What i dont understand about people after reading some of the messages in this thread is why do people think that questions you wouldnt ask when you meet a new person in public is acceptable to ask on POF when you meet someone new? for example What is your favourite sexual position?????? would you ask that after 2 minutes talking to someone on the bus?????
well curiousaboutu77, if you really want to know: why dont you start your own thread asking just that question.
If you dont get many replies . . .then ist most likely because people dont share your curiosity about that particular subject.
If it gets deleted because of redundancy . . . its most likely because its redundant (been debated before in other threads).
That simple.