| Losing faith in women...
Posted: 6/11/2005 10:39:22 PM | | I always have to wonder who these greedy, stuck up women are that guys like you rant about, and where you meet them. They are not like any women I know - and I know women from 18 up to my age. | |
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| Losing faith in women...
Posted: 6/12/2005 3:09:15 AM | hmmmm...noones written here for awhile..
well, I understand what ratpac1 said .
I believe that womens lib was spitting in the wind. It's a very clear case of be careful what you wish for.
I wouldn't have burned my bra ( I like these pretty things )
I cannot do many jobs a man does at the same level as he can.
I need a mans strength knowing that my strength is in femininity.
I love being a woman with all dimensions.
On topic, MY OPINION is that immature females are more preoccupied with having as many people shower them with attentions than to open their heart to any one with truth . They have a distorted image that men are disposable and without the same feelings of betrayel, neglect,hurt.
It's really sad that anyone will waste your time with lies. they are wasting as much of their own time. If you have any special interest, you might try being part of a site that is about that not a dating site...you find people who werent looking for superficial, but find you .
I hope I wasn't rambling again..
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Posted: 6/12/2005 4:04:57 AM | Hey, I'm having this problem with men...I think that the rules have changed. I'm 27 and I actually never knew that there had to be rules with this whole dating thing...To me, it's common sense to be with the one you are dating or going out with. I don't understand the whole "I like you and I want you to call me and I want to spend time with you" thing when it precedes the, "Well, I like you, but...." phase. I've been running into guys with girlfriends. They want to cheat on them with me...and some of these guys have some amazingly good qualities. But how can you be with someone for real and then cheat on the side? Girls and guys definitely have problems. I think I've given up....
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Posted: 3/6/2006 7:10:33 PM | ok ...ok....perhaps I'm guilty of stereo typing,out of my own past experience. perhaps it is indeed "people"....and not just women, hell I know plenty of dirtbag guys.All I can say is If you cant be yourself, what in the hell are you doing wasting others time?the world is full of Ignorant(look it up)people.No guts ....No glory."I can be myself.....How bout you?"(FastBall) | |
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Posted: 3/6/2006 7:39:10 PM | HaHa, yep! Ok, guys, if you go out tonight on a date and everything goes just swell, you are really into the girl and all that jazz, you want to see her again, be together, what is the one and only thing that will suddenly change your mind, make you not return calls, e-mails, etc.?
That's right! Guess what? That's right!!!!! She found someone she wants more than you!
And disreguard all the excuses offered up. "I/She needs some time to think about it, I/She/he didn't realize what I/she/he was getting into, Things going to fast,etc., etc." BULLSHIT! They just don't want to be with you! They got someone else, period. You need to say "**** it" and move along. Guarantee that this woman was in another guys bed the next night, or at least out with him. Same goes with all the rest of the woman and guys involved with the treatment described. Go fish! | |
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Posted: 3/6/2006 7:53:48 PM | Wait a minute folks .. I am no liar, have a heart of gold , over 40 , and am enjoying life to the max .. all of my experience has taught me well enough to enjoy the people I like well enough.. and if you all take a moment to scroll back .. Late said it best. Brovo Late  | |
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Posted: 3/7/2006 7:08:13 AM | | the original post was right on. although i knew the poor guy was going to be attacked incessantly by all the screaming feminnazis and their favorite word "generalization" and how can it be a generalization when the majority rules? most women are skanks who jump on any pecker than they can. they are the ones who ruined my 12 year relationship with the same woman by comvincing her that she would be better - like them. then they married the 1st dumb **stard that would marry them. hope my ex learned. dumb whore | |
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Posted: 3/7/2006 7:12:16 AM | be thankful you did not date the women for a year first....
Yeah it sucks people do it all the time... I am sure that I am guilty myself....
things happen, pick yourself up and be thankful that she did not leave you at the alter...
and the best thing to do is get faith in yourself... instead of losing it in others...
Women are great, women are liars... so are men... life used to be short and brutal, now it is just longer...;)
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| Losing faith in women...
