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Posted: 7/7/2007 7:54:35 AM | | I have the same problem that many others are suggesting: I am a touchy feely person, but the survey results say that I don't like to be touched. Touching to me is a wonderful sense if attention. A light touch as one walks by or holding hands as we take a walk, leaves me feeling connected and cared about. I would be grateful if this could be fixed; finding a person who enjoys giving or receiving this kind of attention would be a fabulous outcome of my experience on POF. | |
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Posted: 7/7/2007 8:32:42 AM | well, it was pritty close to what i thought it would be......just wish there was more men who would apresiate women now days...it seems mose men just want a quick fix..although they take this test they don't listen to it and well thats men for ya....god help us pore women...we don't like the games but, it seems men just need that temporary fix and then sleep alone time can't they just get with it.....it would save alot of time......men: if you want a one niter go to a bar not the internet.....if you want a real loving careing person then give a real lady a try, you just might get more sex that way...and quit cheating , if you tend to need that get a divorce or tell your wife you need more to your relationship..she just might try to go for it.....what do you think.....by the way the FAQ at the end of the test it don't work on my computer so fix it..........have a good one..whooo....had to get that out..sorry i am a real sweetheart but, i do communicate the good with the bad...   | |
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Posted: 7/7/2007 8:53:14 AM | | I just completed the assessment and the last part is backwards! I am totally NOT interested in gifts and really love and need physical touch and words of affirmation. I may have clicked the wrong buttons? Can this be fixed? If not, I won't add it to my profile. Thanks, AM | |
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Posted: 7/7/2007 9:27:56 AM | | The Probing Questions feature is excellent. It reminds me of couple counseling, which I went through once before. The relationship didn't work out (we were young), but I will never forget the structured dialog. It takes a lot of work to ask -and answer searching questions. These are not "personal" questions, like revealing compromising information would be. It's a maturity test. | |
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Posted: 7/7/2007 9:58:31 AM | Hi,
How do I assess my assessment ...I guess I will need to get assessed somewhere  Sounds interesting.... I am quite curious....you know what they say... curiousity killed the cat .. satisifaction brought it back
Can not help it... it's just the way that I Are 
Thanks mystymorn lady below my post 
Wow, that is a lot of assessing to do...is there a doctor in the house?  | |
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Posted: 7/7/2007 10:30:38 AM | I to found the assesment very illuminating but again, like so many others the "pysical touching was way out"....I am probably the most touchy feely person I know...I did think the questions to ask will be very helpful as well.
thanks for another great addidtion to the site | |
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Posted: 7/7/2007 10:30:57 AM | I to found the assesment very illuminating but again, like so many others the "pysical touching was way out"....I am probably the most touchy feely person I know...I did think the questions to ask will be very helpful as well.
thanks for another great addidtion to the site | |
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Posted: 7/7/2007 10:42:14 AM | My bottom line is not correct... I love getting giftz and all that jazz.
I think the questionz should be more direct, not twisted so you have to say no to really mean yes and vise versa.  | |
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Posted: 7/7/2007 10:59:43 AM | | Wow and I thought it was going to say I was in search of a woman who could suck a tennis ball through a drinking straw. LOL Seriously, it was right on the money re: my feelings about relationships. I must say that this site is pretty amazing. Hard to believe you can do it for free. I've met some amazing people here, engaged in great discourse and now I have taken all of these psychological tests to explain the inner workings of my demented mind. Fun stuff. | |
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Posted: 7/7/2007 11:25:17 AM | | I finished the test and found it to be quite accurate. A little hint...before you submit the test, re-read the test. You may want to change a few answers, lol. | |
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Posted: 7/7/2007 11:31:38 AM | ""Out of the various modes of expressing affection, you scored as someone who responds least to Physical Touch. Bottom line: You need someone who is not overly touchy-feely – such as frequent tickles, constantly holding hands, public hugs and kisses or light touches as s/he passes by""
I have to agree with the other posters...I responded to this part of the assessment (the needing physical touch, etc...) as "most like me" and the test said that I did not like to be touched...seems to be a glitch in your test...might want to look into that. Personally, I don't want to post my test with results stating the opposite of the way I am. | |
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Posted: 7/7/2007 12:19:59 PM | Flotsam, you are right I believe - I think some of my question/answers were reversed in meaning.
