| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/4/2005 7:57:11 PM | | Maybe he's scared...or had a bad experience...I honestly don't understand any reason cause I love goin' down on a girl...and I've always loved it. But I hope you all work it out, cause you need yer fun too! | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/4/2005 9:05:23 PM | | That i dont understand ,sometimes im content with just getting my partner off,i found that its the best way to get the juices flowin and i live by the old saying ,u got to lick it before u stick it....lol.....ask to 69 see what happens.... | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/4/2005 9:28:04 PM | | Lauren he may be picky like me about doing that. A girl can be hot as hell, till u get down to it, and u take a glance at her P***Y and it looks like hamburger meat, hell naw i'm not eating. But if its like tight and clean and there are no loose lips, i'm eating it up like yesterdays left over's. Just a thought! <----shruggs | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/4/2005 9:34:59 PM | maby it was just a bad experience
i had a doozie
this woman was literaly sitting on my face and i realy couldnt cummunicate with her. well i couldnt breath and finally passed out. turns out she didnt notice for a little while. woke up like an hour later. had a terrible headache and my lips where still blue.
it was quite a while before i went down on a woman again but i just have to say i love it. | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/4/2005 9:39:09 PM | best said by bankie from "chasing amy"
" i wont do it cause im terrible, and my mom said if you cant do something well dont do it. women are so contientious about the smell, taste or whatever they rarely help.i mean if a woman told me what to do and maby give me a few pointers i would happily munch the muff."
maby he is just into that kind of mindset. | |
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klasno
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Joined: 3/23/2005
Msg: 32 | |
| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/4/2005 9:47:25 PM | | kill game.i will maybe.thats it thats all.thats this guys favorite thing,taste them,oo dont forget wet face. | |
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klasno
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Joined: 3/23/2005
Msg: 33 | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/5/2005 12:28:01 AM | That is why I have the rule..
I only give as much as I get...
I personally don't like giving it...
I'll do it for him if he does it for me...
but that is the extent of it for me.
Not my favorite flavour..
Well good luck with your oral activity.. or lack there of... | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/5/2005 12:34:09 AM | As a guy who loves to go down on woman all the time, it is hard for me to understand why he wouldn't take 15 mins of hes time to please you. But, thinking back to my younger years when i was much less experienced in performing the act as it should, I was skeptical to attempt it on my gf at the time. She though stopped going down on me till I started to please her regularly. You gotta love a dominate woman...lol...Now I have learned that when you please a woman however she likes, the investment is for worth the return. | |
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mapw69
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Joined: 4/25/2005
Msg: 37 | |
| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/5/2005 5:18:22 AM | Mostly a one way street, ex would have me go down on her all the time but nothing else, which was also fine by me. Being a big giver I can be a bit uncomfortable when the role is reversed.
Turns out to b a bit of a power trip for both, for her getting a good licking, for me swimming down there until I make her cum at least once. We both share the power ever if both don't realise it. | |
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mapw69
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Joined: 4/25/2005
Msg: 38 | |
| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/5/2005 5:20:56 AM | | Im case you are wondering ladies, most of you all taste different, it has been suggested that taste can be linked to diet. Great to work down the menue though. | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/5/2005 5:35:02 AM | There could be many reasons why he won't go down on you. For a starter, many girls don't like giving their man oral and many men feel the same way towards their lady counterparts. It could also be his upbringing (home or religion) where the man gets to be pleased and women are there to please him, nothing else. It could be that he's never done it before and is afraid that he will not be up to par and that you may embarrass him for being a total rookie at it. He may have had bad experiences before where he sucked and was told so making him very insecure in that department. He could just be selfish too.....The list could probably go on and on. I suggest that you bring the subject up with him around dinner or while watching tv.....not when you are going at it in the bedroom though and see what he has to say. If it's shyness or insecurity, reassure him and tell him that you will guide him throughout the oral session and that in no time he will master his technique and will please you immensily. If it's because of sellfishness, stop giving him oral until he does it to you and does it good... otherwise move on to another man. I'm sure you won't have any problems finding a willing partner out there....
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/5/2005 5:35:11 AM | The only thing I can think of besides razor stubble or a general condition of stankiness that would put me off downtown would be having my face ground beyond the elastic limit of my skin. For oral sex it's great to be together on it and have responsive gyrations, soft or strong, but I think a woman might just take off on her own and use your head like it was the corner of the mattress. This not only hurts, it immediately ejects you from the driver's seat and shuts down you desire. But in this case he's a relatively inexperienced lover, so the problem is probably that he has an aversion to the idea of it, and maybe also he is confident that he will fail to do it right.
It is beyond my ability to imagine being faced with that particular opportunity and not being drawn forward by a force more powerful than gravity. So I can't relate at all on a personal level. All I know is if he won't even try it, then an idea is lodged in his brain that must be moved out of the way. Maybe asking him to give it a try, with no committment that he ever has to do it again, if he doesn't like it. Have him go for, say, an hour. That should be enough to either make him fall in love or turn gay, depending on his reasons. | |
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Missy
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Joined: 1/29/2005
Msg: 42 | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/5/2005 8:25:07 AM | | I think I'll give him lessons. He has never done it before and has said he feels he might be inadequate. He is curious and willing, though. Remember that before he met me, all he knew of sex was hearsay, magazines and videos ? Yeah. I have a fulltime job as gf/sex instructor....LOL. | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/5/2005 8:25:15 AM | | I think I'll give him lessons. He has never done it before and has said he feels he might be inadequate. He is curious and willing, though. Remember that before he met me, all he knew of sex was hearsay, magazines and videos ? Yeah. I have a fulltime job as gf/sex instructor....LOL. | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/5/2005 8:28:09 AM | | Let me tell you something any man that will not go down is selfish. But I have never had a problem with men doing that, THEY LOVE IT IN FACT. I do shave completely. But in your case I would say he is selfish so say good bye because if you have to force him, it will not be good. I had one guy who would do it before sex but not after. So if he has inhibitions sexually you DO NOT NEED HIM. Trust me you are very attractive and seem open sexually. If he was mine he would never get a blow job. I had someone who would come over late, do that and leave because he loved the way I tasted.... so honey go somewhere else. You are giving so much of yourself you deserve so much more. | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/5/2005 8:29:56 AM | | Heeeeeeey lessons or instruction you could give him!!! What a novel approach for the bedroom | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/5/2005 8:30:05 AM | | Yeah, licking magazines just isn't the same. Ink stinks and in the old days the staples cut your tongue if you weren't careful Thank god for real women. Even the monitor tastes like dust. I need a girlfriend. | |
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