| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 6/1/2009 8:19:16 PM | | get a new guy, he is sexually inexperienced and has hang-ups, its part of a passionate positive sex life. | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 6/1/2009 9:29:40 PM |
Why is the woman's answer to no oral sex to dump the guy?
Because when the role is reversed, that's what guys would do. If a gal isn't going to do down on them...most will dump her. | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 6/1/2009 10:25:46 PM | | I ask in advance and if I know he doesn't like or do oral...then I don't waste my time with him... | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 6/2/2009 6:15:13 AM | Here is a tip...Ask your man what his favorite flavor of jolly rancher is. before you know your gonna have intercorse. go to the bathroom and rub the jolly rancher around your clit and put it in you just a little for a min. or two till it desloves a little. then you will smell like candy and taste great. He will love it. And will be more willing to give you some head. Make sure you clean up well after though. you dont want to get an infection :)
also maby he just lacks confidnece in giving oral.
ask him about it.
give him a little direction when your down there. after all who knows your p.u.s.s.y better than you.
With a little encoragement he might love eating you. :) | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 6/2/2009 6:49:33 AM | I think this is funny.
The majority of girls I've dated are not comfortable or don't care about getting oral at all.
Everyone is different. Just like some guys don't really care about receiving, some women don't either.
I've met a lot of women over the course of my life who derive pleasure from giving pleasure.
Everyone is different. Especially in the sexual arena, people need to stop being so judgmental.
I feel sorry for people who think sex has to be fair. Sex is about what is hot and what people like. Forcing fairness into that equation is lame and freaking boring. | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 6/2/2009 8:56:14 AM | I dated a woman once and she had never been gone down on before and she was 43 years old.I introduced her to it and she loved every minute of it.In fact we had a 3 hour session one time that was just oral only.  | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 6/2/2009 5:49:14 PM | I find it humorous that men will order from a fast food "drive-thru" joint in the worst part of town, swap paper money that has been "everywhere" and then sit down and eat that hamburger, veggieburger, fries or whatever with the same fingers that just handled the money... and never give it a second thought. Many will then lick those same fingers if they cant find their napkin.
Every person, yes even you men, has their own scent and taste. Life is too short not to enjoy all the pleasures that lovemaking has to offer to BOTH partners. If oral pleasure is not shared by both lovers, then someone is getting the "better end of the stick" . If your lover suggests that she enjoys oral sex, and if you really care about growing and maintaining your relationship, give it to her.... please! If it's a one night stand, then who cares?!
Unless there is a reason for an abnormal scent or taste then focus on the pleasure you will both receive, instead of the normal body scent of the individual. It appears to me from what Ive read here, that there are many men who are less experienced with the art of lovemaking than they care to admit. Get over it! Shaven, waxed or whatever, our bodies were meant to be enjoyed and adored and explored. You want a long and loving relationship? then dont ever forget "that" . Enjoy!! | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 6/2/2009 6:00:49 PM | i love to go down on a women it turns me on as much as it dose them when im liking ther clit | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 6/12/2009 11:35:07 PM | | You Go Girl...LOL....You just told it like it is and if a man has a problem with that then he's not worth having. LOL Kudos | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 6/13/2009 12:01:45 AM | I get really bored with a tongue after about 5 minutes. As pleasurable as it is, it starts to feel like I might as well be with a woman. I'm with a man, and I want to feel and see a man....I want what I can't do myself or get from a woman.....aggressive penetration! If he can add finger stimulation at the same time, I'm in heaven.....
I do admit that for those men who really get off on giving oral, I put up with it! | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 6/13/2009 4:59:12 AM | I hope women reading this do not put a candy inside thier vagina to enhance odor as posted above. Sugar going inside (even for a second, as the sugar stays after you take out the candy) can break out an infection overnight. Yeast thrives on sugar. Bad, bad combo. You will smell great for that night, and wake up thinking you have a dead fish in bed with you. It will stink and possibly create a yeast infection.
