| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 12/17/2008 7:31:39 AM |
OP have you really sat him down and asked what's going on? I think it's time for a little chat
The OP posted this thread......wait for it..........3 years ago............. | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 12/17/2008 12:07:57 PM |
love to please my man. I do it all. Front door. Back Alley. Oral. whenever. Wherever. I always make sure to please him. I just love to make him happy. I asked him once to go down on me, he said he wasn't comfortable with it and I felt really sad and said nothing. He simply doesn't feel comfortable going down on me. Funny, I do it for him all the friggin time. When he refused, my ego was severly bruised.
How come he doesn't want to ? What's the big deal ?
I find this man totally bizarre. Like, wtf????? How can anyone not like performing cunnilingus??? | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 12/17/2008 3:42:44 PM | | well in my opion nothing is better then going down on a woman whether u are married to her or just dating her m I my self love giving woman I am with pleasure m and i go down her to stay a while , for me I love the site of a womans vigina I love the smell and most of all love the taste, I just soon do that has to have intercourse, is my opion and experience others may not like it | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 12/17/2008 3:47:57 PM | | isnt that what its all about, the other person being turned on too and into it? I find it so weird when guys dont just love it and want to do it for a girl. | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 12/17/2008 4:07:21 PM | | It's sad really, when they wont do it. My last partner was like that as well. It's a huge part of sex for me, and a huge personality turn off if they wont do it. | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 12/17/2008 4:08:49 PM | I dated a guy for almost 5 months that only went down on me twice, but I would always go down on him. Go figure. | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 12/21/2008 8:29:53 AM | | lol it is so true C'mon dude why dont the brothers do this do you know what your missin out on? lol so many of my friends who are black wont even think about it although there are a few who love it as much as us whiteboys. lol I really want to hear why? lol | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 12/21/2008 1:39:53 PM | | You could have a odor down there. Keep it very clean down there. Try having go down on you after you two take a shower. | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 12/21/2008 1:55:05 PM |
How come he doesn't want to ?
um ....how would we know? You're sexin out with him not us....I don't understand how a person can do all kinds of wild sexual stuff with a person yet not feel comfortable talking to that person about sex.. makes no sense..
we can only guess as to why he wont go south:
* you're not fresh in your lap
* cultural -he thinks its not manly to do that
* he is just a selfish pr*ck
* he had a bad experience which ruined him forever
* he is gay and has a limit as to what he will do to "pass"
If all else fails and he won't explain why... I suggest this:
Wait until his next press conference... stand up and lobb both shoes at him and scream
"you selfish dog!!..."why the f*ck won't you lick me there!!"
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 12/21/2008 3:13:44 PM | | i wouldn't go down on a woman unless she was shaved completely or at most had a little bit of hair on the top. | |
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Posted: 12/21/2008 6:45:42 PM | | I recently read something which stated that only 17% of women go for this. I wonder how accurate that really is? Personally, I like giving it and never saw any woman that did not absolutely love it... | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 12/21/2008 11:20:14 PM | My first girlfriend had such a powerful scent that is was overwhelming. It didn't smell "bad" but it made my eyes water it was so strong. I just couldn't do it, as hard as I tried. With every girlfriend after that I tried as well, some of them I had no problem with and some of them I just wasn't compatible with the scent and I couldn't do it. I think it really comes down to body chemistry. I have had ex's that say they love the way I smell, they will wear my clothes to bed just so that they can be close to it even when I think I have no smell at all. Women are highly sensitive to sounds and smells. For some men, the only time that body chemistry comes into play is when he is going down on a woman. What some people might think smells/taste amazing can be really gross for other people.
My current girlfriend has almost no scent there (or at least it seems like it to me) at all, and I can spend hours down there and enjoy every minute of it. I just consider us very compatible mentally and physically.
Also a big turn off for me is having hair down there, but some men find that area waxed/shaved gross. It's all up to the person you are with. | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 12/22/2008 1:10:04 AM | If we really love and want someone, then a little hair is not an issue.
Love and desire from both - hey, the hair is negotiable. Whatever...
I personally am not big on beards. I like guys who are basically shaven or trimmed.
No biggy...
On the other hand, if the guy has the beard and all the rest, I can overlook the beard until later, lol.
