| | Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skepticalPage 2 of 6 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6) | Di, thanks
I do believe that out there somewhere that person exists. The thing that bothers me about having an overabundance of skepticism is will I recognize that person if we cross paths? I doubt I will. When the one person you felt you could trust with your life smashes it to bits, it’s hard to open your mind toward trusting anyone else. The path to my heart has always been through my mind. At this point, however, my mind has become a pit bull guard dog with allegiance to only one person. Everyone else is a potential threat. | |
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| Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical Posted: 5/12/2005 10:25:54 AM | well yammers i am not gonna believe tha you will miss the perfect person cuz of bein skeptical...God grant this gal a club and the wits to use it...cuz this feller truly deserves it an if his future happiness starts out with a headache...it shouldnt end with a heartache | |
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| Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical Posted: 5/12/2005 3:10:21 PM | | I'd like to think that I've become wiser from past relationships and heart breaks. Have you seen that movie "Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind"? Its one of my favorites, but in case you haven't seen it, its about this procedure you can get done, to erase certain memories, that you want to forget about. I've thought about, and IF it were possible, I don't think that I could erase much from my past, especially past relationships, no matter how much they hurt. I think that from experiencing everything you have in your life, you become who you are, now. You know what to look for in a person, and what to avoid. Just my two cents. Would any of you agree, or want to erase certain memories? Just curious. | |
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| Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical Posted: 5/12/2005 3:28:14 PM | | My past relationships have made me SOOO much wiser. I'm not the gullable romantic I once was... but in the process I have become much more cynical and wary of guys. But I think thats part of the learning process- if you left your heart open to everyone you meet you'd be doomed to forever have it squashed. | |
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| Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical Posted: 5/12/2005 3:33:39 PM | i thought i found a good person once she tore me apart when i got to know her well and up until recently still did even thou i dindnt see her for two years i gave everything now trusting in someone else its going to be hard very hard neaver want to be hurt like that again | |
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| Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical Posted: 5/12/2005 3:36:57 PM | | sean g. dont allow your past to affect your future..... it is hard to deal with someone breaking your heart... especialy when they were so close to you, that you probably didnt see it coming... but he(thats life) lets go forward.....yes | |
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| Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical Posted: 5/12/2005 3:38:18 PM | | Hehe... I love the Easter Bunny!!! But... I used to be an overwelming romantic- I honestly believed that when people fell in love everything just falls into place and is perfect. I've actually BEEN in love now though... and it was kinda disappointing. I still think that theres someone out there for me somewhere though. If not, someone's playing a cruel joke... | |
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| Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical Posted: 5/12/2005 3:46:50 PM | | There is someone out there for you, youll see. when your not expecting it ...love will clobber you...lol The world is based upon romantic thoughts-- santa claus, easter bunny, because if it wasnt the world would seem dull and boring... Love is very romantic-- Here is a romanticised thought for you...in school they tell you as a child-- YOU CAN DO ANYTHING, you can be president__ I call bull,,,, you would have a better chance at becoming a professional b-ball player-- and even that would give you the odds of 1 in 2 million... so we are raised with romantic thoughts... but there is some one for you... just dont fall into the trap of how romantic and special it is supposed to be-- that will make you unhappy... lol | |
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| Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical Posted: 5/12/2005 3:52:16 PM | | Haha...I'm a very compassionate person and I'm big on the 'you can do anything you wanna do' thing. I think that part of me is the part that lets me go back for more after I get my heart ripped out again... cuz I always have hope that everything will be ok next time. | |
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