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 Eternelle
Joined: 3/11/2007
Msg: 25
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I have this sense about married people.

They are envious of my situation, your situation, that is, singledom.

there are many married people who envy the single lifestyle.

Sometimes because it makes them question their own relationships when they know and see someone who is single


One of my favourite photos was taken at a party. I was the only single person, but I hadn't thought about it. After taking pics of all the couples. A friend pointed the camera at me and I smiled. Then he lowered the camera, looked over at his companion and asked her to stand with me so that I didn't look so alone!!! I was quite astounded, not having felt "alone" at all. I looked at the counter behind me, and reached for a "companion" of my own. I have a great pic of me and my spoon. It was the first time I realized how uncomfortable many couples are with single people who are not desperately trying to become a 'couple' again.

Acquaintances do like to ask "when am I going to get married again" etc... When I respond that I am not really sure I could live like that again. The fairly smug reply tends to be "oh, it's just because you have not met the 'right one' yet"

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 Tricky n ^jynxx^
Joined: 3/21/2007
Msg: 26
Co-Workers telling you what you need....
Posted: 8/19/2007 2:22:09 PM
i just tell them to mind their own business and go to h*ll,what business is it of theirs to know what is best for me,geesh!sometimes they act just like parents always telling us what is best for us and making sure that we get what they want regardless of whether we want it or not.(TR)
 andy in kw
Joined: 9/29/2005
Msg: 27
Co-Workers telling you what you need....
Posted: 8/20/2007 1:43:24 AM
Just convince your co-workers that you are gay...they'll stop trying to fix you up with ex-girlfriends and ugly sister-in-laws. Of course you'll have to come up with a new set of excuses for not wanting to meet their old college roommate who majored in drama. Maybe that gay angle isn't such a great idea afterall
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