard, just a mustache, or clean-shavem..?
* etc etc.
After that.. now ask yourself *why* he is that way..
What does the denim shirt mean to him..? Being clean-shaven..?
Figure that out.. and you do know quite a bit about him.. and should be able to figure
out what kind of woman he would notice.. and tailor your 'ad' to him..
Your 'ad' is the way you dress, perfume, hairdo, etc..
Ex: In going over your past experience, looking at movie mags, daydreaming..
you find you are attracted to a guy who wears a broadcloth with a solid color tie..
You figure he dresses that way because he is meticulous, and appreciates subtlety..
he is very understated..
You figure he will be attracted to a practical haircut, quiet perfume and a
little black dress.. no jewelry..
If you are right.. he's already seduced.. cuz you are what he subconciously desires..
The girl with the long flowing blonde curls and frilly dress and flashy jewelry..
showing lots of cleavage..? She's not even on his radar..
Hope it helps..
Jim
All of the above posits that your ad will reflect truthfully who you are.. trying to be someone else
will not work.. I do hope that is obvious..:-) | |
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| Do men like to be seduced?
Posted: 7/5/2007 6:06:09 PM | I know i sure liked being seduced. Like the time i was sitting down on the couch looking at the t.v. guide. My girlfriend at the time ripped the guide out of my hands, sat down on my lap and gave me a lip lock. After 5 -10 minutes i said to her: I guess i am not going to watch t.v. tonight. Her reply: You guessed correctly.  Or the time i was bent over trying to line up the pool cue for a shot. She silently came up behind me and grabbed my ass just as i was about to crack the ball. Seems she wanted to crack the other balls.  I sure miss her now.  | |
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| Do men like to be seduced?
Posted: 7/5/2007 7:44:21 PM | I love to be seduced.
It is very a very rare occurence though as women tend to be the ones that men have to approach.
Unfortunetly the only time i've ever had girls trying to seduce me is when they are completely wasted and have no idea what they are doing and will end up regretting it. | |
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| Do men like to be seduced?
Posted: 7/5/2007 7:52:24 PM |
Does it matter if it's subtle or blatent??
At first blatent is better, less confusion and indecision.
Later subtle is fun on occasion, teasing when you know it is going to happen and it isn't carried on to long is like....well....the cherry and whipped cream on the top of the sunday.  | |
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| Do men like to be seduced?
Posted: 7/6/2007 7:28:46 AM | no_1_bby :
> All excellent points Jim.. thank you.
Remember tho.. with power comes responsibility.. Use the Force wisely..:-)
> subtle or blatant..?
Depends on how perceptive the guy is, I suppose..
tho messages that can be mis-read are usually read the wrong way.
Soo.. be blatanty subtle.. ? :-) Send him a message that uhm.. will shock a bit..
Jim | |
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| Do men like to be seduced?
Posted: 7/6/2007 10:15:08 AM | I guess in a way you girls have the same problem as us fella's. the difference being we spend more time trying to seduce than being suduced (or maybe we are just blind). Part of the male trick is asking discrete questions and not only taking note of the answer but the body language and tone of voice used when the answer is given. that way we can tailor the conversation and humour towards our desired goal.
After all there must have been a few times when you have been approached, initially not to impressed with the subject before you. But then found yourself becoming more interested as he continues his assault. Usually it is his sense of humour and/or his ability to make you feel like the centre of his world that will catch you.
It is the same with us guys. A sense of humour and a willingness to make us feel like the centre of your world even if its only for a few moments is normally enough to capitivate us.
Hope this helps. | |
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| Do men like to be seduced?
Posted: 7/13/2007 10:50:57 PM | Of course men like to get seduce, just like women. What kinda ofa questions is that. But when a women seduce a men, hey cannot do it like they want to be seduce. Tht just doesn't work. Don't do the flowers, dinner, move ...
Look at the guy and try to find out what he likes and how he responds and go with that. | |
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| Do men like to be seduced?
Posted: 7/13/2007 11:09:34 PM | Being that us guys are so hard to get naked (what a load that was) - most gals have to work their fanny off getting us naked (more crappola).
But to answer the question ........ WELL DUH.
Making us (me at least) feel desirable is a good place to start.
PLUS ........
Far to many gals think “I am a female - I am naked - that is all I need to be”.
Maybe that is fine when you are with a teenager but after a guy gets past about 40 - he is kind of sick of gals that think she has the “prize” and if he is good - maybe she will let him .......... ugg let him.
Bottom line - most guys would like to feel desirable by his gal. | |
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| Do men like to be seduced?
Posted: 7/14/2007 2:27:15 AM |
So, do you guys like to be seduced?
More than JUST ABOUT ANYTHING . . . . yes.
Seems like the women I dated in Michigan seemed to understand it far better than the ones I've met in Indiana, but that's just my personal experience. | |
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| Do men like to be seduced?
Posted: 7/14/2007 8:35:30 AM |
Far to many gals think “I am a female - I am naked - that is all I need to be”.
Maybe that is fine when you are with a teenager but after a guy gets past about 40 - he is kind of sick of gals that think she has the “prize” and if he is good - maybe she will let him .......... ugg let him.
Seriously? Are there women that think that way? Even past their 30's?
If a woman has that attitude there's something wrong with her (as in she is unable to enjoy sex). If you enjoy it you want to participate A LOT!  | |
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| Do men like to be seduced?
Posted: 7/14/2007 9:00:33 AM | I certain do!
it can be anything from obvious comments or gestures to suttle flirting throughout the evening. It just makes things more exciting and makes me want her more.
So it's all good. | |
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| Do men like to be seduced?
Posted: 7/14/2007 10:59:43 AM | dtitunik wrote:
> a guy gets past about 40 - he is kind of sick of gals that think she has the “prize” and if he is good -
maybe she will let him .......... ugg let him.
> Seriously? Are there women that think that way? Even past their 30's?
It does seem to be the attitude conveyed in many profiles.. By that I mean all the 'friends first' requirements..
While I -do- think that being friends is a very good thing.. the -impression- is that we guys have to 'live up to'
some standard .. "a true gentleman".. "someone who knows how to treat a lady".. etc etc..
So yeah.. there seem to be a lot of gals that think she has the “prize” and if he is good - maybe she will let him
I think I'll hold out for the one who says (to paraphrase an old Elvis tune)
"I'll make you awfully glad that you were born a man.." :-)
Jim | |
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