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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/5/2005 8:52:27 AM | Did he ever do it?
Because subtle changes in a woman's body chemistry can certainly make it alot less desirable. Yes, I undertstand that the male reciprocation is far more "fluid intense" but if it stinks do you eat it?
I'm not trying t be a****or make you self conscious, but maybe there are some issues that he isn't interested in discussing. You're the lady with the virgin or ex-virgin BF right? | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/5/2005 9:01:23 AM | My point is that he's might not feel comfortable with some of your personal issues.
Issues isn't the word, I don't want to call you names or attack you. He may be afraid to tell you about odor, etc.
This is just a hunch based on experience: For instance. when my ex went off the birth control, her chemistry changed and she smelled a bit. I'm not talking, need a stick-up here, but enough to make me conscious of it.
I'm gonna go out on a limb here and say that he's not gonna rock the boat with a girl who lets him run wild over her body. | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/5/2005 9:02:19 AM | lauren sounds to me like you have spoilt your man and now he needs to spoil you!!! x x
why not try some blackmail? none for him none for you???
or is it genuinley scared of doing it? either way he shouldn't be getting all of the fun!!!
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klasno
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Joined: 3/23/2005
Msg: 57 | |
| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/5/2005 9:40:21 AM | | im just thinking(didnt get dizzy)no disrespect but ahh..........look at you.is he an idiot?he cant be or you wouldnt go out with him.it used to be with me...if it aint fried i aint eating it.but now,but now.........if i could only do one thing with a female.that would be it...so im pretty sure that once he gets a taste of it.i mean...once he does it hes going to love it..but its getting over that hump..i mean you guys pee out of that.....man up bro.. | |
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xander
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Joined: 2/22/2005
Msg: 59 | |
| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/5/2005 10:10:26 AM | If this is the same boyfriend who wanted to try "alternative" things a few months ago, then I suspect he has a very submissive side.
Set the mood one night by starting things in a dominant manner.
Tell him. Order him. Grab him by the hair and pull his face into position.
Make it clear to him that if he wants anything else sliding between those silky folds that he had better start with his tongue. Give him a few clear directions if he's lacking the initiative.
After a while, flip him over and sit on his face. Do whatever you want until you're satisfied that he's getting the idea.
Take charge. | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/5/2005 2:29:32 PM | Well the way I see it is............If he wont do it for you.........there are alot that would....I say push that sucker aside and give me your phone number | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/5/2005 2:34:46 PM | | no. my man is pretty freaky so i don't have to worry. but at the same time, there are people like that that are pretty black and white. y'll have sex but they won't do forplay. I admit that i used to be like that but my bf likes that stuff so i do it. the things u do for love, huh? But at the same time, how do u know u like something if you don't try? And even more, you must not really love someone if u won't "go the distance for them." So i hope that helps. | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/5/2005 2:34:50 PM | | Force him dammit!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/5/2005 2:41:18 PM |
Posted By: supersomma on 5/5/2005 12:01:23 PM
Subject: When he won't go down on you
Message: My point is that he's might not feel comfortable with some of your personal issues.
Issues isn't the word, I don't want to call you names or attack you. He may be afraid to tell you about odor, etc.
Agreed. Your man might just be spooked when you say it around him.
just be front with him, and ask. Gently.  | |
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foggyb
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Joined: 4/13/2005
Msg: 73 | |
| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/5/2005 2:44:39 PM | It seems the word of the day is "communication". Talk to him about it and let him know exactly how you feel. I'd be by the end of the conversation he's ready and willing to try  | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/5/2005 2:50:06 PM | I just...do...not get...the concept.
Unless there is an issue with hygiene, wild horses could not drag me away !!!
I'm looking for ways to emphasize this, but words fail me. Seriously. How...what... ? Ach forget it. | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/5/2005 4:06:25 PM | | I always go down on my women. I like that I can give them multiple orgasms. i don't come up for air until she yells uncle, ussually 3-6 orgasms. then I get my turn, by that time of course she is soaking wet and she is aching for me to penetrate her. Sometimes I just roll over and ask for a return favor bj. I once did a girl for the first time and she cranked out 7 amzing orgasms. I said how about a return favor, and she said that she could not do that. I had her get dressed and took her home and never called her again. | |
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