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 cabrandon

Joined: 3/21/2009
Msg: 276
When he won't go down on you
Posted: 6/23/2009 1:05:17 AM
Well, I'm sure OP has dumped him already since the OP's question was posted in 2005 !!!

For any women in the same dilema, however, here is a possible reason why a man would not go down: THAT area is hard to keep clean, so it often creates odors. That's why I went down on my ex, only right after she took a shower. So, next time, let him know that you just took a shower. He might be more willing. Good luck and happy sex.
Get as much as possible, since i'm not getting any now.
 medchick911

Joined: 10/19/2006
Msg: 277
When he won't go down on you
Posted: 6/23/2009 11:26:51 AM
Urgh- I had this issue my past relationship. He had done it once at the beginning , I guess to get me into the mood so I would be more likely to agree to have sex. (who wouldn't after that?!" After that, never again. he would say it was too messy. Now that I've found someone that is more than happy to do it, he asks me as if if makes his day, makes me
 ForRumOnly

Joined: 3/16/2009
Msg: 278
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When he won't go down on you
Posted: 6/23/2009 12:17:23 PM
I love turning my partner on this way!

However, I do appreciate when it's been washed and waxed before taking it for a spin.
 ijustneedone

Joined: 6/18/2009
Msg: 279
When he won't go down on you
Posted: 6/23/2009 4:43:05 PM
"he would say it was too messy"

Now, that's just dumb. being a southern boy [I guess], oral sex & in this case, obviously it's for poon, should be treated like BBQ. I don't mean to oversimplify or aggravate some women, but it's SUPPOSED to be messy. So long as a woman is clean, I'll quote Sam Jackson in True Romance all day long: "...man I eat everything, I eat the p u s s y, I eat the butt--I eat EVERYTHANG!"

I cannot imagine a man NOT wanting to do this, although I've spent time with a woman who absolutely hated it, herself, was convinced she was gross "down there", ugly "down there" & try though I did, I could NOT get her to allow me to make out with her vagina, not for one minute, not for a whole hour fulla minutes.

I took it as rejection, though that was not rational on my part. Believe you me, Lauren [if you're still watching this thread], we're out here & we outnumber weasely fellows like the one you described. Do yourself a favor, if ye haven't already, um, go fishin'.
 eastendwoman

Joined: 7/15/2006
Msg: 280
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When he won't go down on you
Posted: 6/23/2009 5:24:05 PM
Because he's the selfish type and just wants you to go down on him.
 Blondeambition

Joined: 4/23/2005
Msg: 281
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When he won't go down on you
Posted: 6/23/2009 5:25:15 PM
i agree eastendwoman....
 bigjoe26

Joined: 6/16/2009
Msg: 282
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When he won't go down on you
Posted: 6/23/2009 5:31:14 PM
Maybe he thinks you smell. I love to go down a girl, its my favorite thing. But its also a way of me knowing if I want to sleep with the girl. If it doesnt smell good, im not getting in there. I do the pretend to be teasing her kiss her thigh and and avoid the area and play if off like im not ready to have sex with her. THen never talk to her again. Girls need to keep that area clean just like men do. If a woman smells it is usually caused by FUNGUS, "yeast infections" and I dont want to be around that. NOW on the other hand if everything smells like its working down there then im all about it, ill spend 20 min going to town on her. I LOVE ORAL, not a big fan of getting oral but deff love giving it.
 whothehellknows

Joined: 7/23/2006
Msg: 283
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When he won't go down on you
Posted: 9/19/2009 7:30:05 AM
Well if there is nothing wrong with you (hygiene or odor), I would look for a new guy. Well first I would ask him "why not?" Unless he has a very good reason, start looking elsewhere if it is that big of a deal. I don't really care to receive, so if my partner did not orally service me I could not care less. But to each their own. :)
 SmellOfPoop

Joined: 6/8/2007
Msg: 284
When he won't go down on you
Posted: 9/19/2009 8:14:04 AM
As someone else pointed out, this thread is old, but I'll say it - get rid of him (you probably already did). He'll probably never be into it and your "love" for it won't make it ok...
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