| Losing faith in women...
Posted: 5/20/2005 7:39:08 PM | Wow..talk about angry and bitter..
I happen to be an honest, trustworthy woman...I have been lied to, cheated on and used as well....however, I dont lump all men in the same catagory..never will..there are some really honest and caring men out there that have been just a hurt. I take the relationships I build very seriously...friendships or otherwise and all I wish from someone is the same...respect and honesty...if someone can give me that...then things will work out as they should and we will each value the other even more...Some things dont work out because one, either they arent meant to, there just isnt a connection, or two, the bitternes of one party or another gets in the way...leaving said person alone and bitter...for the rest of their lives... | |
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| Losing faith in women...
Posted: 5/20/2005 7:40:47 PM | ALL the women 've taken out over the past 15 years; Has one thing in common;
They ALL want to know----just what THEY get out of it;
NOT what can we do together;---------BUT what they get out of the relationship;
And I haven't found one that doesn't LIE; | |
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| Losing faith in women...
Posted: 5/21/2005 12:20:08 AM | see alot of guys don't want to hear the trueth but she is right about that one thing most men do that . but again times have change and it has nothing to do with women's lib . we women do have feelings and just like you men there are some of us that don't like being toyed with as iam sure everyone is sick of games thats why they are looking dateing and meeting the right one isn't easy and besides in a relateship life isn't always easyto figure out and some times we want to give up and lose faith but thats not a good idea just keep trying .
i heard lots of men say women only want guys that have money and not all women are out for money or matieral belongings i for one make my own way i don't need any one to surport me so please stop saying all women it seems us women get blame for everything just as iam sure you men feel the way you do and the thing is noone is the same just because we been hurt due to what ever shouldn't lable everyone else the same thats not fair. | |
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| Losing faith in women...
Posted: 5/21/2005 7:20:17 AM | Got to agree there Roxy. I have my own money and if I let some-one pay my way they think they own me or control me. That is never gonna happen. I been self-supporting since age 12, I'd be a fool to start letting some man pay my way now. It was actually my dad, who taught me that too. A wonderful guy who is still alive and doing quite well.
As for material things, if you can hold it in your hand it ain't worth nothing to you. You can't take that to the grave with you. IMHO only.
Now all that said, as Dr. Phil says, "No-body does anything, unless there is a Pay-off for them." It may be emotional needs fulfilled, money, material possesions, sex, spiritual fulfillment, even just as shallow as wanting a mate who compliments them in looks, etc. But you can bet there is no-one alive who does not get something from every satisfying relationship they find. The only pure one-way love I have ever seen is a mother for her children. Also the child for the mother. Even that does not exist in every mother-child relationship.
Ultimately we all must accept blame for every thing we create in our own lives. Remember, you married the SOB, you had the kids, you made the date, you bought the house, you bought the lemon car, you borrowed the freaking money to gegin with, you took that stupid job, etc. That's your STUFF! All the rest is their STUFF! We cannot control 1 thing beyond the end of our own nose. It just ain't possible. All solutions begin within our selves. Like it or not. | |
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| Losing faith in women...
Posted: 5/21/2005 8:03:30 AM | | Sorry dude but they just like to play us so they can take as much as they can,and move to the next guy......... | |
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| Losing faith in women...
Posted: 5/21/2005 8:08:15 AM | | hey, random...reach waaaaaaaaaaayyyy back in your day, and find about 20 females that you've slept with and never called back.you AIN'T innocent, so back up.k? | |
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Posted: 5/21/2005 8:15:02 AM | | sorry to disagree not a player............but in my case I have always been the one taken. They take what they can get from me and move on. My previous 2 relationships really killed me financially. But, yes I let it happen so I am just as much to blame. There are also men in it just for the taking and not only sex. | |
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| Losing faith in women...
Posted: 5/21/2005 10:36:15 AM | | i have to disagree with you...notaplayer...sorry. But i dont need anything from a man for i do quite well on my own. As for the gifts ...dinners.....jewelry and all...just materials things..u men like to shower woman with....so look for someone whos not into material things in life...that easy. | |
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Posted: 5/21/2005 10:37:45 AM | men take advantage of woman too..big time...using them and to leave them an emotional wreck. | |
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Posted: 5/21/2005 3:20:50 PM | thanks not a player....it was all i had left in the house the day i took this pic to wear...(it was laundry day) | |
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| Losing faith in women...
Posted: 5/21/2005 7:41:29 PM | Unfortunately, you're running into the same problems I am. ...Are there really and truly any real people here? Out for no games?