Website folks, please repair this and allow us to RETAKE the test. | |
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Posted: 7/7/2007 12:39:08 PM | i agree slowneasy when i saw my answers i was shocked.. says idont like touching, which is not true... made me sound like i always want gifts which is not true.. I prefer something from the heart not the wallet.
I hope we can redo the test or they let us remove it. | |
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Posted: 7/7/2007 12:48:47 PM | | Three of my answers got changed in the assessment. It does not matter as I would not be interested in anyone who was interested in this test! | |
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Posted: 7/7/2007 1:31:39 PM | | The Relationship Assessment is cool, but . . . it is not entirely clear how the include/don't include controls work. (1) The "Remove test from profile" button doesn't seem to do anything. After I click this, the message should switch to "Add test to profile," yes? (2) The "Add summary" link seems to put/remove the word "View" in my profile. The full-length profile results never get published, then? The two controls just put the summary into view or not? In that case, I think the upper link should read "Remove summary of test results from profile."--PW | |
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Posted: 7/7/2007 1:42:40 PM | Since when is having strict moral views a negative thing?
When a question came up " I believe any expression of sexuality is healthy and acceptable between two consenting adults." I answered not at all like me, cause well, coprophilia (or fecophilia) is usually a side effect or result from trauma (like being molested/raped) or mental illness... and it's part of the all emcompassing "any expression"... so then I got this:
Food for Thought! PlentyofFish wants you to know about some idiosyncrasies the assessment identified in you. These are issues for you to contemplate on your own or explore with a professional relationship/dating coach.
Issues you seem to Under-value
I believe any expression of sexuality is healthy and acceptable between two consenting adults. Possible reasons you responded this way include negative motivations and positive motivations. On the negative side, it could mean that you have emotional baggage from past relationships, that you have low self esteem or that you have extremely strict moral views. On the positive side, it could mean that you have a realistic view of current life events and circumstances or that you abide by your moral principles.
Aren't moral values something that a society needs to continue to exist? Are the admin's of POF stating that it is negative and wrong to have morals? Cause that's what I got from it. Even to put the possibility in there as "On the negative side, it could mean... ...or that you have extremely strict moral views." Suggests that having firm morals is viewed as a bad thing.
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Posted: 7/7/2007 1:49:27 PM | | I took the test for the only reason I could not get rid of it asking me to complete the test. I should not have done it because now everybody can see the results and I don't want that and would like it to be removed from my profile and everybody elses as well. I don't want others to see my results. The last part of the questioneer I missinterputed and answered them wrong according to the out come that they have posted. I am totally disappointed as to what others are reading. | |
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Posted: 7/7/2007 2:50:41 PM | Someone go to my profile and see if u can access that darn thing I try to delete it but it still comes up...please k I am such a suck I don't want people to think I am not touchy feely anymore sigh, I am so sweet, gentle loving kind, adoring, cute, MODEST, individual who DOES NOT need nor want gifts SIGH please is it still on my profile let me know k....
fiesty angel
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Posted: 7/7/2007 3:01:39 PM | | The perferred method of expression has been updated slightly. To make it more clear, as people were getting hung up on some of the wording. | |
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Posted: 7/7/2007 3:15:03 PM | Just read the new wording & sorry, it can be worded in whatever other ways are chosen and it would STILL not be consistent with my personality or my preferences. (And believe me, this is not due to my "not knowing what I really want" or "not knowing who I really am"; my level of self-awareness is pretty darned high.)
Admin, please perform this test: since you (ostensibly) know which answer patterns should produce which assessments (for "Preferred Expressions of Affection"), enter the answers that SHOULD yield an preference assessment of "VERBAL" and see how it scores. I do not believe that this is simply a matter of the wording of the assessment; it is a matter of the code for the scoring of this section not properly reflecting the answers checked off by the test taker...
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