Posted: 3/7/2006 7:34:50 AM | | Don't take it so bad. She is not worth it. Alot of men do the same thing. | |
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Posted: 3/7/2006 7:35:10 AM | | I have found that some people..men and women alike arent really looking for that one special person....they are caught up in the "thrill of the chase". They love to see who they can catch....a simple cheap thrill, no matter who they hurt. | |
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Posted: 3/7/2006 7:50:52 AM | | SIMPLE FACT - if a man has 13 inch pecker, 600 billion in the banks, and worships who he is with, the woman will still go for a guy that would have a 14 inch pecker, 600,000,0001, even if the guy treats her like shit. they always want more or are going to see if they can get it. | |
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Posted: 3/7/2006 8:03:30 AM | PETE,
come on..thats a little stereotypical dont u think...or perhaps its just your experience..I for one simply like a guy for who he is..not what he can provide for me..and im sure im not alone. | |
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Posted: 3/7/2006 8:11:57 AM | | my first post said, the majority rules. and the majority of women are this way. and it is not only my experience. i work and know many men that can relate to this. and many of us all know who the "office skank" is | |
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Posted: 3/7/2006 8:53:02 AM | | My appologies for missing your original post....but even sayin the majority is a bit over the edge in my opinion. But by the same token there are many men out there that ive spoken to who are either deadbeats, or simply lazy who look for a woman to take care of them...so i suppose its safe to say that there are many golddiggers out there...of both sexes. | |
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Posted: 3/7/2006 9:18:47 AM | | Not a player I could say the same thing about men, because men have done to me what woman have done to you! I am independent and take care of myself, my father who is 90 and blind since he was 13 taught me, nobody is gona take better care of me than MYSELF. Yes I am over 50 independent, dating, liking myself, and enjoying life until and perhaps even if I am lucky enough to meet someone. However, I refuse to let ANYONE make me miserable, unhappy, jaded and mistrusting, because if I do all of those jerks have won and I have let them win. I refuse to let them change who I AM. | |
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Posted: 3/7/2006 9:58:27 AM | And Men?
I can really relate to what you're saying! It's not only bubble bursting but confusing and heart breaking. It's not only women.... but men do this too!
They start out by saying all the right things, making you feel that you really have a true connection. They share beautiful dreams for the future, making you believe that their feelings for you are as strong as your feelings for them.
Chemistry is truly heavenly   
And......... Then ..........they....,.....for..........no......apparent reason......throw the whole thing down the toilet!
You know what this tells me? They never loved us anyway. AND it's better to find that out now than after loving them longer. Life is short, and we're important, we don't need these kind of people wasting our time. They can't recognize love and are probubly so self-centered or afraid they don't even know they just ran over our hearts.
The only thing a bad relationship is good for....... is.......KEEPING A GOOD RELATIONSHIP AWAY! GOOD LUCK AND CONSIDER YOURSELF ALREADY LUCKY. Move on to greener pastures and don't give your precious heart away so quickly. Test the waters. Anything worth having is worth working for! I hope I can follow my own good advice the next time I fall in love with MR. SELFISH hiding under a PRINCE CHARMING disguise. PRiquena58  | |
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Posted: 3/7/2006 10:12:24 AM | | Well don't give up yet, I agree American women have a bleeden hole thier gona run the whole world with. Know what I mean? Now on another contenet, lets say Ukraine the women are true and good women. If the **** doesn't answer quit calling, find another! | |
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Posted: 3/7/2006 7:22:08 PM | You know, I came to this thread just to get a little insight into a person who had emailed me. I saw he had posted here and I generally like to get an idea of what a person might be like by seeing how they interact in the forums.
This thread made me sad...his post was totally inoffensive and was very practical but after reading so many people's thoughts I'm left feeling really uneasy about getting back out there. So much negativity!! It just kind makes me lose the mood.
Oh, and about trust...alot of people seem to look at trust like it is a lightswitch, either on or off. That, to me, seems like going about the practice of trusting in a highly impractical way. It's sort of the "flipping a coin" approach. I've always thought it made more sense to give out my trust in a more personalized way. I feel trust directly proportional to the amount of evidence there is to base it on. It's my responsibility to keep my eyes open and pay attention to the details to determine if the other person is trustworthy. At the same time it is my responsibility to demonstrate to people I interact with that I am trustworthy. I don't expect any intelligent person to 100% trust me immediately, but they shouldn't presume I am out to do bad either. And if over time, I take care to be a trustworthy person, I expect to be treated as one. In return, I will show them the same respect.
