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 B.S.N
Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 51
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I hope it will be ok for you... just dont fall in to the romantic crap set forth, because if you do-- you have preconcieved notions about how it is suposed to be, and what you think its supposed to be like... Well youll find out your idea of what it is supposed to be like is tottally different from his...this will cause problems... Just go into it with the thought of it being hard work,, and through your effort--it can be done... not through your its not supposed to be this way... ideals.......... well i got a POlitical science essay to finish,, so i must be going... good talking with you.. and if any of you want to talk more in depth about any of my views--- contact me i would love to hear from your peoples perspectives... Bye Lloyd
 çòúntrÿLÏn
Joined: 3/18/2005
Msg: 52
Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical
Posted: 5/12/2005 7:36:49 PM
MUCH wiser... stronger... I think everything happens for a reason.. whether it's bad or good... it has made me who I am today and I don't regret any of it....
 ladydi8
Joined: 1/31/2005
Msg: 53
Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical
Posted: 5/12/2005 7:44:04 PM
^^^made you a GREAT person lin...and i agree with ya on that one
 YamIhere
Joined: 3/17/2005
Msg: 54
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Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical
Posted: 5/12/2005 8:45:32 PM
SoulDragonN,
When you can't trust your own judgement, what/who can you trust?
 çòúntrÿLÏn
Joined: 3/18/2005
Msg: 55
Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical
Posted: 5/12/2005 8:57:37 PM
awww thanks Lady... back atcha hon !
 HB2
Joined: 5/11/2005
Msg: 56
Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical
Posted: 5/12/2005 8:59:18 PM
said wiser earlier....been thinking on it and have to say it's more a combination of the two
pouring a pound of salt in with everything said from now on
 bugsybears
Joined: 10/6/2004
Msg: 57
Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical
Posted: 5/13/2005 2:48:53 AM
i'd have to say both. it does make you wiser which makes you a little skeptical.
 Ticketoride
Joined: 6/3/2004
Msg: 58
Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical
Posted: 5/16/2005 5:50:38 AM
Cosmically speaking, all 'Santa Claus' & the 'Easter Bunny' did was made me less wiser and more skeptical.

However, I must admit, 'Bugs Bunny' and 'Elmer Fudd' snapped me out of it ... or ... maybe it was the old man kicking my ass off the Boob-Tube to get moving pulling them weeds, or there ain't gonna be nuthin' under that Tree come Yuletide.

But seriously, every new Relationship should be looked upon as a new Dawn, capitalizing on the gained knowledge of the past, leaving the paintbrush behind ...

SoulDragonN, When you can't trust your own judgement, what/who can you trust?

That ^^^ one just a little too easy.

Me of course !!!


 skye2010
Joined: 12/1/2004
Msg: 59
Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical
Posted: 5/16/2005 7:14:04 AM
doubting Tommy Girl here-
I know all the cliche's about "leaving the past behind"-"not blaming everyone for someone else's mistakes"-blah blah blah....but maybe the real issue is within myself. If that's the case, (well I follow "me" everywhere I go,) so maybe there's nothing that can be done. So I'll just take life the way I want to. Confident in some parts....Doubter in others!

a wise skeptic
knows a tank septic
from a tank aqua life
for life sweet or full of strife
every judgement be our own
except the words engraved in stone
by then we'll be laying in our casket
under flowers in a basket
live to learn,learn to love
when in doubt,ask a dove

good luck everyone-"peace"(muah)
 wisebutadventurous
Joined: 5/2/2005
Msg: 60
Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical
Posted: 5/16/2005 10:34:02 AM
Wiser, If I didn't learn from my mistakes I'd repeat them over and over. I try not to be skeptical or bitter....If I ever get to be...the ***holes I've dated would have won the game! Not gonna happen.
 Rainy_Day1975
Joined: 5/4/2005
Msg: 61
Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical
Posted: 5/16/2005 12:38:16 PM
Wiser. I've learned a lot about myself, my flaws and how that's related to the failure of the relationships I've been in.

And dammit...I have to start standin' up for myself.

oh wait...I don't want to be bitter angry woman. So I'll just be me...and not so much the doormat.
 Doc Sage
Joined: 4/18/2005
Msg: 62
Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical
Posted: 5/16/2005 12:48:48 PM
Wiser I hope.
 YamIhere
Joined: 3/17/2005
Msg: 63
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Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical
Posted: 5/16/2005 12:49:37 PM
My therapist told me I’m one of the most skeptical people she’s ever met ... Found that to be a bit interesting.
 Fire Goddess
Joined: 5/15/2005
Msg: 64
Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical
Posted: 5/16/2005 12:50:47 PM
Ugh, I became paranoid.
 kr8ztwin
Joined: 7/29/2004
Msg: 65
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Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical
Posted: 5/16/2005 12:53:07 PM
both bigtime
 HB2
Joined: 5/11/2005
Msg: 66
Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical
Posted: 5/16/2005 12:53:21 PM
I've learned to treat them the way they treat me
 biziedizie
Joined: 2/26/2005
Msg: 67
Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical
Posted: 5/16/2005 1:03:48 PM
In every relationship I treat it as a fresh one and I leave the negatives from the last ones in the past.
 My.02 Cents
Joined: 3/16/2005
Msg: 68
Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical
Posted: 5/16/2005 1:07:02 PM
@Yam...We've been here before bud,...The mistaken belief that your skepticism will somehow "protect" you from hurt...Hurt has a funny way of finding those hearts guarded so carefully though, huh?........Sometimes, it's just not being able to have what we want, or the effort of keeping it at bay...But sooner or later, you'll have to get out there and learn to trust yourself again....I KNOW it's hard, but, it's like trying to learn how to swim on the dock...You have to be IN it to learn...And you CAN find what you want, and deserve, cause you're such a good guy...Dee
 Jenn_1971
Joined: 3/3/2005
Msg: 69
Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical
Posted: 5/16/2005 2:18:01 PM
my past relationship made me wiser to learn to be more skeptical...
 Raven34
Joined: 3/8/2005
Msg: 70
Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical
Posted: 5/16/2005 2:24:51 PM
A little bit of both I would think....maybe not skeptical as much as cautious.
 Cess
Joined: 4/2/2005
Msg: 71
Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical
Posted: 5/16/2005 11:27:41 PM
I do not regret any of my past relations, they were all good, and I learned something important from all of those guys, they are still my friends, knew me just too well to let them go.
 justaguy13
Joined: 11/13/2004
Msg: 72
Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical
Posted: 5/16/2005 11:28:50 PM
Wiser..........duhhhhhhhh......
 longte
Joined: 10/18/2004
Msg: 73
Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical
Posted: 5/17/2005 12:26:11 AM
Definitely Wiser

Learned so much
Gained so much

Yes Have been hurt on occassion

But they all made ME

I am quite Happy with the ME they made

....
 MidnightChild
Joined: 6/16/2004
Msg: 74
Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical
Posted: 5/17/2005 12:30:39 AM
Definitely more skeptical AND wiser.
 RitzNB
Joined: 3/16/2005
Msg: 75
Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical
Posted: 7/31/2005 6:34:13 AM

On one hand wiser, on the other skeptical.

I think you better define what and who you want, but you become more skeptical that that person could actually exist!!!!!!!!!

@ supersomma
Well said. I totally agree.
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