It's sad though, that we have to look at pics and profiles because - in real life we might actually like each other. Blah, blah, blah... :P | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 12/22/2008 1:17:39 AM | o noooo......
he's not for you.
or anybody, for that matter.
i'd always seen the mouth as as a scoping party....to venture
into unchartered territory, before the erection follows...
never had a guy say that to me,
that would've put an end to all the fun.  | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 12/22/2008 1:18:25 AM | It really depends. I will NOT go down on a chick unless im in a relationship. Ive fingered a gal and smelled somethin bad and lost my hard on that minute. I know its not your fault blah blah, it doesnt matter. I use baby powder on my shit every day and smell atleast decent. If your "clean" ill spend the day down there..
As far as the hair thing goes, a little bit is ok. I prefer waxed personally. I hooked up with a great looking 18 year old i met who was doing some shit for roxy on the pier. I dont think she knew what a razor was, it was the worst thing...such a shame | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 12/22/2008 1:30:46 AM | I would never have sex with a girl i couldn't go down on for whatever reason (hygene, her preferences, etc) . And i would never go down on a girl who wouldn't go down on me.
50/50 or nothing. | |
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Posted: 12/25/2008 9:10:30 AM | | There is a macho thing some men have... I heard it common is black men or other cultures that see it less macho to satisfy a woman orally than with his penis... Others see the vagina as less than clean espeically after the cum in it, there is an adversion to tasing own cum. Cops won't french kiss hookers becuase they don't want to suck****by proxy... Others thinks there is something "fishy" there and it would be unmaly like eating kiesh or sushi... and there are women who smell less than fresh... due to infections of too much douching... But it sounds like this problem is on going and it sounds like he is more insterest in you proving him with services... I say cut the services and see what happens... If he is really into you his point of view may change... | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 12/25/2008 10:40:11 AM | [How come he doesn't want to ? What's the big deal ?]
Here's something not all women know, you don't ALL smell that good. Although most of you are just 
some of you, i mean even dogs won't sniff your crotch. If you sat in a sand box, the neighborhood cats would all come out to bury you. You'd make Right Guard go left, Speed Stick slow down, and Ban come off strike. LOL
Ask your guynecologist. Out of all my girl friends i had ONE like that, when she opened her legs i got sea sick, she didn't last long. Other then her though... YUM, YUM!!
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 12/25/2008 11:09:22 PM | Is that IT? He just said he wasn't "comfortable" doing that? Didn't you ask him to 'splain WTF he meant? I mean there are issues that could have been dealt with right away. Are you clean? Would be #1 likely. Is the fact that he isn't comfortable doing that based on nobody ever teaching what to do / how / where? There is the possibility of an emotional issue here too.
Personally I feel oral is THE most intimate sexual thing you can do with a lover. He may be into bangin you but if he isn't "in love" with you he may be like me. If he isn't THAT into you it just isn't going to happen. Under those circumstances you have to decide if you want to stick around or if the relationship is stuck there with little chance of improving.
It may be that he isn't comfortable doing it because he doesn't know how or that he feels the vagina is "dirty". If this is the case first off TALK TO HIM. Tell him you'll teach him exactly what you need / like. Take a shower together. Afterwards slobber some chocolate syrup in those spots he should concentrate on. If he gets into it he'll soon find the syrup is not needed ad by then he'll know what you like.
Good luck. | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 12/25/2008 11:21:38 PM | I'd feel guilty for ten years if a woman blew me and I never had the chance to return the favors. I don't what it is about me. I bat like .333 on it. I'll always do it if it seems right at the time, certainly not a chore, but just medium inspired. The there are those times where that .333 average kicks in, and my woman could be wheeled into the bedroom on a gurney sized dessert tray, her puss and butt covered in whipped cream, cherries, chocolate covered nuts, and a lit candle sticking out of her arse.
MINE! | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 12/26/2008 4:48:17 AM | Then you don't please him anymore. Simple as that.
Who is he to expect all of that without doing anything himself? | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 12/26/2008 5:05:51 AM |
I asked him once to go down on me, he said he wasn't comfortable with it and I felt really sad and said nothing. He simply doesn't feel comfortable going down on me. Funny, I do it for him all the friggin time. When he refused, my ego was severly bruised.
What's the big deal ?
There's no other way to put this but..
*ahem*
do you shower regulary? | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 12/26/2008 5:59:34 AM | Sometimes it take a good relation ship it take time go down on a woman. Most of the time I’m more than willing in a heartbeat to go down .I like to make sure she has a good time as well as me. I do enjoy her returning the return the favor.  | |
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