| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/5/2005 6:11:27 PM | For me, it depends on how recently it was used, and by who, as well as how hygenic it appears. If I just left something behind in it last nite . . . I don't think I'd be up for it first thing in the morning. Yet I'm so appreciative when she does just that for me.
And by the way, what are all these ppl w/mates doing at a singles site!?! If yr getting it so good that you are mad about not getting eaten . . . . and yr here, maybe he's wondering where it's been too. | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/5/2005 6:19:55 PM | | I've never been gone down on and the ironic thing is that the majority of the guys I have dated or gone out with have said that they "absolutely love going down and couldn't be happier to do it" I don't know, maybe that's a line to get the girls? oooh well. I'm not trying to complain by any means, it's just weird. I'm a virgin so I know I am not dirty... whats with men nowadays? | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/5/2005 9:15:17 PM | what do you mean by that?
It should be more along the line of What's with girls not wanting to go down?
answer:
acquired tase. some have it some dont.
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myxtup
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Joined: 3/29/2003
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/5/2005 9:18:03 PM | Lauren - I have a friend who says he would never and same, he expects it and complains that his wife won't do it.. I keep on telling him that it's awesome..
Just another way to please yer lover.. | |
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myxtup
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Joined: 3/29/2003
Msg: 81 | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/5/2005 10:01:53 PM |
I love to please my man. I do it all. Front door. Back Alley. Oral. whenever. Wherever. I always make sure to please him. I just love to make him happy. I asked him once to go down on me, he said he wasn't comfortable with it and I felt really sad and said nothing. He simply doesn't feel comfortable going down on me. Funny, I do it for him all the friggin time. When he refused, my ego was severly bruised.
How come he doesn't want to ? What's the big deal ? Any other chicks in here meet with this kind of an attitude ?
You're making it sound like he owes you. Everyone has their personal tastes and preferences and if he were to do it just because he *should* it would be for the wrong reason and neither of you would enjoy it. I think you need to respect the fact that he likes what he likes and doesn't have a duty to like what you like. | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/6/2005 1:09:10 AM | | dunno bout you, but my ex had a yeast infection, which is why i couldn't go downtown. she smelled so rancid down there, even when my head was at level with hers! totally turned me off during sex, i couldn't even get hard. needless to say, i never went down there and we broke up shortly thereafter (not over that though). | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/6/2005 3:05:38 AM | LOL, youth....I like that one.
1) REALLY bad experience of whatever down there in the past.
2) Smells
3) You let him spunk in you and he finds that gross to be around
4) He finds that area generally gross
5) He has no clue what he is doing and because you do so much for him, it freaks him out and he does not want to screw up.
6) Smells (even I got over a bad experience)
8) You speak too highly of it and it freaks him out
9) Ask him? Easiers to open your mouth and stop embarassing situations then to try to wait for him to open his.
Get over one sexual obstacle and you will almost never have another one with that person. You got the comfort zone. | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/6/2005 5:45:41 AM | The only reason why I wouldn't go down on a girl if she's not into that sort of thing and that it doesn't do anything to her.
But I would go down on Lauren anytime. Hopefully for him he won't let her down. | |
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sarahb
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Joined: 2/26/2005
Msg: 91 | |
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klasno
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Joined: 3/23/2005
Msg: 92 | |
| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/6/2005 8:22:17 AM | | now if it was someone like sarha.ooo hell ya.so actually im thinking the person has alot to do with it too.till you eyes turned colors sarah.now someone like janit reno...is someone calling me.if it bugs you that bad find someone who will | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/6/2005 10:17:12 AM | | He should. I'm used to having men live in my pants. However among some, one guy wouldn't but I forgave him... now there is someone else (after and he has never done it. But I think since I asked him, he's thinking about it so it's Ok. I'm used to being spoiled in that department otherwise, without having to reciprocate. So if he doesn't, then you shouldn't. | |
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Judgie
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Joined: 1/25/2005
Msg: 94 | |
| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/6/2005 10:23:50 AM | You definitley getting a bad deal....
You seem to be out to please and so should your man. Personally, I could do nothing then go down on a woman and feel satified - I love it! Well, okay. Maybe it's a good opener but it has to be a a two way street. Give and take. We all need a little lovin'
My advise, tell him that you need it and that he should get into the groove. He doesn't know the fun times he's been missing! | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/6/2005 10:41:49 AM | | Try giving him one of those mint breath strip things, they totaly hide any taste/smell and you'll like the cool feeling, trust me. | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/6/2005 11:06:32 AM | | I think that would mess up the Ph Balance. Thats why women shouldn't have any scents, soap heavily (it cleans itslef if its healthy) and have a diet rich of fruit. | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/6/2005 12:57:08 PM | I WOULD SIMPLY TELL HIM . . .
I WILL NO LONGER GIVE YOU HEAD
IF YOU ARE NOT WILLING TO EAT | |
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