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| Her sexual past.....ur business?
Posted: 10/5/2007 1:55:27 PM | | Not really, although as others have mentioned, the virulent diseases around these days like AIDS make it a more complex issue than it was when diseases were by and large more treatable (in most cases) and not life threatening (in most as well). Today this isn't exactly the case and hence it gets more complicated. I don't really dig for that sort of thing, but if it comes up in conversation I don't see how it's a particularly big issue beyond the health side of things. I understand why it concerns some but it doesn't with me. Whether a man or woman has had loads of experience or not, it's immaterial, whatever floats your boat in terms of how to live your life and whom your attracted too is your business (other than the aforementioned health angle, how to handle that delicately and with tact w/o being nosy is a difficult question). | |
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| Her sexual past.....ur business?
Posted: 10/5/2007 2:03:32 PM | Sorry, I don't want to date a man who has slept with most of my county. I am concerned about health issues so you better have your physician's report handy and up to date. I married a man who was overactive in college, screwing women several times a day. His best friend's wife didn't feel it necessary to say anything to me before we married but she sure didn't have a problem discussing it afterwards!
I like Gene Simmons' humor but I wouldn't touch that with a twenty foot pole! I wonder how his wife feels about his sexual proclivity.
I'm not looking for a virgin (aaaaacccckkkkkkk!), but don't want someone who just couldn't keep his damn pants on. A guy who gets sexual on the first date is kinda creepy to me too.
Maybe I'm a prude, but I know that I won't die or be seriously innjured due to my sexual behavior! Can those of you who fling caution to the wind say the same? | |
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| Her sexual past.....ur business?
Posted: 10/5/2007 2:06:18 PM | If you aren't ready for the truth.... dont ask!
same goes visa versa (women asking men)
However, If she brags about how many guys she slept with, then it becomes your business....and everyone elses too. Thats not cool at all. | |
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| Her sexual past.....ur business?
Posted: 10/5/2007 6:34:46 PM |
I wouldn't date a chick who was with over 10 guys. She's more likely to be unfaithful.
Is that backed up by any science at all? I very much doubt it.
Has to be the dumbest thing I've read in weeks. My sexual past is NO ONE's business... not counting my doctor. Period.
If she (or he) brags about her (or his) numerous conquests, run anyway.. not so much for fear of disease, but for fear of being exposed to the distinct odour of bull$hit. Plus the boring "Penthouse Forum" like atmosphere the braggart creates. | |
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| Her sexual past.....ur business?
Posted: 10/5/2007 7:22:10 PM | Friends...
I'm not sure what sometimes propels us to ask about our partner's sexual past, though I do know that it often leads to hurt feelings on one or both sides.
As has been mentioned previously, it's best to go with your partner for health tests and let the past be the past.
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| Her sexual past.....ur business?
Posted: 10/6/2007 1:59:35 AM | If you aren't ready for the truth.... dont ask! > So true!
I'd like to know, sure, but I don't think I have the "right."
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| Her sexual past.....ur business?
Posted: 11/1/2007 9:54:03 AM | Just reading some of the posts here. Some guys don't want a woman who has had 10 men, Or one that did the football team. (Slut)
So by those statemants. Then if you had 10 women, or did the cheerleader squad. (Stud).
I should not go out with you.
What is the difference between a Slut and Stud? 2 letters T and D | |
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| Her sexual past.....ur business?
Posted: 11/1/2007 10:11:54 AM | If her past involves STD's and shots... then yeah... i'd like to know before she does anything with me.
Other than that, i don't want to know about who she did with what and whom and where.. and she has no right to ask me either. | |
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| Her sexual past.....ur business?
Posted: 11/1/2007 10:13:28 AM | I mean you remember back in highschool there was that girl who slept with everyone.......would you want to be married to her lol?
In response to that comment... Would you really care? If the connection was there & she was a tigress in the sack & could keep you satisfied.. would it really matter?
If you're both tested & clean then it really doesn't matter what the number is. | |
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| Her sexual past.....ur business?
Posted: 11/1/2007 10:22:05 AM | Haven't had a chance to read through the whole thread, but HECK YES...both partners should feel comfortable knowing about ex's (especially those which were long-term relationships). I don't know about "every guy (or girl)", but you'd like to know what the person's past habits have been. More importantly, I also think that each partner should feel comfortable asking the other partner to get a blood test or whatever's needed to make sure they are both healthy.
Anyone who has a problem with that is not worth dating. Even the nicest looking people can pass on diseases or have deranged ex's, so be careful out there! | |
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| Her sexual past.....ur business?
Posted: 11/1/2007 10:40:57 AM | Well it really isn't your business, but then again you do need to know how they've lived their life before you. If it's close to how you've lived yours you could have a great relationship  | |
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| Her sexual past.....ur business?