Linda | |
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Posted: 5/21/2005 9:00:17 PM | | Hey guy i was reading all your messages on Losing faith in women. in my opinion all you men with rude comments towards women should grow up. Maybe it's time you stop blaming women for all your insecurites. Maybe if you guys were more mature you'd know how to handle rejection. | |
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Posted: 5/26/2005 11:26:21 AM | I don't think it has to with rejection per say, i think it has more to do with the roller coaster of confusion women leave guys with. I know a lot of guys are pretty bad too (i know some and it makes me sick), however from what i have observed, if your a guy and a woman is interested in you, you have to watch for all these signs, and body language etc, so it is harder being a guy approaching a woman. Not to mention even if a guy does approach a woman, 9 times outta ten the woman already has her back up and is thinking oh god not another one. Basically it comes down to this, we are programmed differently, we have different ways of showing interest, but we will never progress as humans if all we do is play games with people.
Just my two and a half cents
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Posted: 5/26/2005 2:50:36 PM | Dang, Shore I didn't know I was miserable, did you? I know I'm single . . . but that is sorta by design.
Miserable? I think I'll have another margarita, flirt with a waiter half my age, get into my little red sports car, drive to my precious farmhouse and think about that awhile. LOL!
Miserably yours,
Rapunzel | |
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Posted: 5/26/2005 4:15:03 PM | Trust is the biggest most useless thing i was taught in school or in life....there is no room in this world for trust ..to be honest we are aminals and like animals we have to be trained an eve then we mess up.......
you will be human even when you claim you wont lie or do whatever like and animal even the well trained ones everyone makes mistakes....
men can be bad tastless liars...but most men are dogs straight up and most of anytime its the women hoping that,ll he,ll change...
but the difference is you can tell a bs ***hole guy from far away if you have a commin know how about life...but a women ...well they can lie just that same but with them ..they wont go out and act like and ass ..they are more clever about there lies...
women can seem so genuine in there lies a trait that only well trained men in this world can pull off ...see a man can say something even the better male liars can but most they get by with slick lies is ..they think of commin sense reason such and such can be true and hense..
a women will tell ya a huge sounding like bullshit lie..hense its bullshit if a man tells it cuz a woman can take bullshit add her genuine flair and bam it seems true.....
women do lie more well mabe think about there lies more then men....
but women do lie more i checked out studies done and done by "WOMEN".....out of five hundred studies done from across the globe and from big schools....say that 62% of males they talked to lie alot ....100% of the women after long interviews with males and women ...100% lie alot out of five hundred studies with over thousand women interviewed in every study all five hundred studies shows this as and average percent 100% in every case go study up kids then you can say what you want ..
that should shut you all up lol  | |
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| Losing faith in women...
Posted: 5/26/2005 4:33:32 PM | | Some women are just plain emontional crazy. That why so many of them get abuse,miss use and dog out. | |
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joe46
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Joined: 5/19/2005
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| Losing faith in women...
Posted: 5/27/2005 5:18:02 AM | "ARE THERE ANY ACTUAL HONEST WOMEN ON THIS MISERABLE ROCK?"
Look under the rock.
Get used to reading fake talk and the rock will be lifted and reveal real women. | |
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Posted: 5/31/2005 10:11:45 AM | | You just attract those types apparently. It's not about them. It's about you. | |
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| Losing faith in women...
Posted: 6/10/2005 10:36:51 AM | | I believe that there are women out there that are sincere and don't play games...but we guys can't claim the moral high ground here my friend.....games are played on both sides of the field.. | |
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Posted: 6/10/2005 6:55:49 PM | you know what, tairis? you can walk around , all your life dropping your innocent little trust as much as you want...but i'am very cautious of people.i've been hurt, many times, and i'am only going by the percentage of what i've been through in 33 yrs.i'am dealing with reality... | |
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Posted: 6/11/2005 10:20:04 PM | | I have an opinion on this. You ask those guys in that study WHY they tell women lies, and i would bet money that they do it because they feel that women in america have started to have TO HIGH of an expectation of men, that if a man tells a women," yeah, i work in construction", she will shoot him down like a towel head at a plane! But if you tell them that you OWN a construction company, THEN they will tell you what time it is, and depending on how BIG your company is, you might actually score! It is all a big game for every body now! The divorce rate for an americans to another american is %60 percent!!! NOW< the divorce rate for an american man, to lets say a russian or phillipino wife, only %20 percent! These are ACTUAL I.N.S studies. So, as far as i am concerned, i will never marry an american woman. I dont hate or dispise you ladies, so hold the hate mail! You know most of you DO expect to much from men! especially looks, and yeah, i AM one ugly **stard! But i can live with myself! | |
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Posted: 6/11/2005 10:28:27 PM | | i will also point out that i DO NOT THINK all women are this way. ALOT of women will take the BEST qualities in a man , and spin it aroun into something negative. I say he is a hard working man< SHE says he is obsessed with work!! See my point? So then a women decides that her man is an a** hole, and i have seen friends girls do this, start to make false accusations, cuz every body knows that a man will say to hell with it, and do as he is being ACCUSED of, and then the woman can go to her friends and say she was right, he IS an a**hole after all. I have been thru this for 5 years now, but i DO LOVE WOMEN DEARLY, we just got our shit ALLLLL screwed up in this country!! | |
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