| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 6/13/2005 8:51:48 AM | | It HAS TO BE that he doesn't know how. It's weird, looking back I was extremely nervous the first time I did it...but now, it's one of the most erotic things to me...and I'm a guy. Most men are "too manly" to admit that they need help, or don't know how to do something. You should probably try talking to him and let him know how much this means to you...then he should get it. Tell him that it gets you really worked up and that it'll be worth it for him...if you have to. Best wishes! | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 6/13/2005 9:03:52 AM | Well I can not understand why either, now personally I like a good shave, that being in place then its on.
Have him try ice cubes or any other multitude of toys from the local shop to get him going, I am sure once he is going it will be fine from there. | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 6/13/2005 9:30:26 AM | I don't think he's got a clue. Either:
1) hes an oral virgin
2) he did it really bad first time up and its given him a complex.
If you can convince him to try it you may have to be very patient and give some (alot) of guidance...the convincing is tricky...does he now his way round? (precisely) with his hands...could start there, masturbate, with his hand on top of yours to show him what you like....and then work on getting him to know your anatomy (very well)...familiarity to exactly what sort of touch and where may give him the confidence to try it. Maybe even using the tongue on the inner thighs as part of the training, and using tongue on other areas where it feels good for you (using extras like for eg ice of course). This may give him the confidence with his tongue to try it. Perhaps even watching on video/DVD, looking at manuals whatever it takes. Maybe I'm barking up the wrong tree and he's just one of these guys who just can't stomach the idea...poor you.
This all sounds like b*llshit to me, I'm just rambling...I just got on with it when the occasion first arose for me to do it...Yeah its nervy first time up but then so is full on sex!
If not just sit on his face, he'll soon realise what he's missing.
Failing that dump him. You give what he wants does not equal what he gives what you want at the moment. Get what you deserve  | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 6/13/2005 9:32:08 AM | | Move on, he's selfish and too young to know whats right and wrong. If you stay you deserve what you don't get. Hon you're missing out on the best of life and the other things to come in it. As a man i hope you don't think we are represented by him in his behavior with you. Good luck | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 6/13/2005 9:40:53 AM | i've been in that situation before...tried just not going down on him, but i love it to much lol
my advice is to talk about it with him, if things don't change and its important to you, find someone else who will give you what you want sexually. | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 6/13/2005 10:14:10 AM | I've almost forgotten about this thread. We've moved past that. He's a quick learner. He really loves going down on me. He's a wonderful guy. I've shown him so MANY pathways to pleasure. Yep, my Tommy is a former virgin alright. There's so
much that he didn't know about sex, love and pleasure. I love him so much. He's still discovering new things every day and I feel like I've done it all. Things are okay between us. | |
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klasno
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Joined: 3/23/2005
Msg: 183 | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 6/16/2005 11:36:52 AM | | i would say you give you get the better you give the better you get! i think those should be house rules in every household!!! | |
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klasno
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Joined: 3/23/2005
Msg: 185 | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 6/16/2005 11:54:47 AM | | Honestly I think he's nuts. Going down on a woman is just as good as intercourse and sometimes even better. The taste, smell, and heat drive me crazy. Some cultures think is wrong. Their loss. | |
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7times
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Joined: 4/11/2005
Msg: 190 | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 6/17/2005 4:48:27 AM | | aslong as you keep rpim and proper cleanliness....shouldnt be any problemsss...........i love it ......dod it for hours............. | |
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Joined: 5/17/2005
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 6/17/2005 4:11:18 PM | I would persanlly just shove his face there...
Or no no!!!!!!!
I would wait till he falls asleep then so gently get on top of his face.... NAH!!!!!!!! Just kiddin'
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 6/17/2005 6:13:52 PM | Be like: "if you were a women, do it like you would want it."
Has any women had a guy that wasn't good at it? | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 6/19/2005 8:21:00 PM | | If he won't go down on you .... find out if it is a hygiene reason...if all is clear, find someone who will | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 6/19/2005 8:22:50 PM | Dump 'em....
My #1 Sexual Dealbreaker
(other than him dressing up in women's clothing, lmfao) | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 6/19/2005 8:25:56 PM | Hey if he isn't going down on me?
Then he shouldn't expect me to go down on him.
As long as he makes up for it with fantabulous knee weakening animalistic jungle sex?
I'm a happy Huntress... | |
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