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| Why do younger men love older women, but rarely *date* them?
Posted: 6/5/2008 1:20:57 PM | This thread has been a rather humorous read. Lots of bashing from both sexes. But most of those basher's are long gone. I was going to address some of there comments but too "old" lol to worry bout. I'm talking about the age of the post not the person lol.
But anyways the answer is simple the same reason younger women want older guys for experience and maturity. Most just for the sexual experience not so much life experience. I'd probably never date anyone too much older than me. When I was in my 20's I wanted a woman in her 30's because of the no games. But now that I'm in my 30's myself I want the same people. I want a woman in her 30's as well for the reasons stated above. Now that doesn't mean I wouldn't date anyone in there 20's because there is always "diamonds in the rough" per say.
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| Why do younger men love older women, but rarely *date* them?
Posted: 6/6/2008 9:43:44 PM | I say live and let live. As long as I am not tangled up in their web.
I have previous neighbors that she was a good 25 years older than her husband and her son was the same age as her husband. In fact after I moved in next door she jokinly said dont confuse my husband for my son. lol
They are still happily married. I still love to visit their home. They we a great couple and great neighbors. I know this must be rare.
Let us look at a girls point of view. I was in college and age 19. Hardly anyone my age asked me out. Maybe due to my body type. I am not sure. Maybe they wanted somone innocent they could control and manipulate. The men that asked me out were 27 and above and come back to party at with their former frat brothers.
One that groped me and I recoiled , I found out he was married. I actually bumped into his family wife kids and all in the local mall.. The blackmailing I could have done.!!! Another one wanted to take me away for the weekend. He was 27. He knew I did not own a car. He lived 2 hours away from school and my family. I said NO Way.
What do you think these men were up to? I Did Not get the impression they were looking at me as Wife material. I being the younger fresher woman at that time.
I myself look for someone 10 years younger or older than I .
I dont want someone my children age , nor do I want to date my fathers friends
Nor someone old enough to be my grandfather.
Plus more women simply live longer. Many older men more than 10 to 15 year my senior may not be able to keep up with my pace or interests in live.
How many men want stepmother that is hot and the same age they are?
I would call her stepsister not step mother. lol Let you tell you when you can leave the dinner table and be excused. Hmm would would happen to your inhertance
Now compare a step father your own age? I still would feel odd.
My mother was at one point supposedly marry someone with a few years of my age and wanted me to board him in my garage loft for a short period of time. Wanted to live close with living to each other before marriage. plus I could help him get back on his feet financially?
I said No Way.
Luckily that relationship went to pass.
As for just recently finding old hotter women due to cosmetic advances.
My grandmother is 87 years old and never had surgery. She has alway been a beautiful woman and has always been told. She just simply took good care of her body. She did not treat it as a garbage can and feed it things that were bad for her.
I follow her example. Natural is better. I hope to grow up to be like her.
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| Why do younger men love older women, but rarely *date* them?
Posted: 6/7/2008 6:06:36 AM | I see some men it is the fact they want children. Women due have a little over 20 years span in which than can see children. Other the young and beautiful women for long term or marriage. So men will play around with the older woman but not date or keep her.
Ok men Please answer the question?
So many of you want the beautiful younger women. I assume in their 20's.
Now after you teach them everything you know ,both in the bed and out.
After they have your children. Then what becomes of your wife?
I married age 20 ,husband was 25. I gave birth to my twins.
I was not able to snap back like a rubber band and look like I was 20 again. He was already treating me like an old shoe. I was only 23 years old when they were born.
I do love men. I wish I had a good one in my life. I hope someone I recently met may be this person.
If you have to answer under a different thread, Well Please answer my question and send me the link. | |
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| Why do younger men love older women, but rarely *date* them?
Posted: 6/7/2008 2:37:14 PM | so guys, what gives? why will you f*ck and get all freaky with an older woman, but not consider her for a dating or long-term relationship? we get your rocks off, so why not take it to the next level?
I've considered being serious with an older women while dating. But it would have a lot to do with the women and how she perceives the guy. Most of the older women I've dated did not consider me to be an equal. A lot of younger guys become intimate with the older women and he may get emotionally involved in something he is not prepared to deal with. And she meanwhile is dating other men. Not all women in these kind of relationships but at least the ones I dealt with. Now don't get me wrong. The women I dated were upfront about the situation but I can say I don't think I was emotionally ready to date older women at the time I did which was in the early to mid twenties. | |
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| Why do younger men love older women, but rarely *date* them?
Posted: 6/9/2008 11:52:30 AM | I find it tends to be a problem more the other way round. Most men dont date older women because they aren't attracted to them. Those that are usually do as men tend to just go for whoever they like (well, unless the women is VERY old obviously!).
I find that most women though will only date men within several years of their age which is strange since alot of women in their twenties are attracted to men in their 30s sometimes extremely so, yet as soon as the guy says their age they go NO WAY even if the guy doesnt look, nor act, nor feel old (ie they could lie yet the girl would never find out!). Then number of times in my life ive heard a female say "I really like you (or him or whatever) but no i wont go out with him because he's say 10 years older then me: im 20, he's 30" or maybe its just me? | |
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| Why do younger men love older women, but rarely *date* them?
Posted: 6/11/2008 2:34:53 AM | Okay, here's my perspective, and as a Baby Boomer, I think I'm an older woman, too. When you say you're 34, I wouldn't call you an older woman. I've known men in their 20's to date women in their 30's. Its when you get to be 40 and over things get tricky.
I like the men who think of age as just a number, and think that's a refreshing mindset.