Posted: 11/4/2007 9:18:57 AM |
Say your just starting out in a relationship...
Do you think you have the right to know your partners sexual history? Ie. a Brief description of every guy shes slept with? Same question for the females...gender reversed.
"Say you're just starting out hiring an employee....
Do you think you have the right to know your employee's work history? Ie. a Brief description of ..."
Any idiot who'd put more effort into his work relationships than his personal relationships deserves an excruciatingly life-crippling divorce. | |
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| Her sexual past.....ur business?
Posted: 11/4/2007 9:21:47 AM |
Say your just starting out in a relationship...
Do you think you have the right to know your partners sexual history? Ie. a Brief description of every guy shes slept with? Same question for the females...gender reversed.
If he wants to share, fine.
But if not, I don't care. | |
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| Her sexual past.....ur business?
Posted: 11/7/2007 6:28:18 AM |
I wouldn't date a chick who was with over 10 guys. She's more likely to be unfaithful.
You are absolutely right. The women who come out most aggressively to protect their sexual pasts, in a way already answer the question. There is a reason they are still single, asthey will always be except for short term hookups now and then. Your mother always warned you about such women. They are not relationship material. You wouldn't want these wh*res mothering your children. | |
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| Her sexual past.....ur business?
Posted: 11/7/2007 6:43:21 AM | | I sure as shit would like to know if she took part in some donkey shows in Mexico... as for the rest, who gives a toss, its her life and i only judge people on the now and not the past as we can all change, again this doesn't count if she has spent several years on the club circuit in Mexico... | |
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| Her sexual past.....ur business?
Posted: 11/7/2007 8:01:58 AM | | DAMN RIGHT, it's my business. If you've been a wh*re I would like to know, so I can tell you to F*** OFF. If you refuse to answer , I will ASSUME you have been one, and still tell you to F*** OFF. | |
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| Her sexual past.....ur business?
Posted: 11/7/2007 8:06:55 AM | I'd rather not know to be honest - if i was asked then i'd tell but i dont think sexual past has anything to do with new relationships - okay so they may have been with a few people in the past but does it make them any good? They could just lie there like a sack of potatoes not knowing what to do!
I'd rather take it as 'day one of the sexual side to the relationship' and start from scratch. Its easier that way - then you dont think ' oh i wonder if im as good as ...........' or ' i wonder how many people he/she's done that to' - it creates unnecessary tension in my opinion and new relationships can do without that!!! | |
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| Her sexual past.....ur business?
Posted: 11/7/2007 8:28:02 AM | "DAMN RIGHT, it's my business. If you've been a wh*re I would like to know, so I can tell you to F*** OFF. If you refuse to answer , I will ASSUME you have been one, and still tell you to F*** OFF."
wouldn't a "sorry love, but i'll pass" be better than a "F***off you WHORE" she still is a human being afterall
*update, i just read your profile and now understand your post.. lol good luck with the dating scene there Mr Haven't a snowballs chance in Hell... | |
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| Her sexual past.....ur business?
Posted: 11/7/2007 8:32:44 AM | | would never ask about sexual past that could ruin any kind of relationship you wanted plus its in the past why worry about it | |
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| Her sexual past.....ur business?
Posted: 11/7/2007 8:45:06 AM | DAMN RIGHT, it's my business. If you've been a wh*re I would like to know, so I can tell you to F*** OFF
oh boy...sounds like you really need to tell someone to F*** OFF!....i'm not sure i meet your 'wh*re' criteria but......what the hell...go ahead...take a load off..........i can take it...
no ones past is anyones business really....so unless they choose to share it, i'm going to trust in my romantic savvy and expect the same in return....:) | |
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| Her sexual past.....ur business?
Posted: 11/7/2007 8:57:12 AM |
good luck with the dating scene there Mr Haven't a snowballs chance in Hell...
Oh I have a chance alright. But on PoF it isn't. I only come here to watch the debauchery and depravity of society. | |
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| Her sexual past.....ur business?
Posted: 11/7/2007 10:45:37 AM |
If he wants to share, fine.
But if not, I don't care.
I'll bet any of your future suitors (who are not riddled with disease or chaos) would care that you have such a casual outlook on that. You wouldn't care about knowing whether the guy you're about to make love with just pulled his penis out of an AIDS patient?? Wow. | |
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| Her sexual past.....ur business?
Posted: 2/18/2008 3:34:15 PM | As we all probably know, anyone from any walk of life can have STDs, BUT !!!!!!!! Some people are a bigger risk because of the lifestyle they lead and who they have been with. I would like to know if the girls ex was a needle user. I would like to know what kind of people she has been involved with in the past.
Just my opinion !!  | |
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