There are vagina friendly lotions for this purpose. Use them if you want to change up your scent.
Some men dont like to do this, and some women dont like to either. You are not compatible, and adding a scent to yourself wont make someone enthusiatic if they just do not enjoy doing it. Better to find a person who is compatible. | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 6/13/2009 7:03:19 AM | Why are you doing it all for him, if he's disinterested in your pleasure?
If you care about him enough not to resent him for this, stay.... Otherwise, sit him down, and have this conversation with him instead of us.
Good luck, M | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 6/13/2009 7:14:15 AM | | It's being selfish. Women should be appreciated as much as men are, right? Plus, the taste of a clean vagina cannot be matched. | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 6/13/2009 7:20:55 AM | | I had to teach my now ex husband..yes he learned how very well. Some men just don't like doing it, just as some women don't like giving oral to a man(I personally don't understand either one). | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 6/13/2009 7:31:51 AM |
I think this is funny.
The majority of girls I've dated are not comfortable or don't care about getting oral at all.
Everyone is different. Just like some guys don't really care about receiving, some women don't either.
I've met a lot of women over the course of my life who derive pleasure from giving pleasure.
Everyone is different. Especially in the sexual arena, people need to stop being so judgmental.
I feel sorry for people who think sex has to be fair. Sex is about what is hot and what people like. Forcing fairness into that equation is lame and freaking boring.
Wait, weren't you the boy who was ranting about ethics, and morals? and how people who have sex are bad people? now you are here giving sexual advice? So, is it ok for Christians to fornicate? I am confused. | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 6/22/2009 8:25:36 PM | this girl is RIGHT ON THE FU*KIN MONEY!!!!!!!!!!!!
The jolly rancher idea is sooooo awesome! I sometimes have a hangup about the taste, this would be a perfect soloution!
I also lack confidence, in my oral skills..... some girls are soooo easy to get 'down there' and some are like the most mixed up rubix cube! If i think i got skillz from all my experience, you can bet that the next **** i eat wont respond to my 'mastered' techniques....
I ALWAYS tell a girl what i want when shes got me in her mouth, weather its her first time down on me, or the hundredth! She never has to guess, my words, or my moans leave no confusion as to what is good, and what is... 'meh'.
Girls need to take a page out of this book! nothing is hotter than a chick who is un-afraid to direct the show!!!!!!!! just moan a little, or alot. or say 'yeah baby, little circles, ooooooh, just like that"!
oh, and girls.... cleanliness is next to godliness! your 'cookie' is a mucous-membrane, and like it or not, bacteria flourishes in warm wet environments, a little wipe or wash before the deed is a courtesy. I would never put myself in your mouth if i was unsure about my cleanliness! give me the same courtesy.....
oh, and get excited! us men are alot like puppy-dogs, pat us on the head, and give us a treat when we do a good job, we will be excited to do it if we are rewarded!!!! | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 6/22/2009 8:28:47 PM | | any ladies in Calgary, can message me any-time! i would love to see how you respond to my mouth. | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 6/22/2009 8:31:03 PM | Hey umm Dawg...
Me thinks your mouth just ensured little to no response.
The Real Jolly Rancher | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 6/22/2009 10:42:26 PM | | """Here is a tip...Ask your man what his favorite flavor of jolly rancher is. before you know your gonna have intercorse. go to the bathroom and rub the jolly rancher around your clit and put it in you just a little for a min. or two till it desloves a little. then you will smell like candy and taste great. He will love it. And will be more willing to give you some head. Make sure you clean up well after though. you dont want to get an infection :) """ As far as I am concerned this is the worst advice ever... Unless you are the type to have sugar and flavors on your sensitive openings and not develop a massive and painful yeast infection. This would not be recommended by anyone whith a degree relating to any basic gynecology. But your mileage may vary obviously. M | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 6/23/2009 12:27:26 AM | | It's very simply, don't do it to him and see how he likes missing out on it. Like they say, its all give and take and that goes for every aspect of a relationship including that. | |
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