If some man in his twenties thinks you are too old, he's either too picky, immature or both. His loss, I think and say...Next fish just might be the right one for you...You never know.... | |
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| Why do younger men love older women, but rarely *date* them?
Posted: 6/11/2008 10:48:04 AM | well i think it all adds up to just a sex thing of course a "fantasy" just to say "HEY they did that" after hearing all the wild tales an stories it's just another notch in thier belt..something eles to talk about.. there not actually intrested in getting to know you or dating you they just wanna f uck for the "exsperience" it adds up to the same as alotta white guys messaging me talking about how they would love to be with a black woman an exsperience "it" because of what they've heard
rolls eyes" yada yada yada, this grows very annoying an tiresome real quick see they don't really want me they just want the exsperience an to for fill a fantasy for them..this of course pisses me off because some think that just becasue they wanna try "it" being with a black woman an want some p ussy they think i'm just gonna give it away to them cause they asked for it,, last i checked i wasnt no hooker an i anit serving nothing on the menu to these fools.. some fail to realize that i have feelings an emotions to an that i'm not here to just for fill a ridiculous fantasy for them,, maybe i just wanna talk an get to know them an just be friends,, but they anit tryna hear that..
some guys always talk about how much they love something, how they would love to do this or that,, but how can you love something you anit never had before. | |
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| Why do younger men love older women, but rarely *date* them?
Posted: 6/14/2008 4:04:03 PM | | TO Bubble Trouble: What a wonderful young man, who can take what others say and think and just go on with his life with her. I once met someone 33 years younger and we were together for 6 years, we loved each other but eventually the pressure from his friends and women who thought he was hot won over. I'm here to tell you that I would not change a thing...some people never have what we had for a short time, not in their whole lives. Thank god for him and what he gave. | |
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| Why do younger men love older women, but rarely *date* them?
Posted: 6/14/2008 5:13:24 PM | My Uncle was married 35 years to my Aunt. She was widow with two kids. It wasn't her money.( they made that later) It wasn't her face. It was her legs.
God, are we so shallow? He wasn't a male model , either. But her legs belonged on a magazine cover.
Will you still need me, will you still please me, when I'm 64. | |
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| Why do younger men love older women, but rarely *date* them?
Posted: 6/14/2008 5:48:31 PM | Saying they like older women is one thing,but if they don't date them, then obviously they don't mean what they say. Most of them don't. Frankly if an older women dates a much younger male, she better make sure she has alot of $$$ because that is one of the main reasons many young men date ladies 10 plus years older then them.
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| Why do younger men love older women, but rarely *date* them?
Posted: 6/14/2008 6:26:03 PM | ( Quote )..anyway i certainly WOULD date an older lady, pick her up, help her find the jar with her teeth in, be a gent and push her in her wheelchair to the car, fold up her wheel chair, speed down to the local bingo hall, have a few cracking games, speed her home , have a cup of horlicks, help her with her nightie, tuck her up in bed then bugger off to the hot 19 year old waiting for me in a night club .
only kidding....................................maybe
LOL...LOL...digitalwonder U R so funny.....Anyways I like dating younger men...was married to two guy 5 years younger...Too bad they were imature and abusive...Had to leave...I always get mail from younger guys some in their ranging from the early 20's to 30's and 40's...I have gone out with some of them...One or two had gotten to possessive so I ended it but I still like the younger guys. I don't think that makes me a cougar because if I met someone closer to my own age and there was chemistry..then fine....Keep fishin young trout are goood... | |
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| Why do younger men love older women, but rarely *date* them?
Posted: 6/14/2008 6:42:35 PM | I have dated the gauntlet. Men ranging in age from 22 to 50. I dated the younger guys because we both wanted the same things. No strings attached fun , (not necessarily sex) and less baggage, ( I had enough of my own) This was okay until I fell into a year long relationship with one of them and our goals just did not mesh. He had his whole life ahead of him and I didn't feel like doing it all over again. It was less to do with age and more to do with what we wanted in life. Still age does play a part in that. Our relationship was very conventional despite the age difference. I met his parents.(his dad was dating a woman his age and he was dating a woman his dads age!) His mother was thrilled that he was dating a "girl" that wasn't going to try to "trap" him and kept him in line. Maybe she saw me as a built in babysitter? lol He is currently dating a 39 year old.
I am currently in a relationship with someone 4 years younger than I am and it is nice to have more things in common. Perhaps I was just going through my mid life crisis with the younger guys? I don't know. I never prefered them, just had more in common relationship goal wise than with men my age.
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| Why do younger men love older women, but rarely *date* them?
Posted: 6/14/2008 11:54:55 PM | I've never posted in these forums before, though I'm lately finding myself getting addicted to reading them, but I just had to jump in with some input on this thread.
As one of those older women who received a considerable amount of mail from younger men until I changed my mail settings, I have to say it appears there are plenty who are willing and even eager to date us. I don't date younger men, and was surprised at all the messages I got from them, so I ended up changing the setting so I didn't waste their time or my own - I don't do the no response thing.
In any case, though I don't date them, I was really impressed with the younger men I heard from for their overwhelmingly polite, respectful messages - many of them even wrote back to me after I turned them down to thank me for responding and wished me luck. Although a few were just neutral, I don't recall a single one that was ever rude or offensive. I wish I could say the same for the older set. :-/
With a very few exceptions, older women/younger men relationships just don't last, and I'm looking for something long-term, but I have to say that several of the young guys I heard from made me wish (just for moment!) I was their age again. Kudos to them for having such class. | |
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