Why does it have to be all or nothing? And why can't people just be nice to each other?
Please note - the gentleman's post which brought me here was neither negative or about trust and my ill mood was in no way brought about by him.
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Posted: 3/7/2006 10:26:00 PM | what rock is that? you talkin bout newfoundland?
but yeah, I lost faith in women a long time ago....no matter how young or old they are...they just don't have the decency to reply with...not interested....takes like 5 seconds of their time.....
and another thing that bugs me is.......many of the younger ones have such a problem with the age issue.....age is but a number in today's world......and the older ones, need to get a bit of a grip on reality that not all men are bad.....there are actually some great guys around. | |
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Posted: 3/8/2006 2:51:53 AM | I am confused funlovingfella... what happened with this lady was just over a period of one night? Did you two have something already started, as in, were you two dating before 'the night'? If it was a one night 'thing', well, that's all it was. Some people (men or women) need the romantic fantasy of deep luv to get aroused or in control, or to inflate their small heads into big ones. In any case, some people (men and women) are intense but with no substance, so, they will say all this bonding statements, which in fact, die with at dust.
I personally have nothing against using toys and accessories when playing the love game, however, I worry when the toy happens to be another human being. I have done it, but at least, I did answer the phone afterwards to say thank you but not thank you. Just call me playful.
If there was not previous dating/relationship, you might just be feeling the disappointment from a bleeding ego.
Good luck, you will recover soon hopefully.
Trixie
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Posted: 3/24/2006 10:19:59 AM | I have to take exception to a comment made here, having met this person in real life:
She said "Wait a minute folks .. I am no liar, have a heart of gold , over 40 , and am enjoying life to the max"
How about, I chat with her onine and in voice for a few days, she seems nice and we decide to meet for coffee... funnily enough, the directions I get as to where to meet for coffee end up with me in a strip mall next to a red lobster restaurant.
Apparently she's hungry so we go into red lobster, instead of a coffee shop have dinner and what seems to me to be a good time, pleasant conversation etc. run up a bill of $150 in the process. More that I'd thought a coffee date would run to.
I'm not sure what to do at this point, so I get the bill and figure she's going to offer to pay her half.
Nope, wrong, she doesn't say a word about splitting the bill, even though it's a first meeting and the change in the choice of venue is her idea. I walk her back to her car, peck on the cheek and head home.
Next message I get is that she doesn't think she wants to see me again.
My reaction to that is " Why on earth didn't she decide that before using me for a free night out?"
Her response? "I didn't realise until after we'd left the restaurant."
I put it down to experience, until I met another lady from POF who'd spoken to another guy who had almosty the exact same story to tell, and from what she told me, it was the same scammer!
Needless to say, I was a little more cautious about going dutch after that episode.
Don't listen to what people say, they're like used car salesmen here :)
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Posted: 3/25/2006 9:13:55 AM | | It's easier to face then her telling you right to your face. Nothing more humilating then rejection right then and there, especially when your falling for them.....I guess it's just an easier way of letting you move on to find someone else more compatible. | |
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Posted: 3/30/2006 7:57:58 PM | | hey maybe you should spend time with someone before you lose the one that good for you | |
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Posted: 3/30/2006 8:16:46 PM | | I totally agreewith you. attaching blame make you less of a person than the one who did that to you. When that happens you need to stop and look at what you want to have in life, not what your willing to settle for | |
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Posted: 3/31/2006 8:16:10 AM | wow! some of the comments on this are incredible-so touchy!
it boils down to this- people suck and God never said it would be easy.
yes, this country is messed up- no one knows their place (male or female) in a family setting
or otherwise because everyone is trying to do it all and be great at it. were all gonna
multi-task ourselves to death before we learn how to take a minute and breath and wussify our kids with the care bear movement while other countries are laughing at us for following our kids crying "wear your helmet!"
both of the sexes suck-were just people-for the good and the bad. you get hurt, you move on. sometimes it takes longer. but were not suppose to be looking for our other halves, remember? were suppose to be whole people looking for our compliments.
don't lose hope-you don't want to scare any chances away with bitterness.
whatever happens just remember to keep a part for yourself-it's easier to build on if it falls